Do men think you are unapproachable?
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I did in a previous thread and dumb mothafuckas thought I was lying.
Hello, I'm Shad. I saw you sitting there looking mad about the status of the men in Cleveland and thought you might like a break from their bullshit. I would like to treat you to dinner and some conversation if you let me. Your terms and you pick the spot. I got you.
I did in a previous thread and dumb mothafuckas thought I was lying.
well, no, your definitely not lying......
folks sad up here....
Hello, I'm Shad. I saw you sitting there looking mad about the status of the men in Cleveland and thought you might like a break from their bullshit. I would like to treat you to dinner and some conversation if you let me. Your terms and you pick the spot. I got you.
i dont think she does "cabarets".....
jus f/k'in wit ya....
If being too shy to get up the nerve and watching all the fly girls and feeling uglier than them is a "scheme" then so be it
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You are so beautiful to LD
You are so beautiful to LD
Can't you see
Your everything I hoped for
Your everything I need
You are so beautiful to LD
Church. And not just any type of woman either. Good women too. A simple-minded ignant chick will never think to step outside the box to approach a man, but most Black women with a good head on their shoulders will step to if they see something they like.
Congratulations brother. Sounds like you found a good one.
Yes,I think I am but I dont know why
This is easy. They're intimidated by your looks.
Nuff respect for your standards. It makes me shake my head to see people throw themselves into a relationship for the sake of it and then bitch.
Like they did not know he/she was a loser.
In actually maintaining yourself- you become even more desirable
But people panic
Nuff respect for your standards. It makes me shake my head to see people throw themselves into a relationship for the sake of it and then bitch.
Like they did not know he/she was a loser.
In actually maintaining yourself- you become even more desirable
But people panic
I don't know how familiar SOL is with Tom Leykis, But he'd co-sign this, adding that men get more desireable as they age, but women, at a certain point, have maxed out and will then decline in desirability.
What makes you think that??
As a man, I wish MORE women would make the first move. It is very attractive to me when a woman asserts herself to speak to/approach me. It doesn't happen that much because I think most women have a fear of rejection. The the few times it has I really appreciated it. It showed me that she saw something she liked in me and she was willing to take a chance to meet me... It's not about game, it's about conversation. Whenever I approach a young lady, I just start a conversation with her. I try to show some of my personality, because in the end if she chooses to deal with me beyond our first meeting that's what she's gonna get. I always feel that I'm going to get/exchange numbers as well. Of course that doesn't always happen, but that's the confidence you've gotta have to even try. If I don't get the number or any interaction with her after we first meet, it's cool because I always feel that I can leave some sort of good impression with her. I try to leave her with a positive story to tell about me when she walks away (e.g. my conversation, cologne, making her laugh, the way I look, etc.). Ladies, in my opinion you all should approach men more often and with the same confidence. Come up to us and speak to us the way you would like us to when we approach you...
Wow, you hit it RIGHT on the nail, Bruh. I agree with everything you say, Bruh, EVERYTHING.
Broke ass....Men you gotta know first impressions matter like hell. Especially around a woman's girls....
Can I just say one thing....
I was in a club a few months back (okay maybe a few years) and this guy asked to buy me a drink I told him I don't drink but he could buy my girls'. He gave the bartender five bucks and asked my girl to cover the rest
That shit was wack.
All I gotta say is you can start a convo with someone without offereing to pay for something and if you do offer. Pay for it. All of it!
Congratulations! Me myself, if I want the man and I am in the mood to take a chance, I go for it myself. Life is too short. Especially with the ratio of women to men. Cause hell, we got a lot of men gay, in jail, yada, yada, yada... I have a fear of rejection, but hey, if you never approach you never know...
I'll approach anybody I don't care. Most women that think they're the shit, turn out to actually be shit.............. no woman is beter than me, at the end of the day the man decides where the realtionship will really go if the female is interested.
No Guts No Glory
No Guts No Glory
100% truth.
Also feeds into a cycle and its a reason why a lot of women aren't worth approaching.
because the avg kat already has it in their head that based off of your physical appearance you are high maintenance and out of their league.
I agree and whats funny is I'm not. I have asked men before what it is and they told me the same thing.But once they get to know me,they see I am cool as hell provided I am in a good mood
no.
it's not your fault...
that's what society burns into our heads....
there's the beautiful people....
and then there's everybody else.
the beautiful people are unapproachable unless your beautiful yourself or have mad assets to compensate for it....
