Sistas I need some help
Have this women on the side, we all know the deal, she dosn't want a relationship (i know because i have ask on many occasion if she want it to go any futhur she always says "no, we both have other shit to deal with in our life, so just a beat on the side is cool with her" direct quote)
anyways we really enjoy each others company, not just sex because, she has some issues with herself, bad boyfriends in the past, dosn't get along with her dad, you know the drill... and this is fine with me to, im just a nice dude that you can halla at if you need to.
we hooked up once or two times a while ago (like 2 years ago) but not since but always was good friends
heres why we havn't hooked up
so 2 weeks ago i said to her "So are we gonna do something for Valentines?" she says yes. so i plan something, i take her away to a bed and breakfast surprised her had everything she needed, something to wear to dinnner something sensable to sleep in (not a uncortable slutty thing) being real considerate.
anyways heres my beef
she calls me the day before and says she has the cold, i tell her if she want to let me cancell and we can do it another time, she says no.
i go pick her up she is not ready, (funny because i told her all she needed was to get dressed i have everything else covered)
she get in the car says that the cold/flu is making her feel really bad, still im like if you want to we can do this another time, she like no im fine.
1 hour drive later she mentios in passing OH IM ON MY RAG SO NO SEX TONIGHT
when we get to the small likeside country side, take her out to dinner, when we get back to the Bed and Breakfast...
SHE GETS DRUNK AND START A FIGHT WITH ME. I say to her this is not fair and that she is selfish. SHE START TO BEAT ME LIKE SHE IS CHRIS BROWN AND IM REANNA, I HAVE TO LOcK MYSELF IN THE BATHROOM, I CALM HER DOWN, SHE STARTS CRYING, I CALM HER DOWN MORE, SHE PASSES OUT!!!!
Wake up this morning she plays like she dosn't remember what happen, TRICKS me to come back to bed (i have to drive back to go to work, but i think imma get a lease a handjob or something) then says i don't feel to sexy so nothing for you,
SO WE WASTED A WHOLE HOUR, SO I MISS WORK, I SPENT A LOT OF MONEY
NOT TO MENTION SHE HAS DONE THIS BEFORE MORE THEN ONCE
ADDVICE
1. do i have the right to be mad at her?
2. is she just string me along because i am a nice guy?
Have this women on the side, we all know the deal, she dosn't want a relationship (i know because i have ask on many occasion if she want it to go any futhur she always says "no, we both have other shit to deal with in our life, so just a beat on the side is cool with her" direct quote)
anyways we really enjoy each others company, not just sex because, she has some issues with herself, bad boyfriends in the past, dosn't get along with her dad, you know the drill... and this is fine with me to, im just a nice dude that you can halla at if you need to.
we hooked up once or two times a while ago (like 2 years ago) but not since but always was good friends
heres why we havn't hooked up
so 2 weeks ago i said to her "So are we gonna do something for Valentines?" she says yes. so i plan something, i take her away to a bed and breakfast surprised her had everything she needed, something to wear to dinnner something sensable to sleep in (not a uncortable slutty thing) being real considerate.
anyways heres my beef
she calls me the day before and says she has the cold, i tell her if she want to let me cancell and we can do it another time, she says no.
i go pick her up she is not ready, (funny because i told her all she needed was to get dressed i have everything else covered)
she get in the car says that the cold/flu is making her feel really bad, still im like if you want to we can do this another time, she like no im fine.
1 hour drive later she mentios in passing OH IM ON MY RAG SO NO SEX TONIGHT
when we get to the small likeside country side, take her out to dinner, when we get back to the Bed and Breakfast...
SHE GETS DRUNK AND START A FIGHT WITH ME. I say to her this is not fair and that she is selfish. SHE START TO BEAT ME LIKE SHE IS CHRIS BROWN AND IM REANNA, I HAVE TO LOcK MYSELF IN THE BATHROOM, I CALM HER DOWN, SHE STARTS CRYING, I CALM HER DOWN MORE, SHE PASSES OUT!!!!
Wake up this morning she plays like she dosn't remember what happen, TRICKS me to come back to bed (i have to drive back to go to work, but i think imma get a lease a handjob or something) then says i don't feel to sexy so nothing for you,
SO WE WASTED A WHOLE HOUR, SO I MISS WORK, I SPENT A LOT OF MONEY
NOT TO MENTION SHE HAS DONE THIS BEFORE MORE THEN ONCE
ADDVICE
1. do i have the right to be mad at her?
2. is she just string me along because i am a nice guy?
