Females Simple Question, Would You Rather Be Right Or Happy?

[onyxfemme]

Hmmmmm I am happy being right????



Lolol

Seriously I rather be happy-there have been many instances where I have taken the road to just be happy instead of arguing proving my point. Sometimes it just isnt worth it-I will take my happiness by any means necessary

 

[LeroyDibiase]

So if a woman wants to prove you wrong she is also proving that she is not worthy in the process of doing so?

Is that what you are saying?

Maybe she is telling him she is a whore and he is saying that she isn't and she is wife material.

Therefore she would rather be right (by saying she's a whore) than happy (marrying him).

Yeah the shit made no sense to me either.

 

[Mo-Better]

So if a woman wants to prove you wrong she is also proving that she is not worthy in the process of doing so?

Is that what you are saying?

Questions:
1. Is being right worth angering the other person?
2. Is being right worth the cost of a friendship?
3. When is the cost of being right no longer worth the effort?

No I'm saying "why" rehash incidents and argue issues that happened years ago. Instead of rolling with the existing vibe of the day (which was good) you instead elect to bounce back to incidents of the past, that is a problem. Hint: Men tend to put past incidents behind them and move on.

If something happened several months/years ago how vital an issue is it today? Especially if your still friends. Proving a point is one thing but when its done just to prove a point is it really worth the effort. To me it shows a lack of maturity. An inability to move forward with your life.

So the question remains how important is being right? For me I'll settle for being happy over being right any day.

 

[thoughtone]

So if a woman wants to prove you wrong she is also proving that she is not worthy in the process of doing so?

Is that what you are saying?

What pleasure do you derive from forcing the issue on proving that someone is wrong? If you are right then things will turn out in your favor or the other person will be proven wrong by circumstance. That is the satisfaction of being right. If you derive your happiness from proving others wrong, then there might be other issues involved.