Do I have the right to be mad? (my bloody valentine)

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Sistas I need some help

Have this women on the side, we all know the deal, she dosn't want a relationship (i know because i have ask on many occasion if she want it to go any futhur she always says "no, we both have other shit to deal with in our life, so just a beat on the side is cool with her" direct quote)

anyways we really enjoy each others company, not just sex because, she has some issues with herself, bad boyfriends in the past, dosn't get along with her dad, you know the drill... and this is fine with me to, im just a nice dude that you can halla at if you need to.

we hooked up once or two times a while ago (like 2 years ago) but not since but always was good friends

heres why we havn't hooked up
so 2 weeks ago i said to her "So are we gonna do something for Valentines?" she says yes. so i plan something, i take her away to a bed and breakfast surprised her had everything she needed, something to wear to dinnner something sensable to sleep in (not a uncortable slutty thing) being real considerate.

anyways heres my beef
she calls me the day before and says she has the cold, i tell her if she want to let me cancell and we can do it another time, she says no.

i go pick her up she is not ready, (funny because i told her all she needed was to get dressed i have everything else covered)

she get in the car says that the cold/flu is making her feel really bad, still im like if you want to we can do this another time, she like no im fine.

1 hour drive later she mentios in passing OH IM ON MY RAG SO NO SEX TONIGHT

when we get to the small likeside country side, take her out to dinner, when we get back to the Bed and Breakfast...
SHE GETS DRUNK AND START A FIGHT WITH ME. I say to her this is not fair and that she is selfish. SHE START TO BEAT ME LIKE SHE IS CHRIS BROWN AND IM REANNA, I HAVE TO LOcK MYSELF IN THE BATHROOM, I CALM HER DOWN, SHE STARTS CRYING, I CALM HER DOWN MORE, SHE PASSES OUT!!!!

Wake up this morning she plays like she dosn't remember what happen, TRICKS me to come back to bed (i have to drive back to go to work, but i think imma get a lease a handjob or something) then says i don't feel to sexy so nothing for you,

SO WE WASTED A WHOLE HOUR, SO I MISS WORK, I SPENT A LOT OF MONEY
NOT TO MENTION SHE HAS DONE THIS BEFORE MORE THEN ONCE

ADDVICE
1. do i have the right to be mad at her?
2. is she just string me along because i am a nice guy?
 
You should thank her for letting you know type of a person she is.

No point in being mad because you can't get the time back, just move on.
 
well yeah you have the right to be mad but you really shouldnt... first of all you done planned this romantic weekend for a chick you consider "something on the side". That is more than some dudes do for that girlfriends/wives. Looking at that makes me think that there are feelings coming from your side of things. You say you have been messing with this chick for a long time you know her cycle better than she does so dont give us this bull about she told you about the rag on the drive up there. You must want something out of the chick. Before you get mad you have to honestly define the relationship. On another note drunk or not all that fighting shit ain't cool i give you props for restraining yourself.
 
You don't have the right to be mad but disappointed yes. Planning that kind of a trip with a just a friend is risky. Seems like you may have some feelings for her.
 
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"Don't know about you, but I do!"
 
Really
No one is on her side?


ok...

statements like that make me think you want more from this chick than a jumpoff... idk it just seems that if everything would have went your way you would have been making thread about what you did you turn your jumpoff into your main girl.
 
Ok so I just put 2 and 2 together about the thread title and:puke:

Anywhooooooooooooooooo

There is nothing wrong with caring for someone and wanting more from them but she aint worth it dawg ... so keep it movin:)
 
OMG!! I just got it too!!!!
Eeeeew...That was almost me though...Well it was:smh:
Ok so I just put 2 and 2 together about the thread title and:puke:

Anywhooooooooooooooooo

There is nothing wrong with caring for someone and wanting more from them but she aint worth it dawg ... so keep it movin:)
 
Just to update yall

she call me the other day said that she really loved me


and then i told her it was over, for good...

she says that she didn't understand why (bullshit) and that she is not a whore... then FUCK YOU NOFRILL I HATE YOUR FUCKING GUTS

cryed somemore, blah blah blah

i told her it was late and i have to work tomorrow so im going to sleep
GOODBYE
 
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