http://blackgirlsareeasy.com/2012/07/pull-a-dime.html
I would post the whole thing despite the cries from the collin crowd but he sums it all up with his closing paragraph:
If dressing like Kanye gives you confidence, do that. If rocking that gold chain makes you feel like Tity Boi, do that. It doesn’t matter how you package yourself or the tricks you use to boast your esteem, just remember to maintain who you are. Too many guys think they have to lie to get pussy, and that’s never the long-term answer. In the end if she’s going to agree to go out with you she’s going to find out who you really are. Don’t set her up to fall in love with this idea, when the real person is a totally different individual. Be a confident you, not a confident knockoff version of what you think women are looking for.
One thing I stressed to Ben 10 was not to assume that because a girl is exceptionally pretty that men are beating down her door. Some of the women I thought would be the most popular are the loneliest because men are afraid to speak to them and they in turn are afraid to initiate first. Pretty girls tend to have lower self-esteem than those ladies men would categorize as average because guys fear them. She probably has a boyfriend, she’s probably stuck up, she’s probably dumb, she’s probably a gold digger. And you’re probably just an insecure pussy who doesn’t know how to approach the opposite sex– Man up! Girls and guys alike always joke about chicks with ugly girl swag, those girls who go online and brag about their beauty, but may not be the best lookers. One of the big reasons you see those women taking massive amounts of pictures and bragging about how pretty they are is because the amount of men who approach them is substantial. Yeah she may not look like Draya, but she’s more popular because guys aren’t intimidated by her looks. If men are constantly trying to get at her, how can anyone tell her she’s not bomb? Fellas, you can’t belittle women who you don’t think are dimes, because if she was in a room with a girl twice as pretty, that “average” girl would be the one you would talk to first. No Lie. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, someone you think is five star may be just “okay” in someone else’s book. Regardless, I want my ladies to end up with the guys they think are handsome and I want my niggas to end up with the girls they think are flawless, because even if you aren’t the best looker yourself, you should never be made to settle for less than what your heart desires.
A line chicks drop often is “Niggas will talk to anything“, no they’ll talk to anything that doesn’t intimidate. It’s time to stop being shook my niggas. Having game isn’t about lying and pretending, it’s about charisma. Speak with confidence, know how to adapt to any situation, and always retain control. Strength is universally sexy and Power will turn any woman on. If you want the girl of your dreams, start by waking up and taking action.
I would post the whole thing despite the cries from the collin crowd but he sums it all up with his closing paragraph:
If dressing like Kanye gives you confidence, do that. If rocking that gold chain makes you feel like Tity Boi, do that. It doesn’t matter how you package yourself or the tricks you use to boast your esteem, just remember to maintain who you are. Too many guys think they have to lie to get pussy, and that’s never the long-term answer. In the end if she’s going to agree to go out with you she’s going to find out who you really are. Don’t set her up to fall in love with this idea, when the real person is a totally different individual. Be a confident you, not a confident knockoff version of what you think women are looking for.
One thing I stressed to Ben 10 was not to assume that because a girl is exceptionally pretty that men are beating down her door. Some of the women I thought would be the most popular are the loneliest because men are afraid to speak to them and they in turn are afraid to initiate first. Pretty girls tend to have lower self-esteem than those ladies men would categorize as average because guys fear them. She probably has a boyfriend, she’s probably stuck up, she’s probably dumb, she’s probably a gold digger. And you’re probably just an insecure pussy who doesn’t know how to approach the opposite sex– Man up! Girls and guys alike always joke about chicks with ugly girl swag, those girls who go online and brag about their beauty, but may not be the best lookers. One of the big reasons you see those women taking massive amounts of pictures and bragging about how pretty they are is because the amount of men who approach them is substantial. Yeah she may not look like Draya, but she’s more popular because guys aren’t intimidated by her looks. If men are constantly trying to get at her, how can anyone tell her she’s not bomb? Fellas, you can’t belittle women who you don’t think are dimes, because if she was in a room with a girl twice as pretty, that “average” girl would be the one you would talk to first. No Lie. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, someone you think is five star may be just “okay” in someone else’s book. Regardless, I want my ladies to end up with the guys they think are handsome and I want my niggas to end up with the girls they think are flawless, because even if you aren’t the best looker yourself, you should never be made to settle for less than what your heart desires.
A line chicks drop often is “Niggas will talk to anything“, no they’ll talk to anything that doesn’t intimidate. It’s time to stop being shook my niggas. Having game isn’t about lying and pretending, it’s about charisma. Speak with confidence, know how to adapt to any situation, and always retain control. Strength is universally sexy and Power will turn any woman on. If you want the girl of your dreams, start by waking up and taking action.
Too much too soon...it's the story of my life
