Dilemma: Attention Whore

[playahaitian]

You first saw her on a friend's phone...

You were introduced soon after by mutual friends who insisted you need to move on after a bad break-up.

She works in a hospital, college educated, funny, sexy and smart.

And after a few weeks of just talking very casual dinners a few movies, you both haven't gone ONE DAY without speaking.

You've only had sex once, when you both stayed in her apartment for 2 days straight just devouring each other and it was mind blowing.

She wants to take it slow now...and so do you.

You heard through your friends that she has been writing all this "in love" and "life is good", "she has a new man in her life", etc. on Facebook and twitter.

You are not really into social media like that (your friends and family clown you all time because of it) but your very happy to hear all this.

Labor Day is coming up and you decide to bring her to your Mom's house and introduce her to the family...

Its EARLY but you feeling like THIS is the one!!!

You go to your friend's place (who is also her friend) to pick up something and you notice his Facebook page is open...

He tells you to check out your girl's page cause she talking about you AGAIN and you see MANY MANY pictures of her...

but you don't trip...she beautiful, but then you click around and see her twitter and instagram...

She posts ALL THE TIME...

and many of the pics are suggestive.

Your friend is like "You aint KNOW???"



She isn't a model or anything...so your a little taken a back

"She been doing that stuff, she damn near addicted!" and laughs.

Later you do an image search and find boards with THREADS about her...



You are really not sure about how you feel. But you chill and decide to mention it to her in passing tonight over dinner.

Dinner is going great and you mention the pics...she blushes.

"She says do you mind"?

You don't give a CLEAR answer still gauging where her head is at..'

but she makes it quite clear that she enjoys it and would continue no matter how you felt about it.

THAT concerns you even more then the pics...

You explain that all these dudes are lusting over her image and she says she doesnt know them she doesn't care and its flattering in a way.


You back to her place and talk on the coach...she can sense the tension still...she reaches out and holds you hand

"This isn't gonna be an issue is IT"?​

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WHAT DO YOU DO?!?!?!?​

* based on a true story

 

[2 ONE 3]

I would ask why she feels the need to expose so much of her body to strangers on the Internet.

If she gives some "It's all in fun" type response


Smash a few more times then bounce

Can't wife an attention whore who's always seeking validation through social media outlets.


Shits happened to me twice. Once with a chick my age

And most recently with this 33 yr old chick from Philly who just moved out here.

There are still plenty of sexy women out there who don't show the goods online. If the bitch got threads on porn sites

 

[Mixd]

 

[playahaitian]

I would ask why she feels the need to expose so much of her body to strangers on the Internet.

If she gives some "It's all in fun" type response


Smash a few more times then bounce

Can't wife an attention whore whose always seeking validation through social media outlets.


Shits happened to me twice. Once with a chick my age

And most recently with this 33 yr old chick from Philly who just moved out here.

There are still plenty of sexy women out there who don't show the goods online. If the bitch got threads on porn sites

she didnt create the threads though...

she didnt ask for that

she posted her pics for her friend and family to enjoy and someone found them probably posted them somewhere else ...

it they went viral.

someone found her pics and decided to create the thread...

man I dont even know anybody who would waste their time doing that.

 

[Dark19]

Look Her Right in the Face....Tell Her Not a Problem at All....Proceed to Place Her Into the Jump Off Category....And Then Enjoy That Pussy for as Long as Its My Turn to

 

[doggish_098]

damn nigga how the fuck you make such a complicated "what if" thread????? my head is spinning from just reading that shit

 

[playahaitian]

Look Her Right in the Face....Tell Her Not a Problem at All....Proceed to Place Her Into the Jump Off Category....And Then Enjoy That Pussy for as Long as Its My Turn to

Dark you falling in LOVE with this girl...

 

[2 ONE 3]

Look Her Right in the Face....Tell Her Not a Problem at All....Proceed to Place Her Into the Jump Off Category....And Then Enjoy That Pussy for as Long as Its My Turn to

 

[playahaitian]

damn...

so you are NOT going to even TRY to change her mind...

 

[2 ONE 3]

she didnt create the threads though...

she didnt ask for that

she posted her pics for her friend and family to enjoy and someone found them probably posted them somewhere else ...

it they went viral.

someone found her pics and decided to create the thread...

man I dont even know anybody who would waste their time doing that.

True...But


How you gonna be all in love on FB

But post pics holding your tits, posing in skimpy ass outfits on IG


lol

Real shit tho. Ol girl is bad

I would see where her head was at after the talk & if she continued to post revealing pics.

