If people want relationships that's good on them. Those who don't, that should be good on them too.
But instead we try to treat relationships like there's some sort of prize. A competition that every man woman and child should be hell bent on winning even when it doesn't make sense.
I mean look at the title of this thread. Ebony k Williams wants to bag a high value man. It's the same way rednecks talk about hunting deer.
In reality, being in a relationship is like being openly gay. Both are lifestyle choices. Neither are inherently good or bad. It all depends on how you conduct and carry yourself. Just as important are the standards you set for what you will or won't accept.
Also, unless you're on some Romeo and Juliet bullshit everyone dies alone.