Does Monogamy Really Exist For African American Men?

[tarriqq]

Almost all women in America consistenly says "one woman and one man, I would never share my man." I usually tell them that YOU ARE sharing rather you know it or not. As men we know VERY few men who are ONLY with one woman. Then when you look at the Disparities that exist between Black Men and Women. I saw a report that talked about some of the varibles like that a decent woman faces when looking for a "reasonalble man" like Prison, Prison Mentality, Drug Addiction, Lack of Employment, Poor Social Skills, Homosexuality, Men Dying early, Men having more risky jobs Etc.... It was an intresting article. I would not be surprised if the numbers for people over 40 are something like 10 - 20 to 1 in some cities. It is crazy how many women hit on me much more now than when I was much more attractive in my 30s. I am sure some of those variables include my financial stabilty, taking care of myself as an older brother and maybe a few more but what I am sure about is the huge "numbers gap"


I have found that most older women accept you having another women if you are honest about your intentions. I have talked to my lady about this about a month ago and WE just got a girlfriend.


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[BGLR1212000]

The subject has been talked about to death. Let me even jokingly say something about a girlfriend to my wife, I get the death stare. It's much more common for a new chick to mess with a man if he is married, but very rarely is the wife down for that kind of shit.

 

[Damian Stone]

Hmm better than serial cheating.

 

[kefta]

Interesting!

 

[Mentor B]

African-American men and women are unfortunately too whitewashed to practice the lifestyle of their ancestors.

 

[tarriqq]

Bet Most Men Want A Wife Like This!!

 

[ballscout1]

the amount of mofokrs that don't take care of their children or respect one woman is unacceptable.

And you think these same simple mofokrs can respect multiple women and take care of the children they produce.

Multiple wives and many children was seen as wealth..do cats see their children today as wealth and their mothers as wealth or a burden ?

It ain't just having permission to fuck many women....

 

[voodoo]

African-American men and women are unfortunately too whitewashed to practice the lifestyle of their ancestors.

who is that chick in your sig?

 

[Naha-Nago]

If you want to be trill about it monogamy is a human issue not a black man or male issue...


* two cents *

 

[MrBee]

African-American men and women are unfortunately too whitewashed to practice the lifestyle of their ancestors.

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[Nzinga]

Multiple wives and many children was seen as wealth..do cats see their children today as wealth and their mothers as wealth or a burden ?

It ain't just having permission to fuck many women....

The primary reason for polygamy was to balance the number of wives
and husbands to ensure the prosperity of children. We understood that
neither single men nor single women could raise children by themselves,
and since wars and the hazards associated with the natural vocations of
men resulted in their early deaths, there was a shortage of men. The
recourse was polygamy, to ensure that every woman had a husband among
the few available men.

I am not going to step into black American affairs, but this girl may
be on to something...

 

[BGLR1212000]

Bet Most Men Want A Wife Like This!!

I'd rather be single than mess with a chick like this.

 

[KunningLinguist]

i am monogamous...

and it very very difficult...

i love my wife and only want to be with her (really)...but we go thru droughts and that shyt is hard on a brother...

 

[MICROJUBEI]

wow ..... EDUCATION, CAREERS WITH GREAT PAY, A GENERAL SENSE OF UNITY, OWNING OUR OWN BANKS, OWNING OUR OWN TECHNOLOGIES, I'm sure that's more in need to heal the black community than how many women a man can have as his wife..........this (polygamy strengthening the black community) is the most foolish senseless bullshit of all time, a great way to fuck chick without your wife getting mad......but to say THAT is a tool to heal the community is more foolish than a white man back in the day saying to Africans "all you problems in Africa will go away if you get on this boat with me and come to America" - Next the argument will be changing religions will strengthen the black community - PURE BULLSHIT

 

[tallblacknyc]

If you want to be trill about it monogamy is a human issue not a black man or male issue...


* two cents *

if monogamy was never taught and u told a male he can have as many females as he wants with zero consequences for his actions how many males would go i only want 1 female that's it?? u already kno the answer would be close to zero percent would only pick 1..which goes to show it's not a natural thing it is a concept that is pushed for multiple reasons, some in which aren't for ur benefits but higher up benefits

 

[sammyjax]

If you want to be trill about it monogamy is a human issue not a black man or male issue...


* two cents *

 

[ballscout1]

if monogamy was never taught and u told a male he can have as many females as he wants with zero consequences for his actions how many males would go i only want 1 female that's it?? u already kno the answer would be close to zero percent would only pick 1..which goes to show it's not a natural thing it is a concept that is pushed for multiple reasons, some in which aren't for ur benefits but higher up benefits

but that isn't polygamy..

there are consequences and responsibilities..

it ain't a hall pass, it is a larger family with more responsibilities..

it ain't an orgy then you go home...

 

[MICROJUBEI]

wow - what bullshit - I just watched part of polights video - wow - pimping aint easy - I joke but for real, the only guys I've seen with multi wives (girlfriends) are pimps, and I know no one will argue with pimps making the black communities better.

