Feminism, Financial Advancement, and Still You Ladies Lost! My 2 cents

[followup]

I never said marriage is the solution... I just said that marriage is something that many women later on see as a solution.

My aim was not at feminism or financial advancements per se - I just pointed out that IMO women were not being served by those supposed advancements in their love life.

btw, I don't think anyone is truly happy with their love life - are you %100 happy?

How do you know what women see as a "solution"? And a solution to what? Maybe you have a problem and many women do not. Maybe these women have always expected to get married and it just did not happen until they were older...

The advancements you are describing have nothing to do with our love life

And, yes, I am 100% happy with my love life. I love myself, I love God, I love my family and I love my partner.

 

[keysersoze]

How do you know what women see as a "solution"? And a solution to what? Maybe you have a problem and many women do not.

I'm interested in debating this issue - not personal attacks - at least specify what my "problem" is when putting it upon me.

Maybe these women have always expected to get married and it just did not happen until they were older...

That's fine if women want to wait till later ... if you know what you are doing, you can get married - its not a problem. However that is for a unique motivated woman who has thought about how she will get married as opposed to a woman relying upon faith of "meeting Mr. Right" later on... this is the same phenomenon where HS grads end up saying, College is not for me, I can go it later on... however, we all know that as time goes on - your % getting into college decreases.

http://www.cbsnews.com/video/watch/?id=1670713n

This "optimistic" Newsweek study found that women over 40 have only a 40% of getting married.

I wish the study included more info on women's relationships - I'm sure more of them are in some stable relationships but there still has to be large percentage of women are single.

If you watch that interview, you'll see the concern about the woman wanting to get married and have children (but was afraid that getting older) she might not be able do that.

Like the video said, the world is much more accommodating to single people - yet this does not address the human need for companionship (women and men).

The singleness phenomena is not exclusive to women - men are affected by it as well, however society makes it easier for men to get out of it then for women.

 

[LeroyDibiase]

Ahhh! An agent provocateur? nuff said.

More like faggot ridejockateur but same difference.

 

[followup]

^^^ You did not understand my post. And YOU were the one who used the word "solution" which implicitly means there is a problem to be resolved.

 

[jucurious]

alright this thread is going off tangent

to the OP can you restate what you feel the issue is in two sentences or less?

 

[Cleopatra_J]

alright this thread is going off tangent

to the OP can you restate what you feel the issue is in two sentences or less?

JU gave this man a homework assignment

 

[followup]

JU gave this man a homework assignment

You know what? She has the right idea because I think I am missing his point... or maybe it was not stated clearly so that I can understand it...