Then it would be a problem

 

[Naha-Nago]

This...

I'm not going to be this bitch's guinea pig at a life less (attention) hoish; she has to already been there for a while.

Professional shots are one thing- barely- but multiple selfies in next to nothing ,and post then on her own Instagram and twitter no less, is a huge red flag stating that she wants/needs the attention of MEN beyond the natural yearnings to want to be wanted.

Community property is to be used by the community, never bought, and half naked selfies scream 'PUBLIC'!





Not the kid.



*two cents*

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

she didnt create the threads though...

she didnt ask for that

she posted her pics for her friend and family to enjoy and someone found them probably posted them somewhere else ...

it they went viral.

someone found her pics and decided to create the thread...

man I dont even know anybody who would waste their time doing that.

Who posts pics like THAT for friends and fam? When I post pics it's because i'm a show off.

I'm tryin to get women who like my pics to holla. There's lots of chicks who do it like that

But then there's some who just feel the need to do it. they don't mean no harm by it.

And you're right it's not her fault sicko's will make threads about her on boards and then say some sick flagrant shit, but.... is what it is

Tell her as soon as he questions you about it, prepare to put him on the get what u can out of him and get another dude on deck list. Because he's insecure. A dude who's insecure is dangerous to ya health

 

[djkidrich]

Just enjoy the ride man, and bounce when it gets too much for you to handle...

 

[Mixd]

damn...

so you are NOT going to even TRY to change her mind...

Son, you try and think you can give attention to a chick that has 7-10k followers online who flatter her and send her gifts or what not? She lives and breathes for her so called "followers".

You can't change an attention whore, she has to want to change for her own self. But can tell you, from what I've seen, you just can't compete 10k hounds after your girl. She looking for something to fill her void that will never be fulfilled.

Trust, she gonna believe she my main chick, BUT I will definitely sleep with one eye open or one foot out the door at all times...

::two cents::

 

[playahaitian]

Son, you try and think you can give attention to a chick that has 7-10k followers online who flatter her and send her gifts or what not? She lives and breathes for her so called "followers".

You can't change an attention whore, she has to want to change for her own self. But can tell you, from what I've seen, you just can't compete 10k hounds after your girl. She looking for something to fill her void that will never be fulfilled.

Trust, she gonna believe she my main chick, BUT I will definitely sleep with one eye open or one foot out the door at all times...

::two cents::

So are STILL gonna take her to see your Mom's???

You ALREADY told her you bringing her???

 

[TooTrilla]

Fuck yo story. I just wanna see the ass. Not reading that bullshit.

 

[yaBoi]

I would ask why she feels the need to expose so much of her body to strangers on the Internet.

If she gives some "It's all in fun" type response


Smash a few more times then bounce

Can't wife an attention whore who's always seeking validation through social media outlets.


Shits happened to me twice. Once with a chick my age

And most recently with this 33 yr old chick from Philly who just moved out here.

There are still plenty of sexy women out there who don't show the goods online. If the bitch got threads on porn sites

this

 

[Mixd]

So are STILL gonna take her to see your Mom's???

You ALREADY told her you bringing her???

My mom's seen many of my hoes, many...

 

[nawlinsn931]

fuck as long as its your turn patna

 

[playahaitian]

I'm a scorpio there's no way in hell my possessive nature would allow my chick to be out there like that.

I'm smashing till I get mad.

but they are NO-NUDE...

would you say the same if she was a model?

 

[Lexx Diamond]

Look Her Right in the Face....Tell Her Not a Problem at All....Proceed to Place Her Into the Jump Off Category....And Then Enjoy That Pussy for as Long as Its My Turn to

100% cosigned!

 

[Dark19]

Dark you falling in LOVE with this girl...

And I Would Fall Right Back Out When She Says That Not Stoppin Bullshit Too

but they are NO-NUDE...

would you say the same if she was a model?

That's a Different Variable Entirely....Cause if She Being PAID Professionally For Those Pics Then She is Now Bringing Something Tangible to the Table and That Also Shows a Whole Different Mindset on Her Part Because She's About Business Not Attention Whoring

 

[Helico-pterFunk]

Damn, Playa. Nice thread √

 

[playahaitian]

Damn, Playa. Nice thread √

#bgolbrotherhood...

fingers crossed the book/short stories coming soon

And I Would Fall Right Back Out When She Says That Not Stoppin Bullshit Too




That's a Different Variable Entirely....Cause if She Being PAID Professionally For Those Pics Then She is Now Bringing Something Tangible to the Table and That Also Shows a Whole Different Mindset on Her Part Because She's About Business Not Attention Whoring

this thread got serious quick...



