Fellas that are in Shape: Could you stay with your wife or significant other if she got fat and there was nothing medically wrong? Link

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Reason I ask is because I was reading this article and I thought it was interesting and you don't normally see this:


Body-Positive TikToker responds to followers who say her Fit Husband isn’t compatible with her, a ‘fat woman’ (pic)

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TikToker Alicia Mccarvell has 5.5 million followers and the same reason she is popular is the same reason she often gets snide and negative remarks. People have a hard time believing her husband, a fit man, can love a fat woman.
Mccarvell constantly posts body-positive images of herself on her account preaching self-love and acceptance but that doesn't prevent people from being flabbergasted as to how her husband could possibly be attracted to her.
The couple has been together since high school. Last month, she posted a pic of her and her husband in towels that went viral garnering 42.4 million views. She told Yahoo Life that she believes the image went viral because of the contrast her their bodies “

It's often that people say things like;
“You got a good one”
“You're lucky to have someone who loves you unconditionally”
“Wow, he's incredible for loving you”
And most of the time they are referring to the fact that he's fit and I'm fat – when that doesn't even scratch the surface of why @scottymc4 is incredible.
When I lost my job with Goodlife I called Scott crying.
I was scared.
I was angry.
I was sad.
He wasn't, and if he was he didn't show me.
I remember him saying to me on the phone “you take care of your team, and I will take care of you”

I took time off to find myself…
He made sure I had the support I needed.
I took a chance on digital art…
He helped me pick out an iPad.
I started making TikTok's…
He helped me brainstorm ideas.
My platform started to grow…
He helped me set my pillars.
And when I decided to do this full time…
He looked at me and said “we got this”.
“I got a good one”- not because he loves my fat body, but because there isn't a challenge this world could throw at us that he wouldn't roll up his sleeves and say “let's go”
“I am lucky my husband loves me unconditionally” – not because I am fat but because, I am stubborn, I am messy and I never know how to say no.
“He's incredible for loving me” not because my body isn't the beauty standard, but because there were years where I was really hard to love, and he managed to love me through all of them.
Scott isn't a great guy because he loves my fat body.
Scott is a great guy because he is thoughtful, kind, loving, supportive, forgiving, relentless, dedicated and strong.
Scott is an incredible partner because when I need him, he is there, ready for whatever comes our way, no questions asked.
I am lucky to have him, because I haven't made this easy on him. ♥️
I am lucky to have him, because everyday he steps out of his comfort zone, into mine. ♥️
Stop selling my husband short, by saying he's amazing for loving my fat body, that's the easy part.

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Nope. Only if it was glandular and she couldn't do anything about it. I was just saying something last week about Ginny Sack from the Sopranos. Johnny loved her

Yeah, I couldn't do it. I can't do it now. I can't date a chick who is fat when I meet her. If she's fat now, she's going to get bigger later and I don't want to deal with it. I've got to find my wife attractive
 
If it were something uncontrollable yes. If it was her doing no.

I sent my ex home cause she was drinking herself to death and I wasn't gonna let her do that in my house.

She put on probably somewhere between 30 and 50 lbs from drinking and eating, stress on her body, lack of sleep etc.
 
Who cares?

As long as they are happy with each other.

This generation concern and obsession for others to conform to their own personal ideas of beauty is outrageous.

And personally I wouldn't leave someone over something like that, but weight gain like that is always attached to something.

If you love that person and you REALLY care about them and not how they may effect your "image" you'd find out the cause and help them deal with it.

But if they were comfortable and healthy and mentally secure. And it wasn't some type of sloppy obese unhealthy development

It wouldn't be an issue.
 
Who cares?

As long as they are happy with each other.

This generation concern and obsession for others to conform to their own personal ideas of beauty is outrageous.

And personally I wouldn't leave someone over something like that, but weight gain like that is always attached to something.

If you love that person and you REALLY care about them and not how they may effect your "image" you'd find out the cause and help them deal with it.

