Does a Non-Black spouse negate a Pro-Black message?

If a blacktivist has a white spouse what's your response?

  • Who cares, the message is the message

    Votes: 26 37.1%
  • Can't take seriously

    Votes: 44 62.9%

  • Total voters
    70
You're all talking about LOVE and MARRIAGE as if they are the same thing and you haven't stopped to think about how much pure LAZINESS figures into who a man chooses to actually settles down with. I would bet that the vast majority of men have settled down and married the woman that it took the least amount of EFFORT to get.

Most dudes are so damned lazy that if there was a way to park INSIDE the grocery store instead of walking in from the parking lot, they would do it!
 
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George Lucas Gifts $10 Million To Black & Hispanic Students at USC’s Film School Amid Racist Star Wars Backlash

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One thing that makes me smile is when people stand up and stick it to blatant racist. George Lucas decided to make the racist backlash over his new film into a positive for underrepresented college students in the field of film study.

The trailer for “Star Wars: The Force Awakens” premiered recently with many racist gushing at the opportunity to express their displeasure over too many black and people of color in the film. Obviously, they wish for an all white future of mankind, even if it is a fictional series that has always had black lead characters. You know reality has no place in the mind of racist.

The trailer for “Star Wars: The Force Awakens” premiered recently with many racist gushing at the opportunity to express their displeasure over too many black and people of color in the film. Obviously, they wish for an all white future of mankind, even if it is a fictional series that has always had black lead characters. You know reality has no place in the mind of racist.

Unphased, Lucas decided to dip into his George Lucas Family Foundation to make a donation. The $10 million dollar endowment will support the recruitment and talent of African Americans and Hispanic students from underrepresented areas to USC School of Cinematic Arts.
http://urbanintellectuals.com/2015/...s-film-school-amid-racist-star-wars-backlash/

so you guys are saying that if homegirl talked to her husband and suggested he do that...what she did for her people is STILL suspect because he's white???
 
Interesting, though not surprising, that no one brought up Eartha Kitt and Alice Walker. Were their accomplishments diminished because they were married to white men?
 
I agree. It does lose its authenticity to me.

I don't believe the you can't help who you fall in love with bs either. Love isn't some passive act you just let other people impose on you. We all choose and decide who we will be courted by who we allow in our midst.

It's why I say be weary of those who are extreme pro-black, they talk about black everything but usually hiding a non-black spouse somewhere.

I use to know this brotha who was always about kicking knowledge for the people. Organizing us for protest and issues concerning black student union in college. He had so many black women on him he was fighting them off. Somehow word got around to his wife and she started showing up to our BSU meeting. When we seen her for the first time we all broke out laughing behind his back. She was this tiny 4'9 pudgy Asian girl in tow with this little mixed baby and he was this 6'2 solid built black man.

Now it didn't mean what he was saying wasn't true in regard to the matters that concerned us but it definitely took a lot of steam out of his words and messages when he talked about what black people should be doing. After that many just seen him as a means to an end. Whatever pro black message he had lost all resonance with many of BSU.
then you wanted to believe in HIM rather than in what he was saying as the truth. Truth is truth regardless of the vessel it comes in. Thats how con artists get over on people...as long as they SHOW what people want to see theyre good. If the knowledge he was kicking was true, good and provable or workable...why should you care about who he sleeps with and makes a home with??
 
Interesting, though not surprising, that no one brought up Eartha Kitt and Alice Walker. Were their accomplishments diminished because they were married to white men?
well when you talk about leadership in the black community no one really thinks about the role black women play in that..including black women
 
well when you talk about leadership in the black community no one really thinks about the role black women play in that..including black women

If that's the case, then we're being fucking morons! Ida B. Wells took the wheel, when nobody had the balls to do it, and I mean nobody! You're telling me that she ain't a leader?
 
Under a system of white supremacy, no
non-white people should be marrying or having sexual relations with white people until the problem (racism/white supremacy) is solved.

The power dynamics are not balanced, even, nor just!
Neely Fuller likens it to sexual predation on the part of the white person. In fact he says it's like child molestation because blacks are not viewed as adults by racist/white supremacists.
 
