For The Bi Ladies On The Board...

[Hav_One]

Would you fuck your current man and one of his exes? I have done this with my fiance' and an ex of mines a couple of times now. At first my fiance' was a lil standoffish after the first time we did it. Even though she spent more time with my ex than I did( her first real time with a woman). The last few times we have been cool, with the most recent time being last night. She finally let go of her inhibitions and we really had a great time. Just asking if some of the women here would find it woerd to do so.

 

[YouLikeMyStyle]

I would NEVER have a threesome with my man and ANYBODY. I just couldn't do it. I have had threesomes with guys I used to mess with and their current girls. I respect their girls for being able to do it, but being the guest star is just better.

 

[Hav_One]

^^Thank you for your comment.^^

 

[LoneStar29]

I'd have to trust the hell out of him in order to do that ... I think with alot of men when you give 'em an inch they wanna take a mile ... I'd be afraid that a 3some would give him the excuse to start fucking girls on the side like we swingers or some shit

 

[SinaminDelite]

I don't think it's all that weird, it's just something I wouldn't do, especially if this is a guy I'm trying to have a serious relationship with.

 

[YouLikeMyStyle]

I don't think it's all that weird, it's just something I wouldn't do, especially if this is a guy I'm trying to have a serious relationship with.

co-sign

 

[eliive]

so basically a random women will fulfill the fantasy of a random dude, but not her man, the one she claims she loves?? even tho I understand it, it still make no sense to me tho

 

[LoneStar29]

so basically a random women will fulfill the fantasy of a random dude, but not her man, the one she claims she loves?? even tho I understand it, it still make no sense to me tho

For me I feel it's too threatening to have another woman please my man ... what if he likes it so much he steps out on me??? And I never wanna hear the excuse "but you let me do it the last time"From my experience when you give a man an inch he wants to take a mile ... the men I've met are like that anyways

 

[YouLikeMyStyle]

For me I feel it's too threatening to have another woman please my man ... what if he likes it so much he steps out on me??? And I never wanna hear the excuse "but you let me do it the last time"From my experience when you give a man an inch he wants to take a mile ... the men I've met are like that anyways

yep! way too threatening!

 

[Don_P]

so basically a random women will fulfill the fantasy of a random dude, but not her man, the one she claims she loves?? even tho I understand it, it still make no sense to me tho

i've heard that a few times too. met quite a few women who've done 3somes with their girlfriend's boyfriends/husbands. known other females that done them for dudes they were cool with who happened to have a bi wife/girlfriend. all of them said they would never do it for their man
i can understand the reasons behind it, but it comes across as backwards to me.
whenever i encountered a bisexual woman that has those kinds of hang ups i never allowed us to become exclusive cause i know it's a possibility that shit could end

 

[lilsexii]

It would take a rare combination of secure personalities and some serious trust to pull that one off...if everyone can handle it, cool...but everyone would have to be very sure...

 

[harlem1nyc]

Your girl was already a lesbian and she will be fucking other women without you.....Pandora's box is a muthaphuck'r......good luck!!

 

[Harlem's Angel]

Naaaaahhhhh....

This angel does not like to share!

NOT MY SHIT

 

[Hav_One]

Been gone a couple of days but I appreciate the comments. Some have a ring of truth about them. For the first time I may be going thru some shit about this.