Crazy internet confessions......(post 'em)

[the artist]

I regret snooping through my wife’s phone

I (28m) and my wife (27f) have been married for a little over a year.

My wife told me that she had a wild past before me. Whenever I tried to probe, she shot it down saying that she was ashamed of her past.

Anyway, last night I snooped through her chat with her best friend (28f) (I know I shouldn’t have) and found some really explicit details of her past. All the messages were sent before she even knew me.

Here’s what I found:

My wife has hooked up with over 20 men.
She has done all kinds of stuff with them - Anal, BDSM, Roleplay etc.
She even hooked up with a couple of females.
Many nudes sent to multiple men. The men just had to ask and she would send it to them.
She also mentioned that her favorite kind of sex was when men dominated her and humiliated her.

I know I shouldn’t have snooped through but now I am just weirded out thinking about my wife like that.

 

[jawnswoop]

 

[jawnswoop]

 

[the artist]

 

[the artist]

I had the best sex of my LIFE with my brother in law

Throw away account. NSFW. I have had a lot of life happen recently. Long story short I’m a widow and my late husbands’ brother has been helping me around the house. I’ve been getting drunk a lot because I have ptsd and am not sleeping. Yes I’ve gotten in touch with a counselor and am about to start counseling. Anyway, I drink every day these days. And last night we had sex. Literally mind blowing sex. The best sex I’ve ever had. I don’t know what to do. He’s not the type of person I’d be in a relationship with (too many core differences). But damn I want to have sex with him again. What do I do and how do I cope with this??!! Is telling him this a good idea or a bad idea?! We talked briefly this morning before he went to work and he said this doesn’t have to change anything. I said that’s good. And that was it. Part of me feels some guilt (because my husband just died, what kind of woman just wants sex after her husband dies? idk?!) and part of me just wants this to live for/ distract myself/ feel good. Please give me all your advice!

 

[scullydog]

I regret snooping through my wife’s phone

I (28m) and my wife (27f) have been married for a little over a year.

My wife told me that she had a wild past before me. Whenever I tried to probe, she shot it down saying that she was ashamed of her past.

Anyway, last night I snooped through her chat with her best friend (28f) (I know I shouldn’t have) and found some really explicit details of her past. All the messages were sent before she even knew me.

Here’s what I found:

My wife has hooked up with over 20 men.
She has done all kinds of stuff with them - Anal, BDSM, Roleplay etc.
She even hooked up with a couple of females.
Many nudes sent to multiple men. The men just had to ask and she would send it to them.
She also mentioned that her favorite kind of sex was when men dominated her and humiliated her.

I know I shouldn’t have snooped through but now I am just weirded out thinking about my wife like that.

Better get it while the getting is good because his turn might be over soon. She's for the streets.

 

[scullydog]

I had the best sex of my LIFE with my brother in law

Throw away account. NSFW. I have had a lot of life happen recently. Long story short I’m a widow and my late husbands’ brother has been helping me around the house. I’ve been getting drunk a lot because I have ptsd and am not sleeping. Yes I’ve gotten in touch with a counselor and am about to start counseling. Anyway, I drink every day these days. And last night we had sex. Literally mind blowing sex. The best sex I’ve ever had. I don’t know what to do. He’s not the type of person I’d be in a relationship with (too many core differences). But damn I want to have sex with him again. What do I do and how do I cope with this??!! Is telling him this a good idea or a bad idea?! We talked briefly this morning before he went to work and he said this doesn’t have to change anything. I said that’s good. And that was it. Part of me feels some guilt (because my husband just died, what kind of woman just wants sex after her husband dies? idk?!) and part of me just wants this to live for/ distract myself/ feel good. Please give me all your advice!

In Igbo culture, the brother takes over the deceased brother wife and family. He takes care of her and the kids and services her. He becomes the new husband.

 

[jawnswoop]

I had the best sex of my LIFE with my brother in law

Throw away account. NSFW. I have had a lot of life happen recently. Long story short I’m a widow and my late husbands’ brother has been helping me around the house. I’ve been getting drunk a lot because I have ptsd and am not sleeping. Yes I’ve gotten in touch with a counselor and am about to start counseling. Anyway, I drink every day these days. And last night we had sex. Literally mind blowing sex. The best sex I’ve ever had. I don’t know what to do. He’s not the type of person I’d be in a relationship with (too many core differences). But damn I want to have sex with him again. What do I do and how do I cope with this??!! Is telling him this a good idea or a bad idea?! We talked briefly this morning before he went to work and he said this doesn’t have to change anything. I said that’s good. And that was it. Part of me feels some guilt (because my husband just died, what kind of woman just wants sex after her husband dies? idk?!) and part of me just wants this to live for/ distract myself/ feel good. Please give me all your advice!

When a S/O dies, some people never move on and would just die sexless being lonely. I'm sure her late husband would want her to live her life having fun and having sex because death shouldn't stop no one from getting what they want. I don't feel she did anything wrong and people grieve differently. Maybe she should've gave herself time to heal before having sex but sometimes a person needs some sexual healing.

 

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[the artist]

 

[dik cashmere]

 

[jawnswoop]

I'm hope she gets the help that she needs because shes going through a lot..

 

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[the artist]

 

[the artist]

 

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