Just had an argument with my lady about this shit. Apparently any sort of personal responsibility doesnt matter to females. Allot of the science behind being in the wrong place at the wrong time is really just making/not making the proper decision given the circumstances. If she went to go buy some catfood and got raped on her way to the car, Id feel something for her. But she went to an older dudes spot, even had to be dishonest to get there in the first place, cupcake music was playing, alcohol was involved, making out starts, leads to more, AFTER ALL THAT SHIT WENT DOWN THEN YOU WANT TO SLOW OLE BOY UP???!!!...
The proper decision was not to go, and get up with dude in a public place, earlier in the day. But she wanted to be fast and got what she put out. This young shit Im not buying either. At 18 you can do damn near anything but buy alcohol, and go pro to the NFL/NBA... You know what youre doing at that age, you just dont care what the risks are.
Serious shit can go wrong in life. Making an improper decision can leave a lion with no lower jaw for picking the wrong prey, can leave a man getting killed, for not knowing when to diffuse a situation, and can end up with a chick getting raped.
Another thing I notice is females dont have a healthy respect for men as the bigger, stronger, faster sex. As a man, if a dude has that much weight, speed, size, and power over me. I might wanna be easy on how I talk/treat this dude... When a woman is in close quarters with a dude, she might wanna use her mind a little more to avoid any situations where he can effectively use his superiority to his advantage. They dont for whatever reason, and when shit goes sideways they dont exercise any kind of self accountability. Its the whole "its my right, I shouldnt have to worry about..." As if EVERYBODY and EVERYTHING is going to respect your right!!!