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Gay or Not gay? game.... *ongoing thread*

actinanass

actinanass

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*got this thanks to the genius of B.A.D. radio on 1310 the ticket in Dallas/Fort Worth*

Basically this is how it works, if you see a situation, face with a situation, or listen to a situation that happened to a friend, you post it on here. We *sol/bgol* will vote if its gay or not. This is an ONGOING thread btw...

Here's my situation...

I'm thinking about what I should get my girl for V-day. One of my co-workers was suggesting to me that I should take her to a spa. I really didn't care about taking her to a spa, or whatever so I thought that was a good idea. He was talking about the time when he, and his wife went to a spa for their anniversary. I looked at him with confusion because I thought it was weird that he went to a spa with his wife. I was really confused when he explain that it was a type of spa that mostly women go to.....

So is it gay to go to a spa with your wife/gf/jumpoff?
 
First off, jumpoffs dont get taken anywhere but to the bedroom. . .or couch. . .or wherever yall fucking.

I have never been to a spa with a gf but I have sent one to a spa. I dont think its gay or nothin. Just something I aint never done​
 
Nah that's not gay. Mostly women are the one's that go to any spa because men are afraid of all that pampering shit. Because they think it makes them look gay! :lol:

I'll tell you what may be gay...

I went to the store today with my girl and I saw this BAD female just eyeing me up and down like she just wanted to tear my damn clothes off. I'm like SHIIIIIIIIIIIT. But I'm with my girl. :cool: So she comes down a couple of aisles like she is following us or some shit and I notice that my girl kind of left me alone at some point to look at something else :rolleyes: and ol' girl proceeds to walk right by me and rolls up on my GIRL!!! :eek:

They talk for like two seconds and I hear my girl say, "That's not my brother that's my man." So I'm still in there. :cool: Then I heard her say, "Ah, no ma'am." and walk off. Come to find out the girl wasn't looking at me like that but at my GIRL!!! :eek:

What has this world come to! :lol:
 
Andeyhollawho said:
Nah that's not gay. Mostly women are the one's that go to any spa because men are afraid of all that pampering shit. Because they think it makes them look gay! :lol:

I'll tell you what may be gay...

I went to the store today with my girl and I saw this BAD female just eyeing me up and down like she just wanted to tear my damn clothes off. I'm like SHIIIIIIIIIIIT. But I'm with my girl. :cool: So she comes down a couple of aisles like she is following us or some shit and I notice that my girl kind of left me alone at some point to look at something else :rolleyes: and ol' girl proceeds to walk right by me and rolls up on my GIRL!!! :eek:

They talk for like two seconds and I hear my girl say, "That's not my brother that's my man." So I'm still in there. :cool: Then I heard her say, "Ah, no ma'am." and walk off. Come to find out the girl wasn't looking at me like that but at my GIRL!!! :eek:

What has this world come to! :lol:
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its called ATLANTA......
 
Spa = not gay? What is gay about letting someone rub you down and get you nice and limber while your wife lays next to you receiving the same treatment???


Andey : :lol::lol::lol::lol: DAMN
 
These 2 guys at work would go everywhere together even to the bathroom. One supposedly married. True story.
 
Why not bring the spa to you and her in the privacy of your own place? Very romantic....

Sorry networking here:D
 
Andeyhollawho said:
The name of the thread is the "gay" or "not gay" thread! :lol:

This shit is suspect gay. That's my final answer by the way actin! :lol:
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thanx man...


blunt dont try to take things so fucking literal. Talking to you is like talking to Tipper Gore about hip hop....
 
Andeyhollawho said:
Again which is "gay" in relation to this thread. You really need to read!
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I think this thread is about DUBIOUSLY "gay" matters (thus the question mark) and not things that are OBVIOUSLY and OVERTLY "gay." If someone announces loudly through their actions that they are "gay" (and quite confident about it) then what question is there left to ponder? If a woman blatantly tries to pick up your girlfriend, then what exactly are you in doubt about? I think your answer was in your own story.

:smh:
 
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Blunt said:
I think this thread is about DUBIOUSLY "gay" matters (thus the question mark) and not things that are OBVIOUSLY and OVERTLY "gay." If someone announces loudly through their actions that they are "gay" (and quite confident about it) then what question is there left to ponder?
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I said at the beginning that what actin said was NOT gay and that I was going to tell him something that was...

Thus the story...about something that was gay...in a gay or not gay thread...

Get it? Probably not. :smh:
 
Andeyhollawho said:
I said at the beginning that what actin said was NOT gay and that I was going to tell him something that was...

Thus the story...about something that was gay...in a gay or not gay thread...

Get it? Probably not.
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You said "may be gay." As if you had some doubt. Try to pay attention to your own bullshit. :rolleyes:
 
Andeyhollawho said:
It's called sarcasm. Now post up or hush up!
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So what relevance did it have to this thread? No one asked to hear another one of your self-delusional fantasies. This isn't about "experiences with gay people." Try to stay on-topic. :rolleyes:
 
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I'm trying to think why or what would make anyone think a trip to a spa with your SO is gay? Have we as men become so paranoid we no longer know what is gay and what is not? So paranoid that we now question ourselves on such a trivial matter. Damn I hope not. But this seems to be an issue only found on BGOL/SOL. I see it no where else.

