Should you be able to?
Does it make a difference because it's a cell phone and not a house phone?
Does it make a difference because it's a cell phone and not a house phone?
Do you answer your SO's cell phone?
- Thread starter femmenoire
- Start date
I would. I don't see the problem. If and when I had one I didn't mind him answering my phone especially if I couldn't get to it. If he feels the need to ask who it was then I have no problem telling him.
What about you femme??
What about you femme??
If I'm just dating/relationship. I don't go in a woman's purse, and I do not answer her cell phone, which is usually in their purse.
I think if you're in a committed relationship, you should have nothing to hide so it's no big deal to answer your SO's phone.
But I never have because I think is not a freedom you should automatically exercise. And personally, I'm not that nosy. He pretty much tells me everything anyway so much to the point that I don't want to know it all. Because I really don't need to know it all and I think it's ok to have some things to yourself.
I can understand that. I am not one to question who is calling,normally whomever I am with let's me know without me asking.
if a bitch answers my phone then we're going to have some problems.
I would never ask anyone to let me answer their phone. But if he were in the other room and his phone rang and he told me to answer it, I sure would. I'd let someone answer my phone if I was in a committed relationship, that means I don't have nothing to hide
actually it doesn't.
Last edited:
I don't answer her's, unless she asks me to. I don't expect her to answer mine.
It's not a matter of trying to hide anything. My feeling is that whomever is calling is loooking specifically for me..(on my phone..) and her on her phone.
She has answered mine before..on some nosy woman crap....because I won't answer sometimes when I'm in the house.
I explained that EVERYONE has my cell. I only answer my cell when I feel like it. I don't screen calls....I will just simply ignore it and call back later..(or not).
If I don't want to talk....why would you answer MY phone and say "hold on here he is".
Just let vm pick up.
She ignores it now..
Important folks have my house number.
It's not a matter of trying to hide anything. My feeling is that whomever is calling is loooking specifically for me..(on my phone..) and her on her phone.
She has answered mine before..on some nosy woman crap
....because I won't answer sometimes when I'm in the house. I explained that EVERYONE has my cell. I only answer my cell when I feel like it. I don't screen calls....I will just simply ignore it and call back later..(or not).
If I don't want to talk....why would you answer MY phone and say "hold on here he is".
Just let vm pick up.
She ignores it now..
Important folks have my house number.
Here is the flip side, if not wanting her to answer my phone implies I have something to hide does her wanting to answer my phone mean she doesn't trust me?
To answer the original question I'm not known to answer every incoming call thats why I have VM. If I'm not pressed to answer my phone why would she be?
I also wouldn't answer her phone because like it was stated previously whoever is calling is looking for her not me and if she needed the phone answered so urgently she should have it with her.
To answer the original question I'm not known to answer every incoming call thats why I have VM. If I'm not pressed to answer my phone why would she be?
I also wouldn't answer her phone because like it was stated previously whoever is calling is looking for her not me and if she needed the phone answered so urgently she should have it with her.
Last edited:
Nope a person does not have the right to answer thier SO's phone or cell phone withour permission. That is a violation of trust. If you are not married you REALLY have no right doing so.
No I dont and I dont want mine answered either unless I tell her too. I hate when my phone rings and they try to look at the phone before I pick it up too. Hell sometimes I dont even answer my own cell phone becuz sometimes I dont feel like being bothered.
IMO its not about trust or having something to hide, its about it being my phone.
IMO its not about trust or having something to hide, its about it being my phone.
classic 52 fake. and women fall for it all the time.
wow...shockingly i agree
just b/c a dude let's u answer his phone or announces he is with his girl doesn't mean he aint cheatin
-the "other" women can be cool w/ it and not say anything, its actually a thrill to speak to his girl on the phone knowing he's fucking u
-one of my boy's showed me in his phone my name and like 3 other girls numbers under my name b/c his girl knows who i am (yeah messed up right...lol)
-and NO he doesn't have THAT many damn female cousins
i'm sorry...having a lot of male friends shined light on some slick as grimey shit that they can do to get away w/ things
oh and don't sleep...chics are doing the same
I have, but it's not a biggie if I do or don't. I even know his password to get into certain areas, but I never have snooped around...
If he's going to go out and do something with another woman or anything else behind my back, me snooping around isn't going to stop it...
If he's going to go out and do something with another woman or anything else behind my back, me snooping around isn't going to stop it...
Yes I do. And he answers mine. But usually if its a number we know. If he's in the bathroom or just busy I'll answer if its a family member or his best friend. Other than that I'll just get the phone to him before it stops ringing. Same on his side. And we live together so the house phone is fair game. BUT we've been together damn near 6 yrs. If it were some new negro then he'd get the and a stern talkin to.
and a stern talkin to.
I woulldnt and even if she were my wife i wouldnt do that either
I just respect other peoples stuff and privacy thats all
there are lines i dont like to cross
I just respect other peoples stuff and privacy thats all
there are lines i dont like to cross
AlexandMorgan
Banned
They are scared of you that is why.
I can't stand when Sexy_Scorpio answers my phone ... 
Shit is private, even if it was just my mother calling. Same thing for e-mails, digging through my porn folder, etc. I don't have anything to hide, it's just disrespectul in my eyes unless you have permission. I would never go through anyone else's phone regardless of their activities.
... Shit is private, even if it was just my mother calling. Same thing for e-mails, digging through my porn folder, etc. I don't have anything to hide, it's just disrespectul in my eyes unless you have permission. I would never go through anyone else's phone regardless of their activities.
I can't stand when Sexy_Scorpio answers my phone
What's SO??
Significant Other
Translation:
By letting u answer my phone, u forfit your privicy rights and i'm allowed to answer your phone...no questions asked.
Translation:
By letting u answer my phone, u forfit your privicy rights and i'm allowed to answer your phone...no questions asked.
Lol,no its not.I don't answer other people's phones unless I am asked to.
Similar threads
