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Go tell your fam you love them.
Go squash all your petty beefs.
Go do some random favor for someone that least expects it.
Go spend more time with your fam and close friends, suspend the hustle for a minute.
Live for the moment because in the end that's really all we have.

My uncle died yesterday afternoon in a car accident.
His wife's mom was in the car too. She died.
He had a wife and two little kids.

I've lost two uncles in less that 2 months.
That's two sons, two brothers and two fathers.

I'm struggling right now to cling on to whatever faith I have left.
Live life.
 
I know where you're at right now Sean. Try to hang in there and be strong for the love one's remaining that are also grieving.

The best thing you can do is what you suggested and what you are doing now: vent.

You gotta get it out brotha. Don't keep that shit inside because it will eat you alive. Cry, keep up with Taekwondo (Cha gi and chee gi a muthafucka!), yell, meditate, and write. There's tons of things you can do Sean, but I know that it will be hard to cope with the feeling of loss.

Take care man, try to keep a cool head, big heart, and journey well...
 
Thanks for that Onz.
It was my moms kid brother. They were so close. She took the news hard. Very. Pops called me from the UK saying she just got in the car and drove off. Scared the shit outta me. She's back home now. Not talking to anyone ... yet.
I'm probably flying out next week.

Again. Thanks.
 
:( my sympathies go out to you Sean & your Mom ... losing family and friends is tough. Hopefully your family will get through this.
 
Damn. My Condolences to you and your family Sean. May you all find the strength to get through this trying time.
 
Sean I feel you 100%

A few years ago a guy friend of mine and I had a falling out cuz he played out my homegirl ... I saw him one day and didn't say hi or anything to him cuz we weren't cool at the time ... well a month later he passed away and I have always regretted not saying hi to him the last time I saw him:(and I still cry about it sometimes

My condolences to you
 
I can only tell you from my own personal experience. losing loved ones suck. lots of people will give you advice becouse they don't want you to feel bad, and for good reason. I lost both my parents and my best friend in a span of a year. Do for others during your time of trial. Giving and being a loving person to your family is the single most important thing you can do for yourself and your family. The loss you have suffered will a tragedy and now is the time for you to love the ones who need you.


prayers and blessing are for you today
and I am sorry for your loss.
 
My deepest condolences go out to you and your family bruh.
Be strong for your family and support each other.
We all go through these challenges to one's faith. Learn from it,grow and expand so that you can become a better you.

You have many people who consider you a friend Sean, myself included, lean on them for extra support if you need to.

 
sean69 said:
Go tell your fam you love them.
Go squash all your petty beefs.
Go do some random favor for someone that least expects it.
Go spend more time with your fam and close friends, suspend the hustle for a minute.
Live for the moment because in the end that's really all we have.

My uncle died yesterday afternoon in a car accident.
His wife's mom was in the car too. She died.
He had a wife and two little kids.

I've lost two uncles in less that 2 months.
That's two sons, two brothers and two fathers.

I'm struggling right now to cling on to whatever faith I have left.
Live life.
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Sean, I first want to send my apologies to you and your family. I hope you all are OK. I remember being in a similar spot in 2005. That year was a roller coaseter for me and the fam. I felt everything a person could possibly feel that year. There was so much going on. Life, death, marriages, losing my job and being out of work the last 4 months of the year,etc. It was really a trip, but I am glad I was able to survive it. More recently I was lucky enough to doge a couple bad situations, one of them being the improving health of my uncle (He had surgery a couple weeks ago but then had complications afterward. He's at home now and doing much better). Anyway, this isn't about me it's about you and yours. Be as strong as you can, and make sure you appreciate those you still have. Here is a little inspiration for you...



"...Keep your head to the sky..."

...I know it won't always be the easiest thing to do what that song, me, and other people are telling you to do (e.g. stay positive), but hang in there and keep your head up as much as you can...
 
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Sean,

Sorry to hear about your uncle. Most of what I've would've said, most people here have already mentioned. Be strong. Live life and also remember all those good moments you had with your family.
 
My condolences, my dude...and a hope that you celebrate their lives. i feel you may be one of the few who would understand that.
 
Ok. I'm gonna say this. Amidst all the transient comedy and bs on this forum I can truly say that there are some genuinely and uniquely classy folks on here.

From the heart, thanks guys for all the love.

I feel so much better today. I just talked to my moms this evening for the first time since the tragedy and she's handling it like the super hero mom I've known all my life. (not exaggerating, I've seen this woman pick up a fridge once as a kid when she was mad at us. Well. ok. I didn't actually see it. My snitch ass kid brother told us. But anyway...)

Moms is hanging in there. They haven't told my gandma yet though. She's 88. We have to break it to her in bits. it's not gonna be easy.