Only here have I seen anal sex between a man and a woman as being described as gay. Now a trip to a spa is gay? No wonder lesbians are now running amok, women are running out of options. :smh:

The bottom line is you live your life as you see fit. Stop worrying about what others think. If its something that brings you and yours enjoyment then that is all that should matter.
 
Mo-Better said:
I'm trying to think why or what would make anyone think a trip to a spa with your SO is gay? Have we as men become so paranoid we no longer know what is gay and what is not? So paranoid that we now question ourselves on such a trivial matter. Damn I hope not. But this seems to be an issue only found on BGOL/SOL. I see it no where else.

Only here have I seen anal sex between a man and a woman as being described as gay. Now a trip to a spa is gay? No wonder lesbians are now running amok, women are running out of options. :smh:

The bottom line is you live your life as you see fit. Stop worrying about what others think. If its something that brings you and yours enjoyment then that is all that should matter.
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I think what got me was the spa he was talking about.

I'm aware that there's coed spas, however, the one he was talking about is pretty much strictly for women. So to me, it was kinda odd. I guess I didn't explain that part good enough......
 
Mo-Better said:
Are you kidding? There was 2 that got busy in the whirlpool at LA Fitness (Camp Creek) and even brought a toy. :eek:
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Shit I'm joining that one now! :dance:

Aight I got another one...This happened around a year ago.

At work...fellas all standing around shooting the shit and the topic of having sex with women came up. Somebody brought up this time when they were having sex with this "stripper" and one of his boys came in the room to try and have sex with the girl (bachelor party or some shit).

Long story short the guy who came in the room wouldn't have sex with the girl while he was in the room and dude found that shit funny as fuck. Dudes reason for not wanting to have sex while ol boy was in the room was because he didn't want ol boy to see his dick. Made sense to me.

IMMEDIATELY ol boy starts talking about dude must got a little dick. :eek: About 5 of us out there and nobody laughed, but dude just kept on about dude not wanting to show his dick. Finally one dude cosigned him and the rest of us are looking like WTF???

Why are you so concerned with this man's dick? Some people said later that I was overreacting but seriously I'm not trying to be in a room with a guy who is upset because I won't whip my dick out in front of him even if it is to have sex with a woman. :smh:

I thought this shit was gay.
 
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melonpecan said:
:eek:


What part of Atlanta was you in? All the gay chicks I knew round these parts weren't that bold...
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I was in CP...off Old National. :smh:

I just thought the shit was kind of bold and had never really seen it like that before. Especially seeing how she misread the shit so bad. I think she just didn't give a fuck and decided to try anyway. :smh:
 
actinanass said:
I think what got me was the spa he was talking about.

I'm aware that there's coed spas, however, the one he was talking about is pretty much strictly for women. So to me, it was kinda odd. I guess I didn't explain that part good enough......
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No I understood that, as I said before we need to live our lives for ourselves. I live by that creed. I'm not here to please or satisfy the world. Just my family and friends are all that matter.

If your girl has been good to you then what's the problem? But in answer to your last question it is not gay to go to a spa with your woman. Since its only for women they won't let you in the back anyway. So drop her off go have a few drinks or whatever and be there to pick her up when its time.

I have no reservations about doing stuff like that. The reward will far outweigh your fears.
 
Andeyhollawho said:
Shit I'm joining that one now! :dance:

Aight I got another one...This happened around a year ago.

At work...fellas all standing around shooting the shit and the topic of having sex with women came up. Somebody brought up this time when they were having sex with this "stripper" and one of his boys came in the room to try and have sex with the girl (bachelor party or some shit).

Long story short the guy who came in the room wouldn't have sex with the girl while he was in the room and dude found that shit funny as fuck. Dudes reason for not wanting to have sex while ol boy was in the room was because he didn't want ol boy to see his dick. Made sense to me.

IMMEDIATELY ol boy starts talking about dude must got a little dick. :eek: About 5 of us out there and nobody laughed, but dude just kept on about dude not wanting to show his dick. Finally one dude cosigned him and the rest of us are looking like WTF???

Why are you so concerned with this man's dick? Some people said later that I was overreacting but seriously I'm not trying to be in a room with a guy who is upset because I won't whip my dick out in front of him even if it is to have sex with a woman. :smh:

I thought this shit was gay.
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You were right IMO why should a man worry about what another man thinks about his dick? I don't think that's overreacting but seriously this is the type of paranoia that exist with today. However I don't think that is gay. Its his personal preference.

I doubt I would want to have sex with another man in the room. That's just my preference. Nothing to do with the other man's dick. My sexual encounters have always been one on one and will always be one on one. (Unless she's wants to invite her girl friend. :D) Your boy should've said "it was his preference" and left it at that, going into details was not necessary. His reason was no ones business but his own.
 
Going to a spa with your woman is not gay, but then either is window shopping with her. Either is wearing a pink t-shirt for that matter.

Instead these things label you as a SIMP. It's like being gay except much more embarrassing and costly. Instead of having a man that you can fuck you have a woman that you CAN'T because she no longer respects you.
 

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