D.L. Hughley (welll, unnhunnnnn)
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i'm not a father....but a lot of men..in my family...who are close with me are...
most of their relationships with their kids...and the mother of their children...at least on the surface...appear to be fine...
but every once in a while there's that one...case in point...
one of my family members...spent like a decade...fightin' for the right to see his kid...
and this dude is about as stand-up...as they come...real good dude...good job...makes good money...takes care of his responsibilities...etc...
but things didn't work out with him and the mother of his daughter...they broke up...she got a new boyfriend..that she wound up marryin'...
and then she started actively trying to sabotage his relationship with his daughter....
she still wanted them checks every month though...but she was takin' him to court left and right..makin' up false accusations that he was abusin' his daughter...and on the strength of that..the court limited his access to see his daughter...
over the course of 10 years....he saw his daughter like 5 times...
chick is a real piece of work....
most of their relationships with their kids...and the mother of their children...at least on the surface...appear to be fine...
but every once in a while there's that one...case in point...
one of my family members...spent like a decade...fightin' for the right to see his kid...
and this dude is about as stand-up...as they come...real good dude...good job...makes good money...takes care of his responsibilities...etc...
but things didn't work out with him and the mother of his daughter...they broke up...she got a new boyfriend..that she wound up marryin'...
and then she started actively trying to sabotage his relationship with his daughter....
she still wanted them checks every month though...but she was takin' him to court left and right..makin' up false accusations that he was abusin' his daughter...and on the strength of that..the court limited his access to see his daughter...
over the course of 10 years....he saw his daughter like 5 times...
chick is a real piece of work....
and to be fair....i have female family members...that are single mothers...and the dad ain't nowhere to be found....
i also have female family members...where i'm on a first name basis...with the father of their children....
some dudes want to be fathers...some don't...
i also have female family members...where i'm on a first name basis...with the father of their children....
some dudes want to be fathers...some don't...
Thats sad man...Really sad. as soon as i found out my baby mom was going to put CS out on me, i went down to the court and filed for a temporary parenting agreement...i know we dont want to put our kids in the system, but the way some of these females out here play the game(even of stories i actually read off of here), i'm like nah..im not playing this game
some of these posts are stupid as shit.
if you fukkn raw then it ain't her it's you..
stop looking for somebody to plan for your decision.
decisions have consequences.
if you fukkn raw then it ain't her it's you..
stop looking for somebody to plan for your decision.
decisions have consequences.
Meh...
Forcing a man to be financially responsible isn’t the same as forcing him to be a father.
But no one is forcing women to be mothers either. They can give them up for adoption they don’t have to keep them.
Forcing a man to be financially responsible isn’t the same as forcing him to be a father.
But no one is forcing women to be mothers either. They can give them up for adoption they don’t have to keep them.
Agree.
One of the great quotes I’ve ever heard was post right here on BGOL years ago:
“If you’re going to fuck up, fuck UP.”
Makes perfect sense.
Don't you mean babies they HELPED to make? They didn't do that shit by themselves. Until they make the decisions equal for both parties yall shouldn't get a choice either. You get pregnant, you take the responsibility. That shit is like the taxation without representation (can't tax my money then don't allow me to be counted in the political arena).
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so heres the thing, dudes already abandon kids that's not new, and let's not act like giving a woman a $200 check every month is being a dad but giving a mofo a wipe the slate clean card everytime he skeets? A woman can only make 1 kid a year, how many women can 1 dude impregnate in a year and just say fuq it I dont wanna be a dad?
Women can file complaints if the man lies about wearing a condom but she can lie about the pill/IUD/I can't get pregnant.
Man+woman both want the kid, baby born=success
Man wants the baby, woman doesn’t and aborts = she’s “empowered”
Man doesn’t want the baby and she has it anyway = “well he should have kept his joint in his pants” and she can vilify him for the rest of his life......
Man wants the baby, woman doesn’t and aborts = she’s “empowered”
Man doesn’t want the baby and she has it anyway = “well he should have kept his joint in his pants” and she can vilify him for the rest of his life......
