My fam and cousin in laws already knew it at the wedding... Cousin in law is coming up to me telling me i better hit that lol. Everybody noticed because she was dancing w/ me the whole night.
I told her to drop her number and i'd call her for drinks. If she gives me some bullshit then i'll keep it movin
I take a scientific apporach to dating so here are my steps:
First of all, Respect bro. You my need to put in some work via facebook, remember attraction last but so long, its like a flame and if its not fanned it dies. she may/not longer be attracted.
Put in some ground work via fb chat in a few steps. Because the first thing is that she is going to your pics then she is going to your profile. She will categorieze you based on your fb page and if its lame then it will set you back or not get the meet up for drinks at all. Scientifically if a mode of communication is lame, a woman will loose interest. Think about it if you are lame when you call a chick she lose interst.
Three steps
1.
Update our profile to reflect your funny or cocky side. For "about me," quotes etc...Nothing like "Abraham lincoln said" for quotes make up your own and funny or cocky, fun and exciting e.g " My father is an asshole, so is my brother, and I am the whole ass." (cocky)
Status: Friendshp and netwroking. you are not there for dating...LOL. don't put dating. put single.
Leave political views and religion blank those things can immediately disqualify you. never talk about those things on dates anyways. Only talk to your wife/ee about those things.
Music don't list generas: e.g.rock, reggae etc, thats boring. it should be switchkill engage, Juelz Santana, Sizzla, Kenny Rogers
Job leave blank unless you have some really high status job.
You can write something funny in Interest or about me. I am a astorphysicist, matador, I invented the wheel, I invented fire, I invented Judism, I invented oxygen, George washington carver invented peanut butter but I invented the peanut
Have highly attractive pictures of you doing fun things and hanging with friends. Creative album names. a name like "my photographs" or "summer bbq" is boring. Combine albums and try to have no more than five or six. A name like "~my fabulous f*cking life~" is way more exciting than "Me and my peeps" If alot of people tag you in their albums hanging with them in pics all the better, it shows that you are not a lame and you have friends. A pic with an or a couple ambiguous woman is important. She must be wondering is that his girlfirend? Is that his friend?
2.
First facebook chat dont ask her out. lay down the ground work. Get to know her, tell her a funny story. tease her, mkae her laugh. dont stay long chatting. get off and say "here is my number call me, I can't do this chatting its hurting my fingers." or "I gotta go and lotion my cat's fur. or ask her for her number again like you never did before, wait sometime (next day or 2 days later) and then call, let her sweat a little.
3.
Call or second chat: if she calls, chat her up briefly then invite her out. If she doesnt. then the next time you see her on fb. repeat step 2 then invite her out at the end of the chat.
so wtf?
And your family and friends don't need to know that BS.
