I would as long as we had the same goals for the relationship./ But if it ever got to us being engaged, I'd have to inspect the package beforehand
Could you date someone who was celibate?
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no.......hell no.............NO !!!! 
"...hmmm...loses interest after having sex, with women, right?"
I say, I smell a fag!!!
"...hmmm...loses interest after having sex, with women, right?"
I say, I smell a fag!!!
Or wack pussy.
these yankees don't understand a thing about that
@ asking a porn board this question
I don't think I could.
Human beings are sexual creatures and God meant for us to have sex...pro-create. I believe it is man (white man in particular) that has put all this guilt and sexual morality on society...and they are the biggest perverts around.
Human beings are sexual creatures and God meant for us to have sex...pro-create. I believe it is man (white man in particular) that has put all this guilt and sexual morality on society...and they are the biggest perverts around.
I met this guy a while ago, a friend of one of my sisters. And he seemed almost perfect. We really clicked. He had a great personality, treated me nice, had God in his life, etc. And then he tells me he's celibate. He told me that he decided he wanted to wait until he got married to have sex again because he felt like when he slept with someone, he immediately lost interest. He said he wasn't opposed to kissing and other intimate things. . . but he didn't want to have sex. After I found that out. . I lost interest in him.. . And maybe it was wrong
So my question is, could you date someone who was celibate?
What was he willing to do? Oral? Give/receive? did he masturbate? If he was willing to do the stuff above, then yes i would date him. If he was offering noting, the no i would not.
Any nigga that will get head, eat pussy, finger you, let you jerk him off, etc, but won't FUCK, is bullshitting. Why would you do all that?? If you are truly celibate for a good reason, you would abstain from all that. If a man abstains from intercourse only, his stroke is probably real weak. If you don't want to ruin a relationship with "sex", there is no difference between sticking your dick in her mouth or her vagina.
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I met this guy a while ago, a friend of one of my sisters. And he seemed almost perfect. We really clicked. He had a great personality, treated me nice, had God in his life, etc. And then he tells me he's celibate. He told me that he decided he wanted to wait until he got married to have sex again because he felt like when he slept with someone, he immediately lost interest. He said he wasn't opposed to kissing and other intimate things. . . but he didn't want to have sex. After I found that out. . I lost interest in him.. . And maybe it was wrong
So my question is, could you date someone who was celibate?
Sounds like a challenge, reason for possible reason to commit, great(wouldn't be celibate for long tho, ha!...
short answer:
no.
long answer:
hellz 2 tha nizzo!
friends yes, but i could never personally date a chick who was purposely not sexually active. this may sound typical mannish, but there is actually some logic behind this answer.
why invest the type of emotional time & energy it would take to get close to someone i am not sexually compatible with? it's just not a good risk situation. there is an extremely low potential for ROI of emotional investment there. personally, i'm not staying involved with a woman who i am not sexually compatible with. i can see waiting a few dates or weeks. i can even see waiting a couple of months or so. shit, if a chick said i had to roll w/her a year b4 we could get it in, i might do it if it seemed worthwhile, but celibate...FUCK THAT!
the idea of knowing there is no chance whatsoever to see if we are sexually compatible before i try to decide if this is someone i can spend a significant amount of time around is utterly ludicrous. it's just such a waste of 2 peoples' time. FWYH, sexual compatibility is very fucking important in any long-term relationship (no pun intended). a nympho and a prude just ain't gonna kick it well at all. that shit just won't fucking do...
nope, i couldn't do it. wouldn't be fair to either one of us involved...
you did the right thing Chicutie...hands down...
no.
long answer:
hellz 2 tha nizzo!
friends yes, but i could never personally date a chick who was purposely not sexually active. this may sound typical mannish, but there is actually some logic behind this answer.
why invest the type of emotional time & energy it would take to get close to someone i am not sexually compatible with? it's just not a good risk situation. there is an extremely low potential for ROI of emotional investment there. personally, i'm not staying involved with a woman who i am not sexually compatible with. i can see waiting a few dates or weeks. i can even see waiting a couple of months or so. shit, if a chick said i had to roll w/her a year b4 we could get it in, i might do it if it seemed worthwhile, but celibate...FUCK THAT!
the idea of knowing there is no chance whatsoever to see if we are sexually compatible before i try to decide if this is someone i can spend a significant amount of time around is utterly ludicrous. it's just such a waste of 2 peoples' time. FWYH, sexual compatibility is very fucking important in any long-term relationship (no pun intended). a nympho and a prude just ain't gonna kick it well at all. that shit just won't fucking do...
nope, i couldn't do it. wouldn't be fair to either one of us involved...
you did the right thing Chicutie...hands down...
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You know i'd take it as a challenge and fuck him up right?
See as long as he understood that he was just going to be my very good friend then I could date him. So all the same dating stuff would apply, except for sex. But I don't know any men who could be in a serious relationship with a woman and not get physical at some point.
what you state above is a story for a nice romantic comedy or something...
it ain't real!
never happen...
That cat was lying his ass off. It's probably better that you didn't continue to pursue.
dated and married her, virgin from the jump......
tried that shit and it did not work at all. my 1st girl was a virgin. that shit was too fucking irritating. call me impatient, but i don't wanna teach anyone shit from the door. you gotta come in w/some skills and we can work on improving our mutual skills and getting to know how best to use those skills on each other. that's what i'm talking about...
unless there was some miraculous freak like that of a virgin, i would not get past the frustration.
i ended up cheating on my former virgin girlfriend w/some chick who was crazy but sexually confident enough to tell me over the phone she wanted to suck my dick. all i asked her was what did she want from me. imagine my shock when she said she wanted to suck my dick...the virgin chick had problems w/oral...blah...
you can't find shit like that out 'til after the fact...
shit yeah....celibate...I buy a bit. Everything works out.....
I met this guy a while ago, a friend of one of my sisters. And he seemed almost perfect. We really clicked. He had a great personality, treated me nice, had God in his life, etc. And then he tells me he's celibate. He told me that he decided he wanted to wait until he got married to have sex again because he felt like when he slept with someone, he immediately lost interest. He said he wasn't opposed to kissing and other intimate things. . . but he didn't want to have sex. After I found that out. . I lost interest in him.. . And maybe it was wrong
So my question is, could you date someone who was celibate?
yeah...I'm actually talking to one who says she's celibate right now. I wish she'd commit...
that's the general idea, but why wait that long? you're already involved emotionally. if the shit is bad you might make lame excuses for the person because you care...
don't even want to go there...
