Episode at the bank today, mean ass black woman. Why are sistas so angry ?

[cameo]

Why are the black women so fuckin mean when you flirt and talk with other women, meaning she could be white, asian, latina, or even another black woman. I went to the bank today, and i was in line, and this latina woman ( first of all she is thick, round plump bubble ass, small waist, pretty hair, good lookin woman) so continuing, I know her from another gym, but she recognized me. So me being Mr Manners , I spoke, showed my smile, had a nice conversation with her. She wrote down her number and ask me to call her sometimes, and then went her turn in line. My turn came up, and a sista is workin the window. Now, this sista is cute, but she could use some work, she's big, but she's not fat, but I can tell she was uncomfortable with herself, because she kept pulling her shirt down, because it was too small. When the sista gave me a side view, the ass was like "SUPER DOGGY STYLE POTENTIAL". My latina friend finished her business and said bye, like "bye, call me so we can fuck goodbye " ( for my fellas, the ass is right, like a Vida Guerra type ), as she walks away, THE SISTA calls her a hoe ! " so sick of those no english talkin hoes, all they good for is fuckin and makin babies ". So I stare at her like " where that come from ", and she lookin at me like "nigga what" . Jealous ! Why , because the latina bust her ass to keep her shape right, and you don't, because she looks better than you.

Alright, somebody clear it up for me, because Cameo missed it today.

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

Why are the black women so fuckin mean when you flirt and talk with other women, meaning she could be white, asian, latina, or even another black woman. I went to the bank today, and i was in line, and this latina woman ( first of all she is thick, round plump bubble ass, small waist, pretty hair, good lookin woman) so continuing, I know her from another gym, but she recognized me. So me being Mr Manners , I spoke, showed my smile, had a nice conversation with her. She wrote down her number and ask me to call her sometimes, and then went her turn in line. My turn came up, and a sista is workin the window. Now, this sista is cute, but she could use some work, she's big, but she's not fat, but I can tell she was uncomfortable with herself, because she kept pulling her shirt down, because it was too small. When the sista gave me a side view, the ass was like "SUPER DOGGY STYLE POTENTIAL". My latina friend finished her business and said bye, like "bye, call me so we can fuck goodbye " ( for my fellas, the ass is right, like a Vida Guerra type ), as she walks away, THE SISTA calls her a hoe ! " so sick of those no english talkin hoes, all they good for is fuckin and makin babies ". So I stare at her like " where that come from ", and she lookin at me like "nigga what" . Jealous ! Why , because the latina bust her ass to keep her shape right, and you don't, because she looks better than you.

Alright, somebody clear it up for me, because Cameo missed it today.

Not just black women do that. Bitter women who are not happy with themselves do it also regardless of race. She is insecure about herself

 

[34real]

this sista is cute, but she could use some work, she's big, but she's not fat, but I can tell she was uncomfortable with herself, because she kept pulling her shirt down, because it was too small.

In my opinion the whole event was filled with a negetive vibe because she was judging the latino woman,you was judging her& the latino woman(by your comments)and god knows what the latino woman was thinking.Negetivity feed off of each other and it seems like thats what it did.

 

[Adam Knows]

In my opinion the whole event was filled with a negetive vibe because she was judging the latino woman,you was judging her& the latino woman(by your comments)and god knows what the latino woman was thinking.Negetivity feed off of each other and it seems like thats what it did.

makes sense the way you said it....

tell me what's up with me and mine though, we get that alot out and about especially when we go shopping or something or when we were driving out places....to the point i sold my H2 because of it. There were many african american women that would pull right up and spit game even with my wife sitting right there in the passenger seat, they acted like she wasn't there. or back to mall incidents, the looks, the sucking of teeth, the little comments, etc.

 

[Izayoi]

In my opinion the whole event was filled with a negetive vibe because she was judging the latino woman,you was judging her& the latino woman(by your comments)and god knows what the latino woman was thinking.Negativity feed off of each other and it seems like thats what it did.

Word. There was no excuse to be rude and unprofessional, but that ^^^^^ seems like it was in the air.


DaDon No offense, but is there really anything else to do in Ohio except hate?
I lived there for a few years when I was in grad school. Not sure why folks feel its appropriate to disregard your other half. Rude and no home training.

