College Educated Sistas I Have A Question 4 U?
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shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiitttttttttttttttttttttt. The more education a woman gets the bigger loser she is likely to attract and hook up with.
I would never not be with someone on their education. BUT....if they are doing there thing and have a job and moving forward, I will mention that they could move a little better in the world. There is nothing wrong with learning more.
So would I date a guy with a lower education, yes if he is doing his thing and not being a bum. But I would mention that he could do more or have more options if he seeks more education.
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I guess it all depends on the woman ... personally I am very attracted to an educated man but I dont necessarily think you have to go to college to be educated
some women are blinded by the faults of their dudes when he is laying that good pipe to her. Then when she cries out to her girlfriends they always ask but why are you with him... she says I don't know...
everyone has faults...but what does that have to do with education level. Any man who is trying and not a slacking (boy) man, then he has just as much a chance than anyone else.
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I do not equate college with being educated. That being said I have difficulty with ignorant and uneducated people particularly those unwilling to learn. Some masters and phd people have been the most ignorant and uneducated people I ever met.
Do not confuse title with education.
Do not confuse title with education.
I do not equate college with being educated. That being said I have difficulty with ignorant and uneducated people particularly those unwilling to learn. Some masters and phd people have been the most ignorant and uneducated people I ever met.
Do not confuse title with education.
I agree with most of that. Personally, I would replace 'uneducated' with uninformed.
I do not equate college with being educated. That being said I have difficulty with ignorant and uneducated people particularly those unwilling to learn. Some masters and phd people have been the most ignorant and uneducated people I ever met.
Do not confuse title with education.
cosign.
everyone has faults...but what does that have to do with education level. Any man who is trying and not a slacking (boy) man, then he has just as much a chance than anyone else.
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I know a girl right now who is dealing with a dude who stinks, wears colorful fake gator shoes to dinners with her sales reps, lives with mom dukes, and works part time. The girl has multiple degrees and works a six figure job. What other reason is she with him except for the fact that he can fuck the shit out of her? Those situations happen all the time. you dont have to be formally educated to be call educated. At some point in a man or so called mans life he has to leave the rap dreams behind. Pick up an issue of GQ buy a pair or dress shoes. Anybody that says these things don't go on are either going through it or are totally blind.
It depends on what he has done since high school. There is a difference between a guy who works at menial jobs and has no savings/assets and a guy who worked his way up and owns or created something of his own
EDIT: I really mean if the man is already past his 20s
I do not equate college with being educated. That being said I have difficulty with ignorant and uneducated people particularly those unwilling to learn. Some masters and phd people have been the most ignorant and uneducated people I ever met.
Do not confuse title with education.
C/S
broads don't want niggas with no money.......thee end.
well i'll say it so no one else feels this way
probably not
and yes i know ppl who aren't "formally" educated and are cool as shit and vice versa for the college graduate
i'm speaking for where i live....unless u know someone in power..i mean the power hook up...u gotta have a degree
i have plenty of fam who work in human resources and friends....
a HS Diploma & AA don't mean nada unless u have MASSIVE experience (i'm talkin of non service sector jobs)
Shit..in a couple of years a BA aint gonna mean nothing
in NJ...there are a lot of state initiatives for ppl to go back to school and get their Master's or a Tech degree
now personally y i wouldn't lol
-i have tried before and like i have told yall before...i've had to deal w/ one dude who told me that imma get big time and forget about him....(that shocked me and hurt me that he would even think that but at the same time, he was feeling some type of way cuz he started off in school and stopped)
then there was another dude who told me that he would have a problem w/ me making more than him and was sooo anti-college that it was a turn off. i mean he supported my studies but talked horribly about college ppl and said he would never push for his kids to go blah blah blah (i don't knock u...u don't knock me)
BUT if your about your business...i mean REALLY about ur business then who knows
i'm not gonna base my whole relationship off of whether a dude has a degree or not but i'm not gonna play myself and act like things like marketability in the job market don't matter
probably not
and yes i know ppl who aren't "formally" educated and are cool as shit and vice versa for the college graduate
i'm speaking for where i live....unless u know someone in power..i mean the power hook up...u gotta have a degree
i have plenty of fam who work in human resources and friends....
a HS Diploma & AA don't mean nada unless u have MASSIVE experience (i'm talkin of non service sector jobs)
Shit..in a couple of years a BA aint gonna mean nothing
in NJ...there are a lot of state initiatives for ppl to go back to school and get their Master's or a Tech degree
now personally y i wouldn't lol
-i have tried before and like i have told yall before...i've had to deal w/ one dude who told me that imma get big time and forget about him....(that shocked me and hurt me that he would even think that but at the same time, he was feeling some type of way cuz he started off in school and stopped)
then there was another dude who told me that he would have a problem w/ me making more than him and was sooo anti-college that it was a turn off. i mean he supported my studies but talked horribly about college ppl and said he would never push for his kids to go blah blah blah (i don't knock u...u don't knock me)
BUT if your about your business...i mean REALLY about ur business then who knows
i'm not gonna base my whole relationship off of whether a dude has a degree or not but i'm not gonna play myself and act like things like marketability in the job market don't matter
I would date a man with lower education or who was a drop out if he has some type of career. I cannot date someone who has a job any teenager could also do. For example, if I met a guy who was 28 and had worked at McDonald's since he was 18, I expect him to be the manager and not the fry guy. I need to be with someone who regardless of their job is seeking to do better.
