Do you initiate?

I do both ... I'll initiate but I really like when a man comes for me ... something about him reaching over for me makes me:yes:

Thanks for the reply. I was talking to a friend and she was saying kind of the same thing. She preferred the 'taken' side.
 
I wish my girl "initiated" more often but for some reason she's a "prude" when it comes to this. Its wierd.
 
I prefer for it to be taken, but most men love to have the women be more aggressive. 'Ol boy loved to wake up to me getting him hard or reaching over to him in the middle of the night.
 
I prefer for it to be taken, but most men love to have the women be more aggressive. 'Ol boy loved to wake up to me getting him hard or reaching over to him in the middle of the night.
Ummm, yeah....I bet he did.:lol: Me and my girl have been together for 8+ years and I have never experienced that from her.:smh: My sidepiece doesnt have that problem though.;)
 
I prefer for it to be taken, but most men love to have the women be more aggressive.

Sometimes I find that to be annoying. Depending upon mood.

I think too many women think, " Have pussy. Will fuck. "

Not putting enough effort into it. Initiating could be started hrs earlier, with the flirting, and sexiness.

I find many women have forgotten that, perhaps because of the men they've dealt with, not being very demanding, they've gotten out of practice, or never possessed the ability in the first place.

Or maybe I've been spoiled. But I'm finding more and more women to be dreadfully boring.
 
^^^:roflmao: Lonestar, I love your attitude girl real talk.

I'd love it if you were faithful:rolleyes:but that is a convo for a diff thread

I just wanna say to the men who may wonder why women don't initiate I know for myself there have been a couple of times where I tried to be the aggressor and the men started talking to me and treating me like I was a whore ... because of that I may not initiate cuz I don't wanna be perceived as an overly aggressive whore:dunno:just my experience
 
I just wanna say to the men who may wonder why women don't initiate I know for myself there have been a couple of times where I tried to be the aggressor and the men started talking to me and treating me like I was a whore ... because of that I may not initiate cuz I don't wanna be perceived as an overly aggressive whore:dunno:just my experience

What pray tell did they say. Your name? Hello?


Quiet is as kept. I think with you, a male's intent is deeply misconstrued more often than not.

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I prefer for it to be taken, but most men love to have the women be more aggressive. 'Ol boy loved to wake up to me getting him hard or reaching over to him in the middle of the night.

I like a woman to take the lead sometime but, don't try to wake me when I am in a coma and need my rest.

:yes::yes:
 
When I'm comfortable enough.. I'll initiate... I do like the guy to be more aggressive though... But define initiate... I mean, for instance, just because you know I kiss on his neck and lick his pecs and give him a blow job doesn't always mean I wanna have sex.. I coulda just wanted to give a blow job... But sometimes when I give a cute lil lap dance, I wanna have sex.... is that initiating???
 
I'd love it if you were faithful:rolleyes:but that is a convo for a diff thread

I just wanna say to the men who may wonder why women don't initiate I know for myself there have been a couple of times where I tried to be the aggressor and the men started talking to me and treating me like I was a whore ... because of that I may not initiate cuz I don't wanna be perceived as an overly aggressive whore:dunno:just my experience

In most cases our interaction with women (e.g. anything from first meeting her to having sex) is initiated by us, so the times when it starts from her words, actions, etc. are much appreciated. Real men can handle a woman initiating a situation without feeling threatened or resorting to name calling...
 
When I'm comfortable enough.. I'll initiate... I do like the guy to be more aggressive though... But define initiate... I mean, for instance, just because you know I kiss on his neck and lick his pecs and give him a blow job doesn't always mean I wanna have sex.. I coulda just wanted to give a blow job... But sometimes when I give a cute lil lap dance, I wanna have sex.... is that initiating???

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When I'm comfortable enough.. I'll initiate... I do like the guy to be more aggressive though... But define initiate... I mean, for instance, just because you know I kiss on his neck and lick his pecs and give him a blow job doesn't always mean I wanna have sex.. I coulda just wanted to give a blow job... But sometimes when I give a cute lil lap dance, I wanna have sex.... is that initiating???

Teach Sista Teach,

There are some out there that could learn from you.

:yes::yes:
 
When I'm comfortable enough.. I'll initiate... I do like the guy to be more aggressive though... But define initiate... I mean, for instance, just because you know I kiss on his neck and lick his pecs and give him a blow job doesn't always mean I wanna have sex.. I coulda just wanted to give a blow job... But sometimes when I give a cute lil lap dance, I wanna have sex.... is that initiating???

I would be heated if u quit after the job:hmm:.....:angry:
 
When I'm comfortable enough.. I'll initiate... I do like the guy to be more aggressive though... But define initiate... I mean, for instance, just because you know I kiss on his neck and lick his pecs and give him a blow job doesn't always mean I wanna have sex.. I coulda just wanted to give a blow job... But sometimes when I give a cute lil lap dance, I wanna have sex.... is that initiating???


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All the fuckin time. I never understood how women go without sex just because they are scared to ask for it or take that shit :smh: Sounds like a pitiful existence to me.:(
 
When I'm comfortable enough.. I'll initiate... I do like the guy to be more aggressive though... But define initiate... I mean, for instance, just because you know I kiss on his neck and lick his pecs and give him a blow job doesn't always mean I wanna have sex.. I coulda just wanted to give a blow job... But sometimes when I give a cute lil lap dance, I wanna have sex.... is that initiating???

:eek::eek:

You win!


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