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

makes sense the way you said it....

tell me what's up with me and mine though, we get that alot out and about especially when we go shopping or something or when we were driving out places....to the point i sold my H2 because of it. There were many african american women that would pull right up and spit game even with my wife sitting right there in the passenger seat, they acted like she wasn't there. or back to mall incidents, the looks, the sucking of teeth, the little comments, etc.

Your wife is better than me. I would have had my foot in some asses.

 

[cameo]

In my opinion the whole event was filled with a negetive vibe because she was judging the latino woman,you was judging her& the latino woman(by your comments)and god knows what the latino woman was thinking.Negetivity feed off of each other and it seems like thats what it did.

my eyes always wonder, looking at ass in public, the bank, whereever. I guess i am an "asswatcher" because I look at every womans ass ( well almost). I think it had to do with how my friend walked off, the latina, her ass was bouncin shakin all sexy, i could see the pantylines on her today . I wasn't judging the girl at the bank, it's just that here's real talk, people gotta decide what their lifestyle is gonna be, and then go from there. Ol girl look tired, like she hadn't got enough sleep, her hair was half combed, her panties was showin out the back of her pants, kinda trampy lookin, but you could see if she would "take the time" to groom herself, workout more, take better care of yourself, she'd be a dime piece. Her nature shape blows the latina away, she just need to tone her ass, shape her thighs, lose lil pouch stomach, keep herself up, and she'd feel better about herself. Like I tell every client, it all starts with you.

 

[34real]

Her nature shape blows the latina away, she just need to tone her ass, shape her thighs, lose lil pouch stomach, keep herself up, and she'd feel better about herself. Like I tell every client, it all starts with you.

Now just imagine what would or could have happen if you would of worded what I quoted differently,with a little charm and a smile,a new client?maybe a date? but even better maybe a smile from her.

anyways what do I know Im still drinking grade a grape kool-aid out the pitcher.

 

[Izayoi]

Now just imagine what would or could have happen if you would of worded what I quoted differently,with a little charm and a smile,a new client?maybe a date? but even better maybe a smile from her.

anyways what do I know Im still drinking grade a grape kool-aid out the pitcher.

Keep drinking sir, you are wise indeed.

 

[Kazoo]

pass that bank teller my number ,I'm gonna put her in my Sister Improvement Plan,sounds like she has potential


seriously , peoples attitudes are THEIR PROBLEM
I dont understand people jealous about who somebody else is
dating

 

[Jam_Jam]

my eyes always wonder, looking at ass in public, the bank, whereever. I guess i am an "asswatcher" because I look at every womans ass ( well almost). I think it had to do with how my friend walked off, the latina, her ass was bouncin shakin all sexy, i could see the pantylines on her today . I wasn't judging the girl at the bank, it's just that here's real talk, people gotta decide what their lifestyle is gonna be, and then go from there. Ol girl look tired, like she hadn't got enough sleep, her hair was half combed, her panties was showin out the back of her pants, kinda trampy lookin, but you could see if she would "take the time" to groom herself, workout more, take better care of yourself, she'd be a dime piece. Her nature shape blows the latina away, she just need to tone her ass, shape her thighs, lose lil pouch stomach, keep herself up, and she'd feel better about herself. Like I tell every client, it all starts with you.

Maybe the sista sensed the negative vibe you were giving her. You sized her up right down to her underwear showing. She probably noticed that you did not look at her with the same facination that you did the Latina and it upset her. She acted out by a verbal assault on the Latina. Obviously you know what you like, but sometimes the way we look at someone can say more than 1,000 words can.

 

[thismybgolname]

I can tell she was uncomfortable with herself, because she kept pulling her shirt down, because it was too small.

So thats why they do that, I thought it was me.

 

[Adam Knows]

Word. There was no excuse to be rude and unprofessional, but that ^^^^^ seems like it was in the air.


DaDon No offense, but is there really anything else to do in Ohio except hate?
I lived there for a few years when I was in grad school. Not sure why folks feel its appropriate to disregard your other half. Rude and no home training.

i keep telling y'all blacks in ohio got it bad.....makes atlanta n charlotte look like neverland or oz or some shit...

