Do Women Really Want to Hear the Truth??

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All this talk about faking orgasms has evidently spark some controversy, particularly amongst the female posters. In my opinion if you have to fake anything in an intimate relationship then faking cumming is the least of your issues. Insincerity, lack of honest communication and living a lie are just a few things that come to mind and do nothing to increase the bond women claim they want in male, female relationships. And to compound the issue, not allowing the male to know he is not pleasing you the way you like and not giving him the option of wanting to learn how to please you the way you want or stop having sex with you for what ever reason.

Any way, can women handle the truth? In an earlier thread someone asked, how do you (women) take rejection. The overwhelming response I took away from this question was that most women can’t deal with it. If someone told you something that you didn’t want to hear, would you run and hide from it, turn it back on someone, take it personally or take it as advice?
 
I know that I can handle the truth. But like I said in one of the other threads, it's all about how you talk to a person. You can be honest with me, but don't say something with no consideration of my feelings. I have ZERO tolerance for that. And that's for anyone, friends, family, relationship.

I can handle rejection, although it might be embarrassing (or whatever other emotion you want to insert), I would rather someone tell me then waste my time. . . or avoid me. I hate that. I know that you're not gonna be compatible with everyone you meet, so just be upfront about it.
 
no.

women do not want to hear the truth...

if that was the case, there wouldn't be posts titled how do i tell my girl to lose weight?


women wouldn't be asking the age old question "do i look fat?"

many women wouldn't continue arguing why they are right when it's proven they are wrong...
 
Most women dont because every man has tried to tell their woman the truth about something and she has got mad saying "You werent supposed to say that" and you look at her like :hmm: and say "Did you want me to lie to you. Sometimes even if you try to say it in a nice way and consider their feelings, they still take it wrong and get upset.​
 
thoughtone said:
Do Women Really Want to Hear the Truth??
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The Truth of that question?

Ever have a talk with a woman about what is Sexy?

:cool:

Your the one with the shaft, but she's gonna tell you what turns YOU on!

:cool:

Now tell her different 20 mins. Before ya'll go out. I dare you.

:hmm:


But, we'll just watch whom exactly responds to this post, to find out the truth.

:cool::cool::cool::cool::cool:
 
You ever want to have sex with your women and she is not in the mood. You basic have to accept it and label you as over sexed. But if you are not in the mood when she wants it (yes it does happen to healthy males), then you will get the cold should for an extended period of time or she claims your cheating on her.
 
By show of hands, who is in favor on merging these three threads? :dunno:

http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=216864
http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=217871
http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=217887

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I don't want to know the absolute truth about EVERYTHING. Therefore, I will not ask for the absolute truth, unless I really want it.
 
Woman can't handle the truth. The reason they can't handle the truth is because most women are emotional. Emotional thinking leads to irrational behavior. Emotions causes women to live in a delusional state and a world of denial. For example women think men truly like them. This is where women live in a delusional state. I say this because women will not judge a man the same way they would judge another woman. Meaning if a woman slept with a bunch of men in the office and outside of work she would be called a ho. But if a guy did the same thing and he approached her and mad her feel special most woman would make him their man. If a guy has slept with 100 plus women what makes you think it will stop with you. That is the world of denial most women live in.

If you want to test this theory simply tell a woman her man is no good. Even though she knows he has slept around with numerous woman she will be in a state of denial and will tell you to leave or stop talking to you all together.

This part is hilarious. WOMEN TRULY BELIEVE THAT THEY HAVE MALE FRIENDS. Ladies no man is your friend. They all want to fuck you. Ladies if you heard how your so called male friends talked about you to their boyz then your feelings would be hurt. If you truly knew how most men felt about you then your feelings would be hurt.