I cant believe we've come to this - we don't need polygamy--- ya know fuck it, to those that think that this will help our communities kill yourself, look at other communities in the US that are considered strong - look at what makes them strong - the 1st thing is they have their own communities that are fairly self contained. go to Koreatown or China town (anywhere USA) they have their own restaurants throughout their community (even non-asain spots like Mcdonalds have asain influence in the menu in asain communities) they have theyre own hospitals, their own banks, theyre own schools..........lets look at schools, I know of a mostly asain school in SoCal, that every race want to try to get into, cause of their graduation rates, and those students success after they leave that school....they teach a strong foundation, they teach or at least encourage hero worship of those deserving it......example, Jonas Salk is seen as cool, not lil wayne. look at idians in NorCal, a dude has 1 wife and shes on his level (emotionally, physically, mentally, financially) and they shop at their "own" grocery stores, they may work at google, but ultimaley they want to start an app or some other form of business

we don't have shit in our communites but gangs, beef, bitches......ah let me stop who cares..its a lot "cooler" to think who or how many I'm fuckin can heal shit around here - wtf - oh well - keep pimpin pimp -

I swear I feel like Dr MLK's episode of boondock -

 

[durham]

Man new pussy is always wonderful, but at some point we have to value stable homes, family units built on some generations history.

And polygamy was based on centralized wealth of a few, and a Lack of opportunity for women. On some level we don't have to follow all ancestral practices of West Africa

 

[MICROJUBEI]

Man new pussy is always wonderful, but at some point we have to value stable homes, family units built on some generations history.

And polygamy was based on centralized wealth of a few, and a Lack of opportunity for women. On some level we don't have to follow all ancestral practices of West Africa

I fully agree

 

[tallblacknyc]

but that isn't polygamy..

there are consequences and responsibilities..

it ain't a hall pass, it is a larger family with more responsibilities..

it ain't an orgy then you go home...

if a male even thought of having multiple girlfriends he would more than likely recieve negative feedback due to his idea..that is the negative consequences that he would automatically recieve due to the monogamy mindset that society has been taught..u see the idea alone would get shot down b4 he even did 1 action..if u erased the mindset than people would be more open to thinking about the larger family..the gates already shut b4 he could even put his leg out.. hell it's illegal to marry 2 chicks in this country talk about a forced concept

 

[Dr. Truth]

Man new pussy is always wonderful, but at some point we have to value stable homes, family units built on some generations history.

And polygamy was based on centralized wealth of a few, and a Lack of opportunity for women. On some level we don't have to follow all ancestral practices of West Africa

You can jave both. Stability with jump offs and a wife who gets it. You can't live life ignoring human needs. Basic cravings like water and pussy.

 

[hussla's paradice]

I would like to be...

 

[ballscout1]

if a male even thought of having multiple girlfriends he would more than likely recieve negative feedback due to his idea..that is the negative consequences that he would automatically recieve due to the monogamy mindset that society has been taught..u see the idea alone would get shot down b4 he even did 1 action..if u erased the mindset than people would be more open to thinking about the larger family..the gates already shut b4 he could even put his leg out.. hell it's illegal to marry 2 chicks in this country talk about a forced concept

I know plenty of cats that have multiple girlfriends and they all know about each other.

I have been in that situation but I was always upfront...This is how I am and then they had the choice to deal with it or not.


Now marriage is a whole different animal

 

[cokely_muhammad]

These white devils just passed a law in all 50 states that faggots, dykes, sissies and bulldaggers can marry yet it is still illegal for a black man to have more than one wife. In the bible, polygamy was damn near all of the marriage examples. In Islam as taught by the Honorable Elijah Muhammad, we can have up to 4 wives.

 

[Mello Mello]

Subs to see where this convo goes.

Monogamy really doesn't exist for Black Women either.

Most people are serial monogamist.

Meaning we come together for a time then part to do the same thing with someone else.

 

[jwilliam85]

It depends on what version of yourself you have access to. If you don't know how to be 100% yourself your selection of women will be limited so will your perspective. But if your being yourself to the fullest you will attract so many women that you really can guage the plus and minus of being with one woman only.

 

[playahaitian]

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[Flawless]

So the African American man is so sex craved he can't have one woman?

 

[code_pirahna]

I think there have been studies showing that polygamist societies don t do well.....

 

[tallblacknyc]

I know plenty of cats that have multiple girlfriends and they all know about each other.

I have been in that situation but I was always upfront...This is how I am and then they had the choice to deal with it or not.


Now marriage is a whole different animal

truss i kno various people like that to it's juss that overall we live in a pro-monogamy society and lots of people aren't ready for diff ideas or couldn't imagine any other concept..overall if either or works for u and ur partner/partners and no one is hurt go for it

 

[tallblacknyc]

So the African American man is so sex craved he can't have one woman?

isn't relationships suppose to be about more than sex..maybe the man found more than 1 female who he loves/enjoy their presence

 

[Dr. Truth]

So the African American man is so sex craved he can't have one woman?

You're annoying as fuck. This is a human issue all men are sex crazed troll.

 

[simonmarcel]

Most men think of polygamy as a means to be monogamous with multiple women. But it's an outdated concept. You can have one wife and fuck as many women on the side as you want. There is no way I'm living with 5 women.

 

[IT IS WHAT IT IS]

Been married 13 years and have never crept on my wife. Like any Dude I've been tempted, had mad opportunities, but my wife and family means too much to me. When my 3 year old runs into my bedroom every more with his arms up yelling DADDY with that big ass smile on his face... I realize every day that not piece of spare pussy is worth losing my family or destroying my son or the complications it brings with it. I love family too much for that shit real rap...