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Everybody has somebody?

dHustla

dHustla

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But have you ever cut everybody off?

Whether all forms of friends, associates, etc.

or

all of the females or males you were/are dealing with at the time? I'm talking about every fuck buddy, every dick suck, every pipe layer (for ladies), all of 'em. It's 3am, you just left the club and you ain't got nobody to call because you deleted all their numbers... and texts....and pics....and emails!

I've done this a few times when I realized that altogether they didn't amount to one solid woman. So I cut 'em off.

I'm a flirt and my mouthpiece is a barrel of money so it's nothin for me to get a bitch..... (but it is something to get one worth having :( ) So I'm always confident I can get more, but I digress before I get off on a tangent.

Have you ever ex-communicated everybody in your stable? If so, why?

How did it turn out for you?

How did you or what got you through that dry dick desert/dry dust bowl (for ladies)?

Also, when you finally got back to filling the stable again, what did you change or do differently?
 
No! Don't burn no bridges along the way - you just might need to go back that way someday. :hmm:
 
You can quietly disappear for a while and that is ok. But to tell everyone "I'm cutting you off" might be a mistake. If you want a new group, just don't speak to people no more. If you see them later on, don't be rude, just say things like 'I had to work on me', 'going through some things', 'needed some personal time'. People look high on those that take personal reflection.


I hope you find what you are looking for.
 
melonpecan said:
You can quietly disappear for a while and that is ok. But to tell everyone "I'm cutting you off" might be a mistake. If you want a new group, just don't speak to people no more. If you see them later on, don't be rude, just say things like 'I had to work on me', 'going through some things', 'needed some personal time'. People look high on those that take personal reflection.


I hope you find what you are looking for.
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Exactly! Just be somewhere else no reason to make a public announcement.
 
I said nothing about a public announcement. I'm just talking about cutting people off individually, until you have escaped them all.
 
I have done this a few times.

Sometimes u take invetory of what's going on around you and you figure u can do bad on ur own...

It sucks cause there are times when i got lonely but u take a look at where u was and things don't look that bad...

What got me thru? A lot of porn and batteries. ..

Once the time came to build the team back up I just started to put myself in situations to meet guys...but honestly it usually jsut falls together...like they know the pussy is ripe :-)
 
DeSiRe said:
I have done this a few times.

Sometimes u take invetory of what's going on around you and you figure u can do bad on ur own...

It sucks cause there are times when i got lonely but u take a look at where u was and things don't look that bad...

What got me thru? A lot of porn and batteries. ..

Once the time came to build the team back up I just started to put myself in situations to meet guys...but honestly it usually jsut falls together...like they know the pussy is ripe :-)
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This is exactly what I'm talking about.

I took a look at where I was and it just wasn't me :smh: and wasn't gonna get me where I wanted to be. :(

They was just something to do anyway :hmm:
 
Dhustla said:
I said nothing about a public announcement. I'm just talking about cutting people off individually, until you have escaped them all.
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The sentence using "public announcement" wasn't to be taken verbatim. Just saying be somewhere else, stop hanging around them, find other people to be with, other things to do. There's more than one way to make your statement.
 


Cause everytime you come around , you be hollerin that whoop de whoooop , blah ze blaaaah , he say/she say , oh my God SHUT THE FUCK UP!
 
At the end of every year i cut lose a group of women i mess with that are non productive,and the (aka) jump off's or just plain ol-hoe's..now for years i hav been doing this process it works good for (me),but in my case keeping tons of friends (women) never turned out well at all..i like to keep it fresh i love meeting new women,my turn over rate is very high per year but i do hav a hand full of women i still know that are long term friends that made the cutt but for reason i did that to keep them around..and please beleve there are a few i regret getting rid of cause i did not see myself being with that person and they was not all badd people at all alot of them i hav fun with for that time being,but after i make my cutt i do not go back period...(they are nothing but memories)....
 
I have done it many times. No announcement. I just stop answering the phone and dont go out to spots. Every time i do it my life gets better. I am not talking about just guys here i am talking about everyone! Alll the so called friends and whoever else.
 
For the record, I wasn't talking about announcing it either. Just making the decision to let this person go, that person, her, too....... shid might as well throw her on the bandwagon, shawty got good head but she ain't shit so she get lumped in with the other 'ain't shit' bitches..etc.

And although I know we all outgrow friends, I'm mainly talking about the opposite sex in this instance.

"if you knew what you was worth, you'd ask for more than you gettin'" -mike bigga

just had to cut 'em off and start fresh with new model bitches *winks @ dEsIrE*
 
big enos burrnet said:
At the end of every year i cut lose a group of women i mess with that are non productive,and the (aka) jump off's or just plain ol-hoe's..now for years i hav been doing this process it works good for (me),but in my case keeping tons of friends (women) never turned out well at all..i like to keep it fresh i love meeting new women,my turn over rate is very high per year but i do hav a hand full of women i still know that are long term friends that made the cutt but for reason i did that to keep them around..and please beleve there are a few i regret getting rid of cause i did not see myself being with that person and they was not all badd people at all alot of them i hav fun with for that time being,but after i make my cutt i do not go back period...(they are nothing but memories)....
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:thumbsdown: Can we get a capital letter, a period maybe a paragraph? :smh:
 
bigirl said:
I have done it many times. No announcement. I just stop answering the phone and dont go out to spots. Every time i do it my life gets better. I am not talking about just guys here i am talking about everyone! Alll the so called friends and whoever else.
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:lol: nearly a year later I have just done it again. :dance:
 
After re-reading this thread... I realize it may have came out wrong.

I was asking if others decide to stop fucking w/ certain people (which I'm sure we all do), but more importantly... why?

Also, do you make sure you have someone else before you cut 'em off?

I find that... like the thread title says, "Everybody has somebody."

I'm comfortable being alone, not having anyone, but life is showing me that there aren't many people like me in this sense.

From what I see, most people stay attached, to some (varying) degree, to someone for different reasons. Whether it be an ex-g/f for the head, the toxic friend to have as a wingman, the ex-b/f for security & familiarity.
 
She might be wrong for you today, but right for you tomorrow. You never know. Just like you progress, so does the female.
 

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