 

[JofromthaNO]

Maybe the sista sensed the negative vibe you were giving her. You sized her up right down to her underwear showing. She probably noticed that you did not look at her with the same fascination that you did the Latina and it upset her. She acted out by a verbal assault on the Latina. Obviously you know what you like, but sometimes the way we look at someone can say more than 1,000 words can.

BINGO! She had to, to save face, make a statement about the Latina woman to, in turn, not feel so bad or insecure about herself. And, she may have known that day she wasn't looking too hot, and your looking at the Latina woman in that way made her feel THAT much more insecure about herself. It's called displacement, one of the many defense mechanisms people feel when they are situations of "conflict."


And, again, it's not just a "black woman" thing...just because women of color tend to be more outspoken about it does not mean that all women don't experience or feel the same thing.

 

[APOPHIS]

The fact of the matter stands, Black women are BITTER. I do not mean to condescend, berate, or disrespect you all, but YOU, yes you, BLACK WOMEN are bitter. (or most of you)

You suffer from a very dangerous psychological disease called ABWS (Angry Black Women Syndrome ) which causes you to lash out in public and cause unwanted attention from bypassers .

Let it go sistas! Please for your own well being, let it go!
I encounter hostility from Black women almost on a daily basis whenever they see me conversing w/ a non-black female. (even is she's just co-worker or friend).

Please grow up, sistas!

 

[JofromthaNO]

The fact of the matter stands, Black women are BITTER. I do not mean to condescend, berate, or disrespect you all, but YOU, yes you, BLACK WOMEN are bitter. (or most of you)

You suffer from a very dangerous psychological disease called ABWS (Angry Black Women Syndrome ) which causes you to lash out in public and cause unwanted attention from bypassers .

Let it go sistas! Please for your own well being, let it go!
I encounter hostility from Black women almost on a daily basis whenever they see me conversing w/ a non-black female. (even is she's just co-worker or friend).

Please grow up, sistas!

Please watch your sweeping generalizations about black women. I do not find myself to be a hateful person, and know many black women who focus their time and efforts on uplifting instead of being condescending or hurtful. I know that many black men become upset or hurt when black women make huge assumptions about black men. I'm sure you can provide us with many examples, which would help illustrate your thought. But, on this board (and in life), it generally isn't a good idea to make a statement like this...

Just my two cents...

 

[DaleMabry]

Shit plenty of black men are bitter too, given our mortality, poor psychological health, drug use, violence against each other, negative artistic expression. Goose and gander, my friends.

Maybe the sista sensed the negative vibe you were giving her. You sized her up right down to her underwear showing. She probably noticed that you did not look at her with the same facination that you did the Latina and it upset her. She acted out by a verbal assault on the Latina. Obviously you know what you like, but sometimes the way we look at someone can say more than 1,000 words can.

BINGO! She had to, to save face, make a statement about the Latina woman to, in turn, not feel so bad or insecure about herself. And, she may have known that day she wasn't looking too hot, and your looking at the Latina woman in that way made her feel THAT much more insecure about herself. It's called displacement, one of the many defense mechanisms people feel when they are situations of "conflict."


And, again, it's not just a "black woman" thing...just because women of color tend to be more outspoken about it does not mean that all women don't experience or feel the same thing.

These. Very on point.

 

[APOPHIS]

Please watch your sweeping generalizations about black women. I do not find myself to be a hateful person, and know many black women who focus their time and efforts on uplifting instead of being condescending or hurtful. I know that many black men become upset or hurt when black women make huge assumptions about black men. I'm sure you can provide us with many examples, which would help illustrate your thought. But, on this board (and in life), it generally isn't a good idea to make a statement like this...

Just my two cents...

I agree not all are like this, but the fact remains those who aren't are overwhelmingly overshadowed by those who are.

Shit plenty of black men are bitter too, given our mortality, poor psychological health, drug use, violence against each other, negative artistic expression. Goose and gander, my friends.

Not me.
I could care less. I remember this chic I dated asking me why was I such a happy and easy-going person...? WTF!
Some women are just so used to a life of misery, they begin to expect nothing else.

 

[LeroyDibiase]

Maybe the sista sensed the negative vibe you were giving her. You sized her up right down to her underwear showing. She probably noticed that you did not look at her with the same facination that you did the Latina and it upset her. She acted out by a verbal assault on the Latina. Obviously you know what you like, but sometimes the way we look at someone can say more than 1,000 words can.

