Ebony K. Williams wants to bag a high value man as a single mom ???
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Do you judge divorced single mothers differently from single unmarried mothers?
A lot of them chicks aren't even all that without that filter and makeup on.
So many of these chicks think they're a dime when they're nothing more than a nickel or penny!
Good luck brotha, because it's a shame most women out there don't know their worth nor act their salary or wage. So, they expect every man to have a 6 or 5 figure income and vice versa.
Also of educated sistas have the most debt going to these colleges that they have to pay all that money back and not even making the income they had to take a student loan out to pay for those majors.
Yeah, we could do more as black folks but then again it's a challenge when you have to deal with these racist companies that don't want to hire a black person even if they're qualified for that job since they would rather hire a white person who don't have the same resume to be qualified for that job because it's a domino effect.
I want to see more black marriages having longevity but black couples must come to terms about being realistic of what they have and don't expect for someone to have more than you when you don't have more than that person yourself.
Eboni is giving too many women a false sense of reality of what women should be looking for from men since a lot of them aren't on the same level to demand the same thing.
So, this is what Kevin Samuels was trying to teach about being humble of your expectations to not go past them when women don't have it themselves to begin with.
I just wish more black folks came together as a whole to find solutions for both sexes on what they expect from each other without belittling each other of not having this or that when they can build together to get what they want.
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Facts but some chick put on make up and still look wack. So go figure.
Facts, a lot of these chicks need to be humble but simps be gassing them up.
I don't even have a problem with that,the problem is them hoes don't like to keep up their end of the unsaid agreement
Other women be gassin them up to
And I don't think there's anything wrong with that. The problem is this "I am the table" mentality a lot of them have like they're owed lavishness. They see women on social media with said lifestyle and don't realize what comes with it. They listen to these MALE influencers telling them they deserve it, and I can show you how to get it if you buy my book! Meanwhile, no one is being honest with them. Those guys are RARE and they want something in return. Plus if a dude is making hella money he's also clocking hella hours. Social media has a lot of people thinking if you're an entrepreneur you just sit back and collect checks while sitting on a beach in Croatia. Nah, if you got a man that's making hundreds of thousands or millions, yo ass gon be spending hella time alone. They want the million-dollar lifestyle with a blue-collar worker's 40 hours schedule. Dream big for your lifestyle, sis. But accept what comes with that shit.
PREACH!
Yes. Divorced single mothers at least attempted to do the shit the right way. I know women with 4 or more baby daddies and have never even been engaged.
Anyone who has kids knows how much of a full-time job it is and single mothers who work full time and come home to have to Wrangle kids without help is difficult to Impossible.
They have to teach kids to read, teach kids discipline, teach kids order, teach kids responsibility with no help, and it's often due to their poor choices in men
On the same hand, men are out here just having babies with no concern about the kid or the kids future. Many of them don't take care of them financially or visit the child. The kids grow up with no example of a good man and beLIEving that there's nothing wrong with being a single mother
Always remember there is a big lie in the middle of believe
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Any single mother of 3 or more kids who has never been married knows exactly how hard this shit is and chose to do the shit again not once, but 2 or more different times or more. That's reprehensible. At least pick a better quality guy.
Many times, if their mother is a single mother, they don't have any idea what a good man looks like. So they don't even know who to aim for or who to not allow anywhere near your bedroom
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I agree with you! That's true too!
I agree with your post but one thing that I find interesting is that if we bring up HIV and AIDS rates amongst Black women it always gets kicked back to Black men, and we are all accused of being down-low faggots.
Before somebody comes in here and accuses me of taking up for gay men, I do know that Black gay men have an HIV rate of nearly 50% and recognize that those rates are high as hell but if you're you're a 25-year-old Black woman with four baby daddies and probably a very high body count and your condom usage is probably less than 30% of the time, the risk and the infection is squarely on you.
someone gets it.
Don't believe any of that , oh foreign women only want you for your money. meanwhile we have one of the highest divorce rates and women taking you to child support and taking half. Not to mention the requirements most of these broads have from the jump in terms of your income.
All women are chasing lifestyle and status. It just depends on her background and upbringing, she will require less. The higher she does this on her own, the less her options will be, practically shooting herself in the foot.
I don't believe any percentage numbers that comes out of America. They like to make it seem that black and brown people are responsible for this or that, black and brown people are responsible for the spread of HIV and AIDS and this that in the third. Black and brown people have the most abortions. All of that is complete horseshit
2023
- West Virginia - 97.12%
- Wyoming - 93.79%
- Vermont - 92.8%
- Maine - 92.69%
- New Hampshire - 91.53%
- Iowa - 90.36%
- Kentucky - 87.77%
If you listen to White people, they're not responsible for anything, it's all the black and the brown people or the Asians.
Remember that statistic that supposedly came from the FBI saying that black people were 13% of the population but committed 50% of the murders? More bullshit.
Read this thread and realized how I have never had these problems. I believe because I grew up in Miami all the girls were from other countries and were just humbler and happy to be in the US. Also such a different time then. No music or movies or social media leading them that way.
Man this nigga is hilarious
lmao my nigga said "neanderthal snowpuppy"
If I understand this correctly she went to the sperm bank to have a kid and she said something about paying extra so that the kid could one day actually get the name of the man.
Also she claimed that she broke up with her fiance because he chose to spend quarantine with his kids instead of her during the pandemic.
If she is mad that a man wanted to spend time with his kids rather than his fiance, she's a selfish bitch and she deserves whatever bad shit is coming to her.
I know I'm selfish. That's why I don't date single mothers. I want to spend time with my check and not have to worry about some cock blocker AKA rugrat getting in the way.
Now, when it's my kids I'll understand and I'll have patience for my own kids, but I don't have patience for someone else's kids. So, I know not to date single mothers
But if I were to date a single mother and she wanted to spend time with her kids instead of me during the pandemic, I can't be mad at that
She's grifting, that's her problem.
Only a dude very comfortable in the spotlight would even bother with her. Like Dwade and Gabrielle...
Unless you crave the spotlight she's toxic. Your whole relationship will be for public consumption, most dudes ain't signing up for that.
Only a dude very comfortable in the spotlight would even bother with her. Like Dwade and Gabrielle...
Unless you crave the spotlight she's toxic. Your whole relationship will be for public consumption, most dudes ain't signing up for that.
Whether you agree or disagree with him, dude is fucking hilarious
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