Do Most Women Have A "backup Man"

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Whats Up Ladies , Just Had A Quick Question For Yall Right Quick ........ My Baby Moms Left Me A While Ago (2 Years ) And She Now Has A Boyfriend But She Always Calls Me To Tell Me How Much She Loves Me And Starts Acting Crazy If She Thinks Im Talkin To Somebody ( Which I Dont Have Time To Do) Now She Saying She Wants To Come Back "home" Cuz Things Aint Working Out With Her Boyfriend ..... So Im Wondering To Women Have A "back Up Plan Man " Where If Thangs Don't Go Right They Call Him ??????
 
Whats Up Ladies , Just Had A Quick Question For Yall Right Quick ........ My Baby Moms Left Me A While Ago (2 Years ) And She Now Has A Boyfriend But She Always Calls Me To Tell Me How Much She Loves Me And Starts Acting Crazy If She Thinks Im Talkin To Somebody ( Which I Dont Have Time To Do) Now She Saying She Wants To Come Back "home" Cuz Things Aint Working Out With Her Boyfriend ..... So Im Wondering To Women Have A "back Up Plan Man " Where If Thangs Don't Go Right They Call Him ??????

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LAST I CHECKED THIS BOARD WAS CALLED "SISTAS ON LINE " SO IF I HAVE QUESTIONS FOR SOME SISTA TO GIVE MORE INSIGHT THEN COMMON SENSE WILL TELL ME TO POST IT HERE..........

IF YOU DONT WANT TO SEE IT MY NIGG JUST DONT RESPOND THE EXTRA SHIT IS UNCALLED FOR .....
 
LAST I CHECKED THIS BOARD WAS CALLED "SISTAS ON LINE " SO IF I HAVE QUESTIONS FOR SOME SISTA TO GIVE MORE INSIGHT THEN COMMON SENSE WILL TELL ME TO POST IT HERE..........

IF YOU DONT WANT TO SEE IT MY NIGG JUST DONT RESPOND THE EXTRA SHIT IS UNCALLED FOR .....


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Whats Up Ladies , Just Had A Quick Question For Yall Right Quick ........ My Baby Moms Left Me A While Ago (2 Years ) And She Now Has A Boyfriend But She Always Calls Me To Tell Me How Much She Loves Me And Starts Acting Crazy If She Thinks Im Talkin To Somebody ( Which I Dont Have Time To Do) Now She Saying She Wants To Come Back "home" Cuz Things Aint Working Out With Her Boyfriend ..... So Im Wondering To Women Have A "back Up Plan Man " Where If Thangs Don't Go Right They Call Him ??????

The fact that I have a vagina means that I can not answer this question...Sorry love:smh:
 
One backup? Try three or four who are waiting in line for your ass to f*ck up :lol: This is more of a truism for the younger generation.
 
Yup

whether she calls on him for back up or not...that is up to the individual

but we all know someone


WAIT...let me not say all...SOME

this is not including the dudes that are waiting for her man to fuck up so they can push up that the women DOESN'T know about lol
 
I'll put it like this- The last 5 ex's I've had all good knocked up and married to some guy that was just they're "friend" when we were together. But most of them still call me like I"m going to bail their asses out. I just take the pussy and be on my way.
 
I never have. But it is probably wise in this day and age to have one since men generally keep 2 or 3 in their back pocket.
 
OK lets just say every women has that option. They may never admit it, they may never use it but they know if they make that call that "backup man" will be there.
 
She is monkey-bar'n. Getting a good grip on the next one before she lets go of the old one.

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Nice analogy ... I think, once the relationship gets pretty serious, this shouldn't be the case...but, in the early stages, it's wise for a woman to have more than one man around, I feel... how does the saying go...about not putting all your eggs in one basket :rolleyes:
 
Nice analogy ... I think, once the relationship gets pretty serious, this shouldn't be the case...but, in the early stages, it's wise for a woman to have more than one man around, I feel... how does the saying go...about not putting all your eggs in one basket :rolleyes:


Thats understandable in the early stages but I have seen women keep a backup deep into relationships​
 
Thats understandable in the early stages but I have seen women keep a backup deep into relationships​

So is this backup a close friend who's waiting for the chance to be the next boyfriend, or is he totally oblivious to being the backup man? Is that "other man" okay with being the man in the wings, waiting for his chance at a relationship with that lady?
 
So is this backup a close friend who's waiting for the chance to be the next boyfriend, or is he totally oblivious to being the backup man? Is that "other man" okay with being the man in the wings, waiting for his chance at a relationship with that lady?

Most of the time the back up man knows and is just waiting his turn.​
 
So is this backup a close friend who's waiting for the chance to be the next boyfriend, or is he totally oblivious to being the backup man? Is that "other man" okay with being the man in the wings, waiting for his chance at a relationship with that lady?

IN MY CASE MY BABY MAMMA KEEPS COMING BACK FORTH IN OUR LIFE (ME AND THE KIDS ) SHE NEVER HAS REASON TO LEAVE SHE KEEP GETTING IN RELATIONSHIPS AND ALWAYS CALLS ME TO SEE IF STILL LOVE HER AS IF TO SAY "WELL IM KEEP HIM JUST IN CASE THIS SHIT DON'T WORK ILLL JUST MAKE SURE HE DONT GET IN A RELATIONSHIP"
 
IN MY CASE MY BABY MAMMA KEEPS COMING BACK FORTH IN OUR LIFE (ME AND THE KIDS ) SHE NEVER HAS REASON TO LEAVE SHE KEEP GETTING IN RELATIONSHIPS AND ALWAYS CALLS ME TO SEE IF STILL LOVE HER AS IF TO SAY "WELL IM KEEP HIM JUST IN CASE THIS SHIT DON'T WORK ILLL JUST MAKE SURE HE DONT GET IN A RELATIONSHIP"


Never make someone a PRIORITY when all you are to them is an OPTION​
 
Whats Up Ladies , Just Had A Quick Question For Yall Right Quick ........ My Baby Moms Left Me A While Ago (2 Years ) And She Now Has A Boyfriend But She Always Calls Me To Tell Me How Much She Loves Me And Starts Acting Crazy If She Thinks Im Talkin To Somebody ( Which I Dont Have Time To Do) Now She Saying She Wants To Come Back "home" Cuz Things Aint Working Out With Her Boyfriend ..... So Im Wondering To Women Have A "back Up Plan Man " Where If Thangs Don't Go Right They Call Him ??????

You know the answer, and you know what you got to do. You ARE the backup, how can you allow this woman to come in and out of your life? Man the fuck up, she is playing you. She don't love you, she just can't stand to be alone. Don't let that broad come "home", keep it moving. Take care of your kids, and get you a woman who won't leave.
 
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