I agree with someone above that I would have to advocate for getting more education. There are more options if a person has a degree.
I agree with someone above that I would have to advocate for getting more education. There are more options if a person has a degree.
At my age I wouldn't date a guy who is a manager at McDonald's. If he had worked his way up to manager at McD's and then took those skills somewhere else, that would be a different situation to me
I do not equate college with being educated. That being said I have difficulty with ignorant and uneducated people particularly those unwilling to learn. Some masters and phd people have been the most ignorant and uneducated people I ever met.
Do not confuse title with education.
well put.
i agree with that too
This is coming from a guy with plenty of higher education, I agree with a lot of the posts here and coming from experienced, I have dated women with Master degrees and even a lady with a PhD. I can truly say that it really does not matter. However, I have found that when it comes to issues in the world or issues related to my work as a Security Engineer, the women with college degrees can understand what I am talking about better then those that don't have a college degree.
I am currently working on my PhD (that means I have a Bachelors and a Masters under my belt) so naturally I would encourage my mate to seek high education, because that could only benefit us financially to have anything we want. In other words, it is much easier to acquire wealth if we both have higher education. It is a reported fact that people with a college education make 20,000+ more then those without a college degree.
Then you have to review the town you reside in, one person said that a Bachelors degree will not mean anything in NJ in a few more years, well, I am from Atlanta and I can honestly say that Atlanta is saturated with people with Bachelor degrees, so that competition is fierce.
The best route for anyone especially black people is to get a college education, or you will be working at MickieD's as the fry guy at 28 years old.
ok i agree...truth
could never date a guy on that BS. he was so insecure had to put everyone else--including his future kids--down
i think the question was stated incorrectly considering all the answers. A lot of people are focusing on "education". Why do women with drive and focus sometimes tend to deal with men who are not moving at the same rate as them and then wonder why they can't change them to see things their way or in ways other brothas they dated say them?
Before the man I'm with now, I seemed to attract guys who were self made. I had no problem with them being adventurous and doing what worked best for them. The guy I'm with now didn't finish school but he makes more money now than most of his buddies that did. I would never judge a man on whether or not he's gone to college. If he dropped out of high school but he has been workig ever since I probably wouldn't judge him on that either.
that's a great question!
i don't believe i can change ppl personally...i can inspire/motivate change but not do it myself...they have to want to do it.
but back 2 ur question....my ex seemed to have massive drive and ambition and i'm like cool, we hungry together BUT once i started to see how he handled himself, how he would become complacent, how he handled such, i started to realize that we were not on the same page. then the excuses started to come in. granted...everyone gets a lil tired sometimes but damn. once it happens for extended periods after u have helped in every way and they have started stuff but don't complete it that is when u start to realize that they are all talk. he's the one that thought i would forget about him....i told him that if he was that worried about me "out-doing him then catch up". i mean shit...he was smart as hell its not like he couldn't.
and that was a major issue in our relationship. he pissed me off one time so badly that i was like blah blah blah...talk is cheap, put that shit on a tape recorder, you'll save some energy.
^once u get to that level ladies in which ur calling his blugg and he still don't get it str8...just let go
and the same goes for men dealing w/ verbally ambitious women w/ barely any follow thru
oh yeah....and don't get sooo caught up in POTENTIAL...cuz ummm that can cause a lot of grief...take off the rose tinted glasses and see the person for who they are. when a person shows you who they are...believe them.
I agree with your post, but it is way way more than that now...
For me to date you, if you don't have a degree, you need to be doing something positive with your life and earning an income. Being sexy and funny is not going to pay the bills. And the fact is, college graduates earn more money over their lifetime than those that don't have a degree. However, I recognize that college is not for everyone, and that is fine. Everyone needs a skill or trade that they are good at that actually brings in income.
DAYUMMMM!!! What's wrong with being a mgr at McD's? It's an honest job. That's a fairly strong statement. Do you know something about the position, pay or company? From what I know, that's the way to become an owner.
So let me play devil's advocate. If you met a dude you were REALLY feelin, and he told you he worked at McD's as a mgr, you wouldn't think he has ownership ambitions? Or would you just think this is all he could do and blow him off?
With women always talking about the lack of possible mates, I'd think a management position would be ok.
Managing a restaurant that you do not own is something I do not want to be dealing with in a 30 or 35 year old man. Not saying it could never happen, I just prefer not to be in that situation.
You can become an owner without ever having worked in a McDonlads
I agree to a point.
I work a professional office building where a number of young educated black women work. You would be surprised at the "type" of dudes that I see picking them up and/or visiting them.