Thanks Onz, Cleo, SS (hit me later), shy, Lone, maddcat, 'tep, Unc, CT (East Coast!), MCP (UK brethren), Iron and Izz. :)

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Thanks Onyx (hows the baby? don't be moving around all the time!:() , Mel, Owl (*index and middle finger point to my eye and back to you gesture*)
 
Sean, you have my deepest condolences and sympathy. Loosing a loved one is never easy, but surrounding yourself with family, friends and other loved ones can help to ease the pain and heartache, for certain.

Be sure to hold your mom a little bit tighter next time you see her. She may appear strong as an ox, but she's gonna need the love and support of you and your dad now more than ever.
 
JofromthaNO said:
Sean, you have my deepest condolences and sympathy. Loosing a loved one is never easy, but surrounding yourself with family, friends and other loved ones can help to ease the pain and heartache, for certain.

Be sure to hold your mom a little bit tighter next time you see her. She may appear strong as an ox, but she's gonna need the love and support of you and your dad now more than ever.
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You're right. I'm a mess right now. You know me. I'm just using humor to cope.
I'm going home next weekend.
 
JofromthaNO said:
She may appear strong as an ox, but she's gonna need the love and support of you and your dad now more than ever.
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Yes...

...and Sean I agree with Owl; we cry at weddings and laugh at funerals. Keep in mind why this is so and with God I pray you and your family can make it through this passing...


:(​
 
Hi Sean-Momma's have a tendency to be strong on the outside while we are breaking up on the inside...That is our "make up".
Give your mom a strong hug and be there for her. She is lucky to have a son like you...I mean that.

Oh and I am not moving alot these days, my stomach is HUGE!!!!
 
OnyxFemme said:
Hi Sean-Momma's have a tendency to be strong on the outside while we are breaking up on the inside...That is our "make up".
Give your mom a strong hug and be there for her. She is lucky to have a son like you...I mean that.

Oh and I am not moving alot these days, my stomach is HUGE!!!!
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Thanks Onyx.
And I know. Man, I'm on my own right now. My fam is over in the UK. I'm gonna go be with them next week ... until ... whenever.
 
I'm about to call it a night, but I wanted to drop a couple things to bring a bit of humor in here. Yo Sean hope you don't mind me doing this...

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...I hope these have you over there like...

:lol::lol::lol::lol:

...There's been plenty of good advice and love given to you over the course of the day (in here). I hope all of it has helped. Peace to you and the family...
 
sean69 said:
Go tell your fam you love them.
Go squash all your petty beefs.
Go do some random favor for someone that least expects it.
Go spend more time with your fam and close friends, suspend the hustle for a minute.
Live for the moment because in the end that's really all we have.

My uncle died yesterday afternoon in a car accident.
His wife's mom was in the car too. She died.
He had a wife and two little kids.

I've lost two uncles in less that 2 months.
That's two sons, two brothers and two fathers.

I'm struggling right now to cling on to whatever faith I have left.
Live life.
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So sorry to hear this Sean! My condolences and sympathy to you and your family.

Miss Me - But Let Me Go
When I come to the end of the road
And the sun has set for me,
I want no rites in a gloom-filled room,
Why cry for a soul set free!
Miss me a little - but not for long
And not with your head bowed low.
Remember the love that we once shared,
Miss me, but let me go.
For this journey that we all must take
And each must go alone;
It's all a part of the Master's plan
A step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick at heart
Go to the friends we know,
And bury your sorrows in doing good deeds.
Miss me, but let me go.
- Edgar Albert Guest (1881-1959)​
 
MTL said:
So sorry to hear this Sean! My condolences and sympathy to you and your family.

Miss Me - But Let Me Go
When I come to the end of the road
And the sun has set for me,
I want no rites in a gloom-filled room,
Why cry for a soul set free!
Miss me a little - but not for long
And not with your head bowed low.
Remember the love that we once shared,
Miss me, but let me go.
For this journey that we all must take
And each must go alone;
It's all a part of the Master's plan
A step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick at heart
Go to the friends we know,
And bury your sorrows in doing good deeds.
Miss me, but let me go.
- Edgar Albert Guest (1881-1959)​
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That's beautiful MTL.
 
Hey, just wanted to thank you guys for the condolences and prayers. I just got back from the UK this morning. The fam' is doing good given the difficult circumstances. It was refreshing for all of us to get together from all over the world, freestyle it, and just share some quality time. :)

Life goes on.
 
sean69 said:
Hey, just wanted to thank you guys for the condolences and prayers. I just got back from the UK this morning. The fam' is doing good given the difficult circumstances. It was refreshing for all of us to get together from all over the world, freestyle it, and just share some quality time. :)

Life goes on.
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Glad to hear that man. Peace to you and the fam. It might not always be easy, but trying to keep a positive outlook when life deals you a bad hand is one of the ways to process the negative and move on from it. Hang in there brotha. You'll be just fine...




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