It's ironic, but some of the Social skills you learned in elementary school are still utilized in your adulthood.
For example: You might have been interested in a young girl in your class, but you were afraid to approach her so you might ask a friend to speak to her on your behalf to see if she likes you, but this technique has never been solely exclusive to males because young girls and women do this also.
Of course as you get more mature you might see the same play being used, but slightly tweaked.
Last month you went a "Duane Reade" in your neighborhood to purchase a few items and because you couldn't readily find some of the products you had to ask one of the employees for assistance.
Now, of course you are aware that the store has cameras and all customers are constantly being monitored (Lost Prevention).
There didn't appear to be too many people in the store that morning so you though it was strange when you were approached by one of the employees that had just assisted you and she asked could she speak to you in private.
You thought this was highly unusual, but you were curious as to what she wanted and then she went on to explain that:
Her cousin, Zahara works in the store and monitors the cameras in the back and told her to tell you that she finds you very attractive (you thanked her), and ideally would like to meet you.
However (whenever you hear this word you know that things are about to get weird)
She is engaged to be married (it's an arranged marriage) and she doesn't really like the guy. Furthermore, according to tradition she is suppose to wait for the wedding before she engages in any sexual activity and she has sleep with her future husband a few times, and she said that the sex was horrible.
Although Zahara would like to go out with you, she can't for fear that his family might find out, she would like to meet up with you in private to see how sex might be with another man (her cousin asked for your cell phone number).
Of course you're thinking that this is crazy and even if it was true Zahara would never call you, but you were wrong and she did call that evening.
She wanted to meet up with you Friday evening after her shift ended (as not to arouse suspicion she told her "betrothed one" that she was going to be "hanging out" with some of the girls at her job after work) and go to a hotel.
When you arrived at the hotel that you picked out you saw a very alluring young lady with a beautiful caramel complexion and hypnotic brown eyes. The only thing that had you confused was that she had on a black mask that covered the rest of her face.
As you walked to the room, there were so many questions you wanted to ask Zahara as well as you were questioning yourself as to whether you should be here in the first place?