Some how I knew you would have some input...

 

[DaleMabry]

I agree not all are like this, but the fact remains those who aren't are overwhelmingly overshadowed by those who are.








Not me.
I could care less. I remember this chic I dated asking me why was I such a happy and easy-going person...? WTF!
Some women are just so used to a life of misery, they begin to expect nothing else.

Shit me neither but a walk down any MLK in any major city will show you plenty of brothers that are, sadly.

 

[OnSlaught]

Can anyone say sweeping generalization?

There are a lot of PEOPLE that tend to do this...it's called insecurity like someone before mentioned. I can honestly say that if I was in the teller's position, the best way to get your attention would have been to kill you with kindness and flirt, say something witty, and totally ignore the hell out of the attention you gave the latina. Hell, and I'm a man saying this!

People react without forethought...it's an instinctual thing that we sometimes have to separate from at times.

However, don't make sweeping and broad generalizations about any type of people. Even though I know what you mean because I've had my run-ins with a few belligerent and bitter black women, I've also had that same run-in with latinas and asians...and I'm sure white women are the same as well...

 

[thighsneyez22]

I wish I could do a study on the anger of black woman...

I hypothesize that each individual case would turn up a different reason... but I feel a lot of it would stem from not receiving adequate love and affirmation from their fathers coupled with society's overwhelming portrayal of the black race (a race for which she is the mother for...speaking of mother's- I am sure some are mad because they are raising children alone...

it would be interesting to talk to this teller and ask her how many children she has... and if their father is around (also ask if her father was around)


...then ask her if she ever had someone who she really liked leave her for someone outside the race...


just some guesses... who knows... btw black men arent the most chipper characters Ive met, myself... we as a race have a lot of anger issues that we take out on each other (just like they planned it)...

 

[JofromthaNO]

I wish I could do a study on the anger of black woman...

I hypothesize that each individual case would turn up a different reason... but I feel a lot of it would stem from not receiving adequate love and affirmation from their fathers coupled with society's overwhelming portrayal of the black race (a race for which she is the mother for...speaking of mother's- I am sure some are mad because they are raising children alone...

it would be interesting to talk to this teller and ask her how many children she has... and if their father is around (also ask if her father was around)


...then ask her if she ever had someone who she really liked leave her for someone outside the race...


just some guesses... who knows... btw black men arent the most chipper characters Ive met, myself... we as a race have a lot of anger issues that we take out on each other (just like they planned it)...

Interesting theory... I've noticed, particularly on SOL, that many men also assume that most African American women grew up in single parent homes and, thus, this affects our dating and relationship styles. I know people that grew up in TWO parent homes who still are a little messed up when it comes to their dating choices because dad was always chewed out by mom and "emasculated" in front of his children. AND, I know people from single parent homes who grew up to love and respect their fathers (and, consequently, black men). There are always exceptions...

 

[Adam Knows]

Can anyone say sweeping generalization?

There are a lot of PEOPLE that tend to do this...it's called insecurity like someone before mentioned. I can honestly say that if I was in the teller's position, the best way to get your attention would have been to kill you with kindness and flirt, say something witty, and totally ignore the hell out of the attention you gave the latina. Hell, and I'm a man saying this!

People react without forethought...it's an instinctual thing that we sometimes have to separate from at times.

However, don't make sweeping and broad generalizations about any type of people. Even though I know what you mean because I've had my run-ins with a few belligerent and bitter black women, I've also had that same run-in with latinas and asians...and I'm sure white women are the same as well...

your right about the generalizations. i believe it's done though because most black men only know about black women's reactions and nothing else since that's all they interact with. so it would seem to them that just "black women" do this and do that sounds appropriate.

 

[UnoBetter2]

Personally I seem to feel a negative vibe from at least half the sista's I encounter. And I'm not making a sweeping generalization, thats just a fact. Often times just looking at the scowl on their faces makes me want to run the other way. But, is it really their fault?

But not only the sista's hell brotha's are pissed off too! Just look at some of things happening to our young brotha's. Some of the shit they doin is just crazy! But again I ask is it really their fault?