I was gonna post the spin-off tomorrow may have to let out really...

Dark...couldn't you say ALL models (male and female) are inherently insecure and attention whore-ish?

 

[ljinsane]

Look Her Right in the Face....Tell Her Not a Problem at All....Proceed to Place Her Into the Jump Off Category....And Then Enjoy That Pussy for as Long as Its My Turn to

 

[playahaitian]

fuck as long as its your turn patna

dude you had two days of unbridled passion...never left the house no phone no nothing, neighbors wondering why the walls are trembling...the smell of sex is in the damn drapes...

You love her she loves you...

you actually agree to hold off on the sex cause you KNOW you gonna ring this one...

told your mama about her...her friends all KNOW...

she tells you she just likes to take the pics...

she does like the attention but it isnt an obsession

and she belongs to you...but she dont like you ORDERING her to not do something that in her eyes is harmless

 

[nawlinsn931]

dude you had two days of unbridled passion...neighbors wondering why the walls are trembling...the smell of sex is in the damn drapes...

You love her she loves you...

you actually agree to hold off on the sex cause you KNOW you gonna ring this one...

told your mama about her...

her friends all KNOW...

she tells you she just likes to take the pics...

she does like the attention but it isnt an obsession

and your all her's

it is an obsession cause if she likes the attention what is she going to do to keep it and get more if she feels as though youre not giving her enough the being in love stuff is cool and i respect it but lets be real what is the real reason she wants or feels that she has to be the center of attention

 

[playahaitian]

it is an obsession cause if she likes the attention what is she going to do to keep it and get more if she feels as though youre not giving her enough the being in love stuff is cool and i respect it but lets be real what is the real reason she wants or feels that she has to be the center of attention

OK gonna have to put some business out there...

What if she said...

she posts them for friends...

her friends do it too.

IF other people wanna look at her picture so what?

I'm not nude or doing freaky stuff, I aint twerking, its the same thing they would see if I was walking down the street...

She like... Nawlins...you look at porn, right? You got that porn board you check out all the time?

I dont think less of you for it.

And if I asked you to STOP...would you?

 

[nawlinsn931]

I'd stop if she stopped and any woman so influenced with what her friends do need not b with me it's about creating a comfort level

 

[nawlinsn931]

I'd stop if she stopped and any woman so influenced with what her friends do need not b with me it's about creating a comfort level

 

[Dark19]

#bgolbrotherhood...

fingers crossed the book/short stories coming soon



this thread got serious quick...



I was gonna post the spin-off tomorrow may have to let out really...

Dark...couldn't you say ALL models (male and female) are inherently insecure and attention whore-ish?

Not Particularly....Some People Who Model or Play Professional Sports or Make Movies Absolutely HATE It...But They Get Paid 6-7 Figures to Do It So They Do It...I'm No Attention Whore and Wouldn't Pursue a Modeling Career But If Someone Offered the Opportunity and the Money That Comes With It.....I Could Stand Hit the Runway and Blue Steel For a LiL While

 

[playahaitian]

Not Particularly....Some People Who Model or Play Professional Sports or Make Movies Absolutely HATE It...But They Get Paid 6-7 Figures to Do It So They Do It...I'm No Attention Whore and Wouldn't Pursue a Modeling Career But If Someone Offered the Opportunity and the Money That Comes With It.....I Could Stand Hit the Runway and Blue Steel For a LiL While

OK flip it..

you a very handsome man and you post your pics...

you aint no Denzel but you got more then a few followers.

no harm no foul.

even your fam know.

but your new girl dont like it...at all.

you love her trying to build with her ...

you'd stop?

 

[playahaitian]

I'd stop if she stopped and any woman so influenced with what her friends do need not b with me it's about creating a comfort level

namlins my brother..

you aint stopping.

you know what?

DILEMMA THREAD coming soon!!!!

 

[nawlinsn931]

namlins my brother..

you aint stopping.

you know what?

DILEMMA THREAD coming soon!!!!

It's about comfort level though i'm not posting pix of myself everywhere

 

[playahaitian]

It's about comfort level though i'm not posting pix of myself everywhere

I'm saying if she told YOU to quit BGOL forever...

brother you aint gonna let ANYONE dictate to you...

that I KNOW.