But if they were comfortable and healthy and mentally secure. And it wasn't some type of sloppy obese unhealthy development

It wouldn't be an issue.

Mature bars.

If dude wanted a fit chick, he would have got one.
 
If it were something uncontrollable yes. If it was her doing no.

I sent my ex home cause she was drinking herself to death and I wasn't gonna let her do that in my house.

She put on probably somewhere between 30 and 50 lbs from drinking and eating, stress on her body, lack of sleep etc.

I remember you sharing this.

Your situation had some deep issues though. An alcoholic is much different that an overweight woman that loves herself.
 
Yes I would. If you were slim and sexxy when I we met I expect you to be as close to that as possible.
That's just me of course.
 
Who cares?

As long as they are happy with each other.

This generation concern and obsession for others to conform to their own personal ideas of beauty is outrageous.

And personally I wouldn't leave someone over something like that, but weight gain like that is always attached to something.

If you love that person and you REALLY care about them and not how they may effect your "image" you'd find out the cause and help them deal with it.

But if they were comfortable and healthy and mentally secure. And it wasn't some type of sloppy obese unhealthy development

It wouldn't be an issue.

Right On!!!!!

The average bgol member is built like a body builder, has over $1M in the bank and turns down dimes every day. Everyone else is scared to say shit.

My answer, I'm fat and broke, so I'm grateful that my wife is still with blown up ass.
 
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Sounds like some female followers of this couple are in-shape but lonely and wondering why they can't snag a dude like him instead of the usual cig smoking pot belly mofos that holla then pump n dump em. Misery loves company.
 
Nope. I’d help her loose the weight and if she refuses I’m moving on because obesity repulses me.​
 
Who cares?

As long as they are happy with each other.

This generation concern and obsession for others to conform to their own personal ideas of beauty is outrageous.

And personally I wouldn't leave someone over something like that, but weight gain like that is always attached to something.

If you love that person and you REALLY care about them and not how they may effect your "image" you'd find out the cause and help them deal with it.

But if they were comfortable and healthy and mentally secure. And it wasn't some type of sloppy obese unhealthy development

It wouldn't be an issue.
I'm in 1000% agreement with you, but does the same apply to politics? :eek: :eek: :eek:

If we want to balance the hate out based on image, just have him wear the wrong political hat and see how fast the Internet tell her to dump him. :lol:

But yeah, as long as a couple is happy, so be it.
 
I'm in 1000% agreement with you, but does the same apply to politics? :eek: :eek: :eek:

If we want to balance the hate out based on image, just have him wear the wrong political hat and see how fast the Internet tell her to dump him. :lol:

But yeah, as long as a couple is happy, so be it.

I actually know couples who are diametrically opposed politically

I do NOT understand it

but apparently their sex life is fantastic and they love each other.

So people are strange bro

and no one can explain love.
 
Saw tell her Mccarvell's story on CNN a few days ago.

I was going to bring this up in the thread, "Did People Used To Look Older?" regarding a comment I made referring to "Body Maintenance".
If you Cats see what I see everyday at my gig around Union Square in NYC, your Dick would never stop rising.
The majority of Chicks that come to my job IN SHAPE are WHITE (and Asian for the most part).
And they leave nothing to the imagination with all that LuLuLemon shit and other Gymwear.
Ass and Titties on full display.
Black and Latino chicks show up OBESE as Hell.
In Gymwear even.
Flab falling out of those outfits and shit.
Sorry.
But that shit looks totally unappealing to Me.
And you know DAMN WELL these Sistas are NEVER going to work out.

That's why I can't deal with this "Body Positivity" shit that's being FORCED on our community.
White Women (for the most part) ain't falling for that shit en masse.
Though with Mccarvell's TikTok story, it may go there with them eventually.
But still not like with US!
 
So yall on BGOL and fucking dime pieces? Smh.

ALL yall niggas are with fat out of shape bitches and you KNOW IT!!!!

YOU KNOW IT.
 
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