Truth is until black people start sticking together and working as one we will always feel left out, stepped over, and disenfranchised! Plain and simple that sista was not really upset with the latin chick at all. It had to do with how she felt and what she was dealing with. I mean hell she workin at the bank and cant afford decent cloths! Can't get her hair done or her nails polished and on top of all that she's counting thousands of dollars everyday and ain't got shit!! Plus white folks at work probably fuckin with her and white folks coming to the bank being snobish and rude. Fuck you'd be pissed off too! With all the B.S. we as black people deal with on a daily basis sometimes its hard to be nice to anyone! Hell I feel the Sista, I know what she dealin wit cause I been there!

 

[mrimperial]

let's play the devils advocate though...
black women...please don't hesitate to demand your respect but you all need to chill on the attitude shit. why? because YOU ARE GOING TO BE OBSOLETE IN 15 YEARS...

think about it. as more and more black men are becoming more aware of the beauty that exist outside of the US and able to travel abroad, we're beginning to wonder why we put up with the overzealous attitudes of our black sisters.

YES, we need you because nobody's gonna tell us when our shit stinks and nobody can help raise a young king like you do but we're finding out slowly but surely that other races have those same attributes.

we're learning that
japanese women are just as obsessed with "family first" as our sisters.
african, south american and eastern european women have the attractive qualities we usually would find in you (i.e. tan skin, titties and ass, jet black hair,full lips etc)
they are able to mentally stimulate us like you once did
just to name a few examples that i've accumulated in my travels...

now keep in mind this is just my opinion, nothing's written in stone(for now) but as an african american man, why would i put up with all the hatred, low self esteem, manhood testing and attitude if i didn't have to?

now i'm not going to put down my sisters as an excuse to date other races. my curiosity naturally progressed as i travel to places like honduras(the women have jet black hair and copper skin, damn that shit is sexy) but if i have a greater chance at peace of mind...shouldn't i go after it?

i'm sure you all are sick of our (african american men) shit too, so let's debate this. but i can only speak from me and my homies experience.

 

[OnSlaught]

Personally I seem to feel a negative vibe from at least half the sista's I encounter. And I'm not making a sweeping generalization, thats just a fact. Often times just looking at the scowl on their faces makes me want to run the other way. But, is it really their fault?

But not only the sista's hell brotha's are pissed off too! Just look at some of things happening to our young brotha's. Some of the shit they doin is just crazy! But again I ask is it really their fault?

Truth is until black people start sticking together and working as one we will always feel left out, stepped over, and disenfranchised! Plain and simple that sista was not really upset with the latin chick at all. It had to do with how she felt and what she was dealing with. I mean hell she workin at the bank and cant afford decent cloths! Can't get her hair done or her nails polished and on top of all that she's counting thousands of dollars everyday and ain't got shit!! Plus white folks at work probably fuckin with her and white folks coming to the bank being snobish and rude. Fuck you'd be pissed off too! With all the B.S. we as black people deal with on a daily basis sometimes its hard to be nice to anyone! Hell I feel the Sista, I know what she dealin wit cause I been there!

let's play the devils advocate though...
black women...please don't hesitate to demand your respect but you all need to chill on the attitude shit. why? because YOU ARE GOING TO BE OBSOLETE IN 15 YEARS...

think about it. as more and more black men are becoming more aware of the beauty that exist outside of the US and able to travel abroad, we're beginning to wonder why we put up with the overzealous attitudes of our black sisters.

YES, we need you because nobody's gonna tell us when our shit stinks and nobody can help raise a young king like you do but we're finding out slowly but surely that other races have those same attributes.

we're learning that
japanese women are just as obsessed with "family first" as our sisters.
african, south american and eastern european women have the attractive qualities we usually would find in you (i.e. tan skin, titties and ass, jet black hair,full lips etc)
they are able to mentally stimulate us like you once did
just to name a few examples that i've accumulated in my travels...

now keep in mind this is just my opinion, nothing's written in stone(for now) but as an african american man, if i didn't have to put up with all the hatred, low self esteem, manhood testing and attitude if i didn't have to?

now i'm not going to put down my sisters as an excuse to date other races. my curiosity naturally progressed as i travel to places like honduras(the women have jet black hair and copper skin, damn that shit is sexy) but if i have a greater chance at peace of mind...shouldn't i go after it?

i'm sure you all are sick of our (african american men) shit too, so let's debate this. but i can only speak from me and my homies experience.

