Debate: Tyler Perry Thinks Successful Black Women Should Be Open-Minded About Splitting Bills With Their Partners

He's a faggot. But he's right.


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Successful women should pay anything above a normal standard of life. If a man can afford Ruth Chris, you should be happy. If want above that, you pay the difference or pay for it all. I’ll take you to the mall, but if you only wear Prada, you pay for the shit.
 
I was talking to some people about this two nights ago on another platform…. He has a point, but to take it a step further he is not trying to tell women, especially black women to settle. I took a step further to say that this also applies to black men as well. To the black men not every woman is going to look like a Instagram model, if they are decent looking and know how to take care of things then you should give them a chance. Not everybody is going to be super pretty,,,not everybody’s going to be super rich.
 
Me and wife been doing this since day one and we just hit 31 years married in July, she has lost friends over the years because they felt that I was in the military so she shouldn't have to work and pay half. Those friends are old, never married, broke, multiple baby daddies and still getting ran through thinking they are still young. Some of them are mad we are still together and doing very well. Hoe mentality at its finest.
 
Me and wife been doing this since day one and we just hit 31 years married in July, she has lost friends over the years because they felt that I was in the military so she shouldn't have to work and pay half. Those friends are old, never married, broke, multiple baby daddies and still getting ran through thinking they are still young. Some of them are mad we are still together and doing very well. Hoe mentality at its finest.
The muthafuckas who lives are a fuckin disaster always wanna tell someone else what they should be doin'.


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Me and wife been doing this since day one and we just hit 31 years married in July, she has lost friends over the years because they felt that I was in the military so she shouldn't have to work and pay half. Those friends are old, never married, broke, multiple baby daddies and still getting ran through thinking they are still young. Some of them are mad we are still together and doing very well. Hoe mentality at its finest.
Same here These youngstas done fucked shit up
 
Me and wife been doing this since day one and we just hit 31 years married in July, she has lost friends over the years because they felt that I was in the military so she shouldn't have to work and pay half. Those friends are old, never married, broke, multiple baby daddies and still getting ran through thinking they are still young. Some of them are mad we are still together and doing very well. Hoe mentality at its finest.
Congrats brudda!
 
That has never worked regardless of race. All this does is give this narrative that most black men are dusty.

The light bill?

Y’all still taking advice from a cross dressing nigga?
 
That has never worked regardless of race. All this does is give this narrative that most black men are dusty.

The light bill?

Y’all still taking advice from a cross dressing nigga?
60 yrs ago most women didn’t even have jobs let alone good ones being that amerikkka looked as females as second class citizens.. it wasn’t until recently probably within the last 3 decades that females had decent jobs. So something that has only been in effect for a few decades is literally a new concept if you consider how long humans been in America. So “it” never worked as you put it cause the shit didn’t even exist until recently. So now that this situation presents itself now it can been done. 60 yrs a go broads were panhandling drinks cause they had no jobs and couldn’t afford to pay for one , now in modern times them broads are capable of buying a whole overpriced bottle in the club. What a time to be alive
 
I was talking to some people about this two nights ago on another platform…. He has a point, but to take it a step further he is not trying to tell women, especially black women to settle. I took a step further to say that this also applies to black men as well. To the black men not every woman is going to look like a Instagram model, if they are decent looking and know how to take care of things then you should give them a chance. Not everybody is going to be super pretty,,,not everybody’s going to be super rich.

^^^^

Yup yup
 
60 yrs ago most women didn’t even have jobs let alone good ones being that amerikkka looked as females as second class citizens.. it wasn’t until recently probably within the last 3 decades that females had decent jobs. So something that has only been in effect for a few decades is literally a new concept if you consider how long humans been in America. So “it” never worked as you put it cause the shit didn’t even exist until recently. So now that this situation presents itself now it can been done. 60 yrs a go broads were panhandling drinks cause they had no jobs and couldn’t afford to pay for one , now in modern times them broads are capable of buying a whole overpriced bottle in the club. What a time to be alive

^^^^^

Truth
 
ya'll really care what a dude that dresses up in drag thinks?
hey, as you get older you will find out that people lifestyles you don’t agree with doesn’t mean they are necessarily dumb. In the 90s and early 2000s I would have said the same thing you said…. As I got older, I’m more focusing on what people say than what they do. Now you have hypocrites out there mainly on the Republican side who claimed to be pro children, but behind closed doors, be touching on them. In closing, the main point of this reply is to have you focus on what people say, if you listen closely you will get a wealth of information (Good and bad)
 
I wouldn't be with a woman who made significantly less than me and thought she didn't have to contribute. As Denzel Washington said, I'm walking out of here with something.

As a man making six figures, I'll be damned if I fuck with a chick who's making $30,000 and thinking she's not going to contribute. And if she's making 60,000, she's going to be contributing plus the body and the sex is going to be tight

if I get with a chick who's making double what I make, I will be a contributor as much as I'm expecting her to be if she was on the other foot
 
We make similar money but I pay for most things and she contributes for the "upgrades" she wants. No problem as she is in shape/educated/well traveled etc. I would spend more chasing similar. She wanted a specific school or the kids and a more expansive car than I budgeted for so she covers the "excess" on both of those. We both go 50/50 on the vacation/travel/fun things. Both of us would be very comfortable independently so it makes things very easy together.
 
I’m not paying her student loans, credit cards or any debt she had before I married her. That’s her debt and her responsibility. My mortgage is due monthly and that’s my responsibility. If she moved into my place I’ll continue paying THAT mortgage and utilities. She can kick in on groceries, gas up her car, pay her hair and nails and clothing, Netflix or any other bullshit. If she had a good job she can put me on her health insurance. If we have kids she’s paying for day care since I pay everything else. Her car insurance comes out of her pocket. Now, if we sell the original home because she wants a better house or school district, all that shit is now getting split. If she wants a vacation home or new car that shit goes into the pot. If she drove the same car for ages and I feel it’s time to upgrade her I’ll buy her a newer whip and pay the payment because it was my idea to bring the debt into our budget.

Now, the bitches who only wanna pay 20% of the bills, she needs to cook, clean, throw pussy, stay in shape and dress well and represent me well. Since all her money is hers, hire a personal trainer or join a better gym and take your ass often. But they don’t wanna hear what they’re expected to do once we make life easier for them. It’s all fluff.
 
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