Woman are programmed to lie so the truth does not make since to someone who thinks emotionally. A woman can be thinking about fucking and sucking man X dick. But if man X was to say lets fuck or pull out his dick...what will happen? The women will claim she never wanted to fuck him and he disrespected her even tho she was just thinking about it. The truth was he and you wanted to fuck. But woman don't want to hear the truth. They want to her "Baby I love you and you are so special to me Blah blah blah" even tho that aint true.
 
thoughtone said:
You ever want to have sex with your women and she is not in the mood. You basic have to accept it and label you as over sexed. But if you are not in the mood when she wants it (yes it does happen to healthy males), then you will get the cold should for an extended period of time or she claims your cheating on her.
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There's people on this bored who seem to think that's not possible. :rolleyes:
 
BrownTurd said:
Woman can't handle the truth. The reason they can't handle the truth is because most women are emotional. Emotional thinking leads to irrational behavior. Emotions causes women to live in a delusional state and a world of denial. For example women think men truly like them. This is where women live in a delusional state. I say this because women will not judge a man the same way they would judge another woman. Meaning if a woman slept with a bunch of men in the office and outside of work she would be called a ho. But if a guy did the same thing and he approached her and mad her feel special most woman would make him their man. If a guy has slept with 100 plus women what makes you think it will stop with you. That is the world of denial most women live in.

If you want to test this theory simply tell a woman her man is no good. Even though she knows he has slept around with numerous woman she will be in a state of denial and will tell you to leave or stop talking to you all together.

This part is hilarious. WOMEN TRULY BELIEVE THAT THEY HAVE MALE FRIENDS. Ladies no man is your friend. They all want to fuck you. Ladies if you heard how your so called male friends talked about you to their boyz then your feelings would be hurt. If you truly knew how most men felt about you then your feelings would be hurt.

Woman are programmed to lie so the truth does not make since to someone who thinks emotionally. A woman can be thinking about fucking and sucking man X dick. But if man X was to say lets fuck or pull out his dick...what will happen? The women will claim she never wanted to fuck him and he disrespected her even tho she was just thinking about it. The truth was he and you wanted to fuck. But woman don't want to hear the truth. They want to her "Baby I love you and you are so special to me Blah blah blah" even tho that aint true.
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ok.
 
thoughtone said:
Insincerity, lack of honest communication and living a lie are just a few things that come to mind and do nothing to increase the bond women claim they want in male, female relationships.
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I agree with that 100%. Sex problems are most often manifestation of communication problems.

Do women want to know the truth- NO, but neither do men :)
People in general have self-esteems that are either too fragile or defined by transient bullshit. If a man takes great pride in being a good lover, and for some reason he just isn't hitting it with this one girl does he really want to hear his stroke his wack? Not really- it would severely undermine his self-perception. A woman that takes great pride in her appearance (or did at one point) doesn't really want to hear "Baby you lookin like a lard ass." C'mon!
 
It depends what it is about. Like if a man wants to tell me the truth about my brother's sex life, I don't want to hear it. If he wants to tell me I don't look good in a dress, or the meal I cooked isn't good or that I was disrespectful, I want to hear it. It's all about the delivery.
 
I firmly believe the truth is overrated. Everyone wants it, but can't handle it. Myself included. I used to argue with my ex all the time and wanted him to be honest with me about everything. And then be hurt by what he told me, or try to bring it up later. I felt that he owed me the truth, and it wasn't his decision to choose how I can and cannot react. But in reality.. I was beating myself up with the truth. Constantly comparing things that probably shouldn't have. And I would still come to my own speculations... Maybe because he had lied about so much in the past it was hard to accept what the truth was, i don't know. Either way...It was the same with him I think... He wanted to know what I was doing and who I was doing it with, but would still get hurt over the things he found out...

Truth is overrated...
 
THIS IS WHAT THE TRUTH IS...

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when was the last time we look at...not each other...but ourselves? Many of us on this board, possess strong powers of observation about the shit around us...BUT...when it comes to looking at ourselves and accepting certain things, we bitch up. We do not wanna hear it.

It's takes a strong mofo (man/woman) alike to take that shotgun blast, full force, in-your-face...called "The truth."

We as individuals have to grow, mentally and emotionally (including me)...We must get to the point in our lives where, however painful the shot of reality is, we know how to role with it...a/k/a wisdom.

We do not learn that shit from a thread or a book, but by day to day life...The 1st person that we have to be honest with is ourselves...when we get to that point, then we yearn for that, we desire that, we crave it and then we will only associate with like ones, who are, without a doubt on the same page.

A wise person once said, "Water seeks it's on level."

Stick with that and I promise the bullshit will cease to exist in our life.