Hmmmm...very good points. At the end of the day, on both sides, it's about piece of mind...

 

[dopemcee]

did you guys miss the part where homie said she said "call me so we can FUCK..."....

did she really say that??

 

[Harlem's Angel]

Your wife is better than me. I would have had my foot in some asses.

PREACH!

 

[Ciel]

did you guys miss the part where homie said she said "call me so we can FUCK..."....

did she really say that??

he didn't say that she said those exact words... he said that's what the tone of her "goodbye" implied.

 

[GET YOU HOT]

Why are the black women so fuckin mean when you flirt and talk with other women, meaning she could be white, asian, latina, or even another black woman. I went to the bank today, and i was in line, and this latina woman ( first of all she is thick, round plump bubble ass, small waist, pretty hair, good lookin woman) so continuing, I know her from another gym, but she recognized me. So me being Mr Manners , I spoke, showed my smile, had a nice conversation with her. She wrote down her number and ask me to call her sometimes, and then went her turn in line. My turn came up, and a sista is workin the window. Now, this sista is cute, but she could use some work, she's big, but she's not fat, but I can tell she was uncomfortable with herself, because she kept pulling her shirt down, because it was too small. When the sista gave me a side view, the ass was like "SUPER DOGGY STYLE POTENTIAL". My latina friend finished her business and said bye, like "bye, call me so we can fuck goodbye " ( for my fellas, the ass is right, like a Vida Guerra type ), as she walks away, THE SISTA calls her a hoe ! " so sick of those no english talkin hoes, all they good for is fuckin and makin babies ". So I stare at her like " where that come from ", and she lookin at me like "nigga what" . Jealous ! Why , because the latina bust her ass to keep her shape right, and you don't, because she looks better than you.

Alright, somebody clear it up for me, because Cameo missed it today.

Her sense of esteem was threatning to you. Her keen sensibilities detected your worthlessness and proceeded with a dramatic type behavior to influence your preconceived notions not to fuck with her...

 

[Cinamiss]

Why are the black women so fuckin mean when you flirt and talk with other women, meaning she could be white, asian, latina, or even another black woman.

How do you think the latina would have acted if she was the bank teller and you were a latin man flirting with a very attractive, well put together, black woman? Just curious. Do you still think this was a angry black woman issue or a human emotion issue? Because I myself have had this happen to me.

 

[DeSiRe]

women dont like it when other women get attention

however...

black women expecially dont like it when a black man will give a nonblack woman attention over them

its the way of the world sadly...

 

[OnSlaught]

Her sense of esteem was threatning to you. Her keen sensibilities detected your worthlessness and proceeded with a dramatic type behavior to influence your preconceived notions not to fuck with her...

WOW!

 

[rainandpain]

Why are the black women so fuckin mean when you flirt and talk with other women, meaning she could be white, asian, latina, or even another black woman. I went to the bank today, and i was in line, and this latina woman ( first of all she is thick, round plump bubble ass, small waist, pretty hair, good lookin woman) so continuing, I know her from another gym, but she recognized me. So me being Mr Manners , I spoke, showed my smile, had a nice conversation with her. She wrote down her number and ask me to call her sometimes, and then went her turn in line. My turn came up, and a sista is workin the window. Now, this sista is cute, but she could use some work, she's big, but she's not fat, but I can tell she was uncomfortable with herself, because she kept pulling her shirt down, because it was too small. When the sista gave me a side view, the ass was like "SUPER DOGGY STYLE POTENTIAL". My latina friend finished her business and said bye, like "bye, call me so we can fuck goodbye " ( for my fellas, the ass is right, like a Vida Guerra type ), as she walks away, THE SISTA calls her a hoe ! " so sick of those no english talkin hoes, all they good for is fuckin and makin babies ". So I stare at her like " where that come from ", and she lookin at me like "nigga what" . Jealous ! Why , because the latina bust her ass to keep her shape right, and you don't, because she looks better than you.

Alright, somebody clear it up for me, because Cameo missed it today.

because these black girls know they have more testosterone than any other girls. they got more than asian men, thats why they afraid of losing black men,