Black people always want to talk about racism when we are just as racist as white people. In my life i've been with been with 9 different nationalities of women. You want to know something. No matter what nationality it was. The pussy was good! So some you hung MF can pick and choose who you fuck. Or who you kick it with, But all of any nationality is not all bad.
 
Message is the message but effectiveness of the message is helped by how sincerely the messenger appears about said message...having a non Black spouse doesn't automatically take away one's credibility but it does mean a more critical look most be taken at the messenger....Frederick Douglass had a white second wife and fuck anybody on BG fucking OL that questions his commitment after examining his life
 
I think it's unfair. Judge by actions than skin color. If some dude was stationed in some hick town and some chick gave him mad head and did right by him, and ends up married. two kids. He then decides to become a politician and help his people, and his family. He has a wife already now and two teenage sons. What you going to do? Dump her so you can keep an image?
Mmmmm Nah. Marriage is alot more complicated than that. Why would your loins even get aroused by that? Knowing where she comes from? Knowing what she's made of? Knowing her peoples history? At a certain point you DECIDE to ignore all that. And get with her. You decide to ignore the side comments. You choose to ignore the stuff they let get by. Not knowing how that stuff will effect you. And you will start making excuses for it.

Nah.
 
Black people always want to talk about racism when we are just as racist as white people. In my life i've been with been with 9 different nationalities of women. You want to know something. No matter what nationality it was. The pussy was good! So some you hung MF can pick and choose who you fuck. Or who you kick it with, But all of any nationality is not all bad.
You lost me with the whole "blacks can be racist" talk. I'm sure you believe it and will even have some validating argument behind it. Just remember that if you do not understand racism/white supremacy and how it works everything you THINK YOU KNOW will only confuse you.
 
You're all talking about LOVE and MARRIAGE as if they are the same thing and you haven't stopped to think about how much pure LAZINESS figures into who a man chooses to actually settles down with. I would bet that the vast majority of men have settled down and married the woman that it took the least amount of EFFORT to get.

Most dudes are so damned lazy that if there was a way to park INSIDE the grocery store instead of walking in from the parking lot, they would do it!
Yeah. They are. Like chris rock said 1 time men concede marriage. Just tell me the time to be there and i'll be there.
 
Black people always want to talk about racism when we are just as racist as white people. In my life i've been with been with 9 different nationalities of women. You want to know something. No matter what nationality it was. The pussy was good! So some you hung MF can pick and choose who you fuck. Or who you kick it with, But all of any nationality is not all bad.
you have no idea what racism is....
 
Black people always want to talk about racism when we are just as racist as white people. In my life i've been with been with 9 different nationalities of women. You want to know something. No matter what nationality it was. The pussy was good! So some you hung MF can pick and choose who you fuck. Or who you kick it with, But all of any nationality is not all bad.
As long as you don't profess black issues then i don't see a tertiary problem.
 
You're all talking about LOVE and MARRIAGE as if they are the same thing and you haven't stopped to think about how much pure LAZINESS figures into who a man chooses to actually settles down with. I would bet that the vast majority of men have settled down and married the woman that it took the least amount of EFFORT to get.

Most dudes are so damned lazy that if there was a way to park INSIDE the grocery store instead of walking in from the parking lot, they would do it!
marraiage is just a commitment based on YOUR WORD. you say in front of witnesses that this person is the only one for you...thats it. How well you keep your word is up to you.

Message is the message but effectiveness of the message is helped by how sincerely the messenger appears about said message...having a non Black spouse doesn't automatically take away one's credibility but it does mean a more critical look most be taken at the messenger....Frederick Douglass had a white second wife and fuck anybody on BG fucking OL that questions his commitment after examining his life
based on his actions for his people whats the need for a more critical look??

Mmmmm Nah. Marriage is alot more complicated than that. Why would your loins even get aroused by that? Knowing where she comes from? Knowing what she's made of? Knowing her peoples history? At a certain point you DECIDE to ignore all that. And get with her. You decide to ignore the side comments. You choose to ignore the stuff they let get by. Not knowing how that stuff will effect you. And you will start making excuses for it.

Nah.

thats not true... see fredrick douglas...
 
You lost me with the whole "blacks can be racist" talk. I'm sure you believe it and will even have some validating argument behind it. Just remember that if you do not understand racism/white supremacy and how it works everything you THINK YOU KNOW will only confuse you.

