Divorced With 4 Kids: New Man Should Financially Pay For Them
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Because at the end of the day women will be the ones left with the care of the kid while you defend dead beat dads who make up excuses for why they are not in their children's lives.
Not
Lesson for today: Don't be a step daddy ass nigga to wack birds.
First I am not young.
Second I have been taking care of kids my entire adult life I learned that from my father who always took care or and included my friends who had no fathers to introduce them to sports r teach them how to fish, how to act, how to fix shit and how to be men.
I never had issues because taking care of kids doesn't really have anything to do with their mothers or their choices...It's giving kids opportunities that they might not have otherwise
It's taking care of my community.
And being a coach in Chicago, many of my kids lived in fucked up situations that weren't their faults...One of my dudes might not have anything t eat when he got home from practice cause nobody was saving anything for him so I fed him most nights..
I will never penalize a child because of their home situation.
And if your kids are playing with my kids and I buy something for my kids I am also buying for yours. I'm not going to have them watching my kids eat or drink cause I ain't doing shit for some other ninjas kids ... hrmph hrmph fuck that stupid shit..
And I'd be a hypocrite trying to judge some woman because she has kids when I also have kids....
There are many reasons why she would have kids that don't include poor choices or ho behavior.
Truuuuue!
Well said
She's a prolific breeder. Didn't say, unless I missed it, anything about any of her baby daddies being deadbeats. Did I miss something?
First props to you.
But she was on a totally different angle. She was not saying what she she could do for a potential mate, it was all about I need, I need, I need.
Best of luck to her.
I have a few wonders...
- I wonder if she prefers a childless man or one with kids?
- I wonder if she feel the responsibilities are the same for her if she was to marry a single father?
- I wonder if she would allow the man to claim all the kids on the taxes, since you know he's married to her now and he would taking care of said kids?
Say want you want, but most of that shit is whore behavior. Just as the man in the video that was critiquing her stupid ass response, he too said he would help out on occasion. Nothing wrong with that, but you expect a niggah to take care of her whole tribe and all i'm getting out of the contract is some pussy? You got me fucked up. Shit nothing wrong with mentoring youth. We all have at some point, but feeding them and clothing them with they got a whole motherfucking daddy. Nawh cuz, that shit ain't happening. You can do that shit cause you built for it. I ain't built for that shit. Before I got married, I stopped fucking with chicks with kids. I didn't want to give them impression I was trying to become the step daddy. So, let's get back to the original. Most, and we are talking most women are doing dumb shit, then when they fuck up they want someone, further, they expect someone to save them. Nawh cuz, not doing that shit. Starting off with a woman with no kids is hard as hell too, but to add the extra stress. Shittttt. One of my boys told me about this shit before I got in it. He told me that marriage was the hardest thing he has ever done. He had finished his PHD before I had started law school. I was like what? Now, he married a fine chick without kids. So, a niggah supposed to find a woman with kids and then marry her? Bro., you got life bent.
My answers were general life. I explained I wasn't referring to hr since I didn't listen.
But reading some of the comments pertaining to her, I wouldn't even smash her cause he frame of mind would be obvious long before it got to talking abut her and her kids
Dude, I ain't reading all that because you keep talking about her specifically and I already said I ain't listen to that bullshit video...
But I did catch you saying they have a whole mofokn daddy.
Obviously, they don't or she wouldn't be looking fr one
There's a difference between a father and a daddy..
<hint> One is biological.
Bullshit. Read that then.
The issue in the video is she “Expects” and is damn near demanding a man to take care of her kids financially if they get with her.
That’s what apparently has you tight!
And you’re right, her demanding is an issue. But as a man, if a man decides to get woman with children. Those children are his responsibility too. Not all his, but it’s a package deal.
If a man has a problem with that, then he shouldn’t enter into a relationship with a women with kids.
LOL. I am saying don't do it. These other dudes say why not. Fuck that.The issue in the video is she “Expects” and is damn near demanding a man to take care of her kids financially if they get with her.
That’s what apparently has you tight!
And you’re right, her demanding is an issue. But as a man, if a man decides to get woman with children. Those children are his responsibility too. Not all his, but it’s a package deal.
If a man has a problem with that, then he shouldn’t enter into a relationship with a women with kids.
If the situation is right for them then go ahead.
But with that woman and that mindset? HELL NO!
I hear you bruh, but I ain't Capt'n saving none of this hoes. If you got a kid and you aren't married to the father, then that's a mistake. We suppose to buy the car before we look under the hood. If it ain't your car don't put no gas in it.
Women get married and divorced, and they end up divorced with kids. Just as well as single women have kids and don’t get married. The end result is still the same.
But trust me I hear you loud and clear! Each situation is different and every man know what’ll work for them.
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Oh I believe that's called babble-speak and yes I listened for 1:13 minutes, that's all I could take. The fact of the matter is with 4 kids she should feel blessed any man is giving her the time of day.Did you hear what she was saying though? Simply put, I agree with what YOU said, but did you hear what SHE said?
She acts like men have no choices available to them. She's not recognizing she's only a consolation prize, she's not the grand prize the winners take home. Ready made families are not high on any man's shopping list. She's looking for one of those new fools.
I can't speak for the single brothers but I'd be pissed if I were dating today. What this crazy ass chick is the norm today. Fuck losers. Have multiple babies and want to be treated like there's still some tread left on the pussy. GTFO.
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