You know what I hate though(slightly offtopic). Why do men who are used to getting attention from women get mad when you don't want to talk to them. I can not stand a man who feels like he can pull me just because he is attractive and alot of females want him.
insecurity for some....arrogance for others...
i use the same philosophy behind why i made it a habit not to approach women for the same reasons.....
everybody wants to believe their god's gift to the other sex but when someone ignores that it gets them going....
one thing i've always said regarding most kats..
if the prerequisite to get between a woman's legs is a college degree and a house, guess what? there'd be a lot of home owning, degree wielding black men out there......
women set the tone as to what a man should be...that's why half of these kats take what little money they have and drive around in cars they can't afford with rims they'd sell their soul's for...
if you ever asked one of them, many would tell you in a heartbeat they regret buying the stuff...
[sarcasm]
Well, for me, my looks of course do entitle me to the breast breeding stock available. I.E. the best looking women.
One take of my gorgeoustisity and your should fawn all over me. You could not imagine me accepting less.
Go ahead, take your place in a long line. It's a good place, you deserve it. Look at me, it's obvious the BEST you'll ever get. [/sarcasm]
Black women will vehemently deny this self evident truth in so many ways.
I've known this since the 7th grade. Girls fucking losers, 20 something, but they got a raggedy car with rims.
I'm like, can't you see, he can't get a woman in his own age, because he ain't HIS OWN AGE.
Oh well, so be it.
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Black women will vehemently deny this self evident truth in so many ways.
I've known this since the 7th grade. Girls fucking losers, 20 something, but they got a raggedy car with rims.
I'm like, can't you see, he can't get a woman in his own age, because he ain't HIS OWN AGE.
Oh well, so be it.
So true. . .
I believe in that wholeheartedly. I lose interest super-quick when the games pop up. I've had women and female family members try and coach me through the intricacies of such games and I always tell them, "If someone starts out playing games, they've laid that as the foundation for our dealings. And I have no interest in that."
If you carry yourself like a classy lady then you'll get approached as such. (Or only by men that will approach those types)
If you carry yourself like a groupie or sleeze, you'll get approached as such.
And some women always wondering why they get the "Aye lil mama what yo name is" approaches
Not always true. Some niggas just stand on the block and yell "Aye lil mama what yo name is" at every last halfway fuckable chick till one of them takes the bait. A lot of dudes just play numbers and odds and it has nothing to do with the presence or character of the woman in question.
This picture conveys the POV, the feeling sometimes, talking to Femme . . .
And you are the matador, señor?
Black women will vehemently deny this self evident truth in so many ways.
I've known this since the 7th grade. Girls fucking losers, 20 something, but they got a raggedy car with rims.
I'm like, can't you see, he can't get a woman in his own age, because he ain't HIS OWN AGE.
Oh well, so be it.
This is absolutely true. If only women understood the power they wield.
what kind of fully grown man is afraid to approach a woman?
he lacks self-esteem, confidence, or verbal and or cognitive skills. In slang terms that means in a word hes a pussy, a dummy, a simp. you don't want to attract those.
but if you really wanna lower the bar all you have to do is look more inferior that he does or just show off your tiddies more.
tits never fail
he lacks self-esteem, confidence, or verbal and or cognitive skills. In slang terms that means in a word hes a pussy, a dummy, a simp. you don't want to attract those.
but if you really wanna lower the bar all you have to do is look more inferior that he does or just show off your tiddies more.
tits never fail
It depends on the man, but a woman will make it but so hard if she's interested in you. There are ways you can tell if a woman is interested. Some women make it obvious, whether it's flirting, eye contact, etc. and yet some are so good at concealing it, that you would never know. What a lot of men don't realize is that a woman will have a man sized up waaaay before a man even notices she's even there. Women are good at that.
So, my take is if you (men) see a woman you are interested in go for it, you'd be surprised what u will find out with a simple "hello". I don't like the feeling of walking away from a potential situation saying "what if?", you'll never know if you don't try.
But I will only approach women who I am attracted to, I believe in quality, not quantity, I may let 50 women pass me by before I see the one i'm attracted to (just an example), and not just because they look good or because your boys are pushing u to holla at her, that's where a lot of men get it confused. I've been on the other side as well as far as letting women approaching me....sometimes it worked, sometimes it backfired. It depended on the woman. (some women are good at looking right through the bullshit)
I have dated women who told me that if I would have never approched them they would have never said anything to me even though they were interested. If a woman turns me down if I approach her, then it's nothing personal to me. Her reasoning could have been a multitude of things, but why sit there and try to figure out why or assume it's because of how u look....keep it movin'. Short term memory.
I've never had a problem with a woman taking the initiative and approaching me, but how she does it, and if i'm attracted to her is what really counts....the aggressive chicks are a turnoff. Not much different on how women veiw a man approaching her.