How soon people like you forget. Funny how people like you forget about how whites were deemed "property" by the courts, and how they had to live through the Biff Crow era, and how they were brutalized while they peacefully marched to overturn policies that WE put in place through LAW. And let's not even get into all of the other shit we did to them, with the backing of the SC.
 
I agree. It does lose its authenticity to me.

I don't believe the you can't help who you fall in love with bs either. Love isn't some passive act you just let other people impose on you. We all choose and decide who we will be courted by who we allow in our midst.

It's why I say be weary of those who are extreme pro-black, they talk about black everything but usually hiding a non-black spouse somewhere.

I use to know this brotha who was always about kicking knowledge for the people. Organizing us for protest and issues concerning black student union in college. He had so many black women on him he was fighting them off. Somehow word got around to his wife and she started showing up to our BSU meeting. When we seen her for the first time we all broke out laughing behind his back. She was this tiny 4'9 pudgy Asian girl in tow with this little mixed baby and he was this 6'2 solid built black man.

Now it didn't mean what he was saying wasn't true in regard to the matters that concerned us but it definitely took a lot of steam out of his words and messages when he talked about what black people should be doing. After that many just seen him as a means to an end. Whatever pro black message he had lost all resonance with many of BSU.


LOL...where did you go? One of my homies in College(Mixed Black and White) used to be on some ultra activist shit. He used to shame us if we missed a BSU meeting,used to wear his BSU sweatshirt all over campus,refused to stand for the National Anthem for sports games and gave us lectures every day. Come to find out this dude put his race down as Native American for all his applications and married a Mexican.I'd bet money she was the first chick to give him some pussy too.He is my FB friend and TOTALLY different now.
 
Neely Fuller likens it to sexual predation on the part of the white person. In fact he says it's like child molestation because blacks are not viewed as adults by racist/white supremacists.

Exactly. That part of the book tripped me out when I read it. I recommend the book to all non white (black) people.

In my 32 years of living no one has made more logical, concrete, and constructive sense to me than Mr. Neely Fuller Jr.
 
Neely Fuller likens it to sexual predation on the part of the white person. In fact he says it's like child molestation because blacks are not viewed as adults by racist/white supremacists.
already addressed
Since when does who your fucking or in love with have to do with seeing your group uplifted?

You know how many cacs call nonwhites subhumans all day long then go sniffing for black, brown, red and yellow pussy that night??
in order to do horrible things to another human being you have to dehumanize them first. Thats why war propaganda exists..

you know how many black soldiers called the vietnamese gooks and slopes (dehumanizing terms) yet had amerasian kids over there??
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Abandoned Amerasian orphans- Viet Nam - "the children of the dust ...

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Portrait of an unidentified Amerasian woman and her children at a roadside stall Ho Chi Minh
 
Mmmmm Nah. Marriage is alot more complicated than that. Why would your loins even get aroused by that? Knowing where she comes from? Knowing what she's made of? Knowing her peoples history? At a certain point you DECIDE to ignore all that. And get with her. You decide to ignore the side comments. You choose to ignore the stuff they let get by. Not knowing how that stuff will effect you. And you will start making excuses for it.

Nah.
Um that made no sense.
What does history before her have to do with her as a present person? If she acknowledges the wrong and shown shes a good woman, that is that. You can't hold me responsible for the actions of my father if I did everything in my power to change it. And being a private person dealing with it is a lot different than being on a cusp of a black movement as the question suggests. People are often naive as youth and then see pro blackness.
 
Um that made no sense.
What does history before her have to do with her as a present person? If she acknowledges the wrong and shown shes a good woman, that is that. You can't hold me responsible for the actions of my father if I did everything in my power to change it. And being a private person dealing with it is a lot different than being on a cusp of a black movement as the question suggests. People are often naive as youth and then see pro blackness.
Whites CAN'T do everything in thier power to change anything. I can and will hold you responsible for the actions of your father. A woman being what a woman is and influencing a man will make her capable of softening his stance on things.
 
marraiage is just a commitment based on YOUR WORD. you say in front of witnesses that this person is the only one for you...thats it. How well you keep your word is up to you.


based on his actions for his people whats the need for a more critical look??



thats not true... see fredrick douglas...
Yes it is. And i don't care. I don't address you because you're already known to be a white sympathizer. My words aren't for you because you don't stand for black people or black families.
 