Michael Jackson said, "The man in the mirror. That is where I am gonna start to make that change."...If I can paraphrase him.

I wish all of you peace.
I wish you love,
I wish you heaven!

Blessings.

INVICTUS3RD
 
man I should have told this chick the truth today.....:smh:
She had a white booger on the tippy tip off her nose :(
and her lips was ashy to......:hmm: lips was just dry and crack
like a sheet of winters ice. I really did not know how to tell her... she
is someone I casually interact with at work. I thought chicks
carry those lil' beauty mirrors in the purse.:(
 
thoughtone said:
You ever want to have sex with your women and she is not in the mood. You basic have to accept it and label you as over sexed. But if you are not in the mood when she wants it (yes it does happen to healthy males), then you will get the cold should for an extended period of time or she claims your cheating on her.
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Did you mean cold shoulder? :cool: I mean since you are a fan of correcting others I just wanted to be sure. thanks :)
 
ladyscorpio said:
Did you mean cold shoulder? :cool: I mean since you are a fan of correcting others I just wanted to be sure. thanks :)
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This is the difference between men and women. Women are perfect and you had better damn well believe it. I know, a girlfriend told me so. Making a typographical error is not going to lower my self esteem. If fact, you pointing it out will make me a better person. The fact that you try and indict me for bring up this question explains everything.
 
its all about a individual's tolerance for pain...bein that "the truth hurts"...and since alotta people prefer to avoid as much pain as possible in life...i'd say no...but thats just my opinion
 
I am known for being brutally honest. Alot of people can't take it. Too bad. I appreciate the same. Tell me my shoes are ugly. Tell me I put on weight. Just tell me cause I sure am going to tell you. :yes:

You can also tell me the good stuff too tho :D
 
thoughtone said:
So she can ignore it.
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Because it's a BGOL oriented question.

This board is for women to discuss what they want to discuss, not to be antagonized by men no matter how covert. If you want to attack women you have free reign on BGOL.
 
femmenoire said:
Because it's a BGOL oriented question.

This board is for women to discuss what they want to discuss, not to be antagonized by men no matter how covert. If you want to attack women you have free reign on BGOL.
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I don't think anyone is attacking anyone. Some come to this board because of the ability to have a intelligent debate about various topics. This is what makes this board special. On BGOL the atmosphere is not conducive for these type of debates.
 
HoneyDip said:
I like bein told the truth when I ask for a truthful opinion.
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And if you're a woman, you forgot to add "which is really never" after opinion.

Cleopatra_J said:
I firmly believe the truth is overrated. Everyone wants it, but can't handle it. Myself included. I used to argue with my ex all the time and wanted him to be honest with me about everything. And then be hurt by what he told me, or try to bring it up later. I felt that he owed me the truth, and it wasn't his decision to choose how I can and cannot react. But in reality.. I was beating myself up with the truth. Constantly comparing things that probably shouldn't have. And I would still come to my own speculations... Maybe because he had lied about so much in the past it was hard to accept what the truth was, i don't know. Either way...It was the same with him I think... He wanted to know what I was doing and who I was doing it with, but would still get hurt over the things he found out...

Truth is overrated...
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Were you joking here? You can't be serious saying that the truth is overrated. Thankfully, the delusions potrayed here aren't the same of the majority of women out there.
 
Poise and tactful approach may help the truth come out, maybe your approach is wrong. I like the truth because it establishes a sense trust & well being. Sometimes there is anxiety associated with truthful situations, the longer you let it go, resentment and frustration builds up...
 
bigirl said:
I am known for being brutally honest. Alot of people can't take it. Too bad. I appreciate the same. Tell me my shoes are ugly. Tell me I put on weight. Just tell me cause I sure am going to tell you. :yes:

You can also tell me the good stuff too tho :D
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that's true, because i'm the exact same way.:lol:
 
femmenoire said:
Because it's a BGOL oriented question.

This board is for women to discuss what they want to discuss, not to be antagonized by men no matter how covert. If you want to attack women you have free reign on BGOL.
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Nothing clandestine about it, this question was directed toward the ladies. My question was in response to faking orgasms. If asking questions that are on most guys minds embitters you, then, I’m sorry. If this is a female only board, then let us know.
 
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