Unlike crackas we can be pro black without wanting to exterminate everybody else.

Come on man lol read what you wrote?
I just said Pro black family and you said exterminate everybody else...
what's the threat to keeping the black family structure and creating more black unions and kids?
A BIG ONE.
Cacs ain't passing down no wealth to no niggas. not none. not 1 black family is about to get wealth from a white family
 
Come on man lol read what you wrote?
I just said Pro black family and you said exterminate everybody else...
what's the threat to keeping the black family structure and creating more black unions and kids?
A BIG ONE.
Cacs ain't passing down no wealth to no niggas. not none. not 1 black family is about to get wealth from a white family

I'm not specifically speaking on cacs. Is this post explicitly about whites and blacks?
 
Yes it is. And i don't care. I don't address you because you're already known to be a white sympathizer. My words aren't for you because you don't stand for black people or black families.
You just did address me and I think you need to do your homework better if you think I'm a white sympathizer. I'm just logical and not emotional based. Reread my many posts against the police, racists, trump, etc. you just talking out your ass. I'm just smart enough to not hold person accountable for everyone. That's how a white racist thinks for black people. And your response I don't care doesn't negate the fact you're wrong. I gave you a scenario where it's complicated at the very least to say he can't be pro black and instead of acknowledging that, you followed your emotions and said it can't work. It is me who is done with you because I don't like wasting my time with childlike minds.
 
I'm not specifically speaking on cacs. Is this post explicitly about whites and blacks?

that's what I took it as.
I'm not tripping off of people of COLOR.
im talking about WHITE. don't share wealth with them don't let them tear up our families from the inside out.

there's dudes who married a white broad and do for her family more than he does for their own black family
will call tyrell a fucking money grubbing bitch for asking to be put through barber college
but loan biff 100k to start a pet rock business no problem.
 
that's what I took it as.
I'm not tripping off of people of COLOR.
im talking about WHITE. don't share wealth with them don't let them tear up our families from the inside out.

there's dudes who married a white broad and do for her family more than he does for their own black family
will call tyrell a fucking money grubbing bitch for asking to be put through barber college
but loan biff 100k to start a pet rock business no problem.
I feel you. I agree.
 
then you wanted to believe in HIM rather than in what he was saying as the truth. Truth is truth regardless of the vessel it comes in. Thats how con artists get over on people...as long as they SHOW what people want to see theyre good. If the knowledge he was kicking was true, good and provable or workable...why should you care about who he sleeps with and makes a home with??

No, like I said it didn't mean what he was saying wasn't true. We didn't reject the truth of any truth. If it was just about him then the whole BSU would've fallen apart after finding out who his wife was. However, it did change how we seen him and his message especially when he was critical of black people.

When you take a leadership position your setting an example. People believing in you is apart of that. Having a black wife isn't just for show. It's demonstration of growing and building future black families, building a black nation.

Truth telling isn't the only requirement needed for black progress. Just because you speak black empowerment doesn't mean your job is done.

LOL...where did you go? One of my homies in College(Mixed Black and White) used to be on some ultra activist shit. He used to shame us if we missed a BSU meeting,used to wear his BSU sweatshirt all over campus,refused to stand for the National Anthem for sports games and gave us lectures every day. Come to find out this dude put his race down as Native American for all his applications and married a Mexican.I'd bet money she was the first chick to give him some pussy too.He is my FB friend and TOTALLY different now.

:lol: Wow. That's some bullshit.

Man I've been to a few colleges around the bay. San Jose State, Hayward, De Anza a few others. But this dude Im speaking of was at De Anza back in 04. Dudes name was Moses he had a beard hair tied in a knot and he carried a staff. :smh: Dude was the same way shaming us about not showing for meetings, not buying black, doing for black.

Then when some confronted him about his wife then he was like. "It don't matter what the woman look like because my kids will always be black because I'm black".
 
Yes it is. And i don't care. I don't address you because you're already known to be a white sympathizer. My words aren't for you because you don't stand for black people or black families.

fucking a white woman and sympathizing and helping a white power structure are two completely different things I thought you were smarter than that:smh:

your argument is similar to people who claim that homosexuals are an abomination to society because their union can't produce children.
 
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