All the original poster needs to do is keep his wardrobe together full of Timbs, Enyce clothing..... He needs to get himself a BIG SUV....like a TAHOE. Heck you can get a late model used one for 15K. Then he needs to get a "swagger" .... when a woman asks him what he does for a living, just be very VAGUE about it. WOMEN WILL BE FALLING ALL OVER YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Most of the women in this thread are not going to be HONEST. They are going to say that they DESIRE a certain type of guy. But in REALITY THEY ARE FUCKING ANOTHER TYPE.
JUST ASK A WOMAN WERE THE LAST 3 GUYS SHE FUCKED ALL LIKE THE TYPE OF GUY SHE DESCRIBES THAT SHE WANTS?
Another note professional women say that they would date a blue collar guy
But the funny thing is.......that if a guy with a NAMETAG on his shirt tried to approach her....they wouldn't give dude the time of day. Or they would be quick to grab their cell phone and PRETEND LIKE THEY ON THE PHONE.
Cool. I guess you're strictly white collar...nuttin wrong with that. Can I ask what does your man do? And are you sure about becoming an owner without having worked there? I worked there yearsssss ago...I was 16 & I don't think you could EVER get a McD's without having worked there.
I agree to a point.
I work a professional office building where a number of young educated black women work. You would be surprised at the "type" of dudes that I see picking them up and/or visiting them.
All the original poster needs to do is keep his wardrobe together full of Timbs, Enyce clothing..... He needs to get himself a BIG SUV....like a TAHOE. Heck you can get a late model used one for 15K. Then he needs to get a "swagger" .... when a woman asks him what he does for a living, just be very VAGUE about it. WOMEN WILL BE FALLING ALL OVER YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Most of the women in this thread are not going to be HONEST. They are going to say that they DESIRE a certain type of guy. But in REALITY THEY ARE FUCKING ANOTHER TYPE.
JUST ASK A WOMAN WERE THE LAST 3 GUYS SHE FUCKED ALL LIKE THE TYPE OF GUY SHE DESCRIBES THAT SHE WANTS?
Another note professional women say that they would date a blue collar guy
But the funny thing is.......that if a guy with a NAMETAG on his shirt tried to approach her....they wouldn't give dude the time of day. Or they would be quick to grab their cell phone and PRETEND LIKE THEY ON THE PHONE.
You can apply ALL of this to men as well. Ask guys on BGOL if the last 3 women that they fucked were the type of woman that they claim they would want to marry. The answer would be no. Men are Women really are no different. However, I don't think that the posts on here are lies necessarily.
I agree but there is a difference between men & women. MEN KNOW WHAT IT TAKES TO GET A GOOD WOMAN. BECAUSE WE CHOOSE WHAT WOMEN WE WANT TO MARRY.
Women choose who they allow to fuck them.
Men choose who they MARRY.
Who has more power?
Case in Point.
Take your average decent professional man. He can spend ages 25 - 35 breezing through all the HOES he wants. When HE is ready to settle down.........he is not going to have too many problems finding available women.
Women do not have that luxury because you have biological clocks.....plus as a woman your promiscuity has more repercussions in attracting a man than the reverse.
That is part of the problem. Too many women trying to act like MEN.........then wondering why they don't have a man.
So, as a woman, I'm just supposed to wait around for this boy to finish being a whore, and then pray that he is going to pick me when he gets ready to "choose" a wife? Please explain.
So, as a woman, I'm just supposed to wait around for this boy to finish being a whore, and then pray that he is going to pick me when he gets ready to "choose" a wife? Please explain.
Well you have to take your fairytale glass off and step into reality for just a moment.
Look at from a man's angle for a second.
I'm a professional... with an MBA... and all of my male friends are the same...and well enough off.
Women always claim that there are not enough good black men...RIGHT?
Well wouldn't that put the "so called" good black men in demand?
Economics 101 supply and demand ........right?
So in order for a "so called" good black man who is IN HIGH DEMAND... to settle down HE HAS TO FEEL THAT YOU ARE WORTH IT.
All you have to really do.........is be a BETTER OPTION than the other hoes that he is fucking with. IF a man is fucking 3 hoes....NO ONE HOE IS DOING EVERYTHING. ONE hoe cooks, one he sucks dick well, another hoe is the TROPHY piece that does not cook nor suck dick....but she cool to take to company functions and such.
As a woman if you want to win.......you need to do what it takes to get this MAN TO CANCEL them other 3 hoes.
Cook
Suck Dick Like a Champ
Keep your appearance up.
etc, etc, etc
Most women initially approach the situation like the man is supposed to PROVE his worth to a woman. A man of worth does not feel he needs to PROVE such......think about it.
The fact of life since the dawn of time is that MEN LOVE NEW PUSSY. You can't change that and neither can I.
So do what it takes for a Nigga that you like to stay loyal to you.
I agree to a point.
I work a professional office building where a number of young educated black women work. You would be surprised at the "type" of dudes that I see picking them up and/or visiting them.
All the original poster needs to do is keep his wardrobe together full of Timbs, Enyce clothing..... He needs to get himself a BIG SUV....like a TAHOE. Heck you can get a late model used one for 15K. Then he needs to get a "swagger" .... when a woman asks him what he does for a living, just be very VAGUE about it. WOMEN WILL BE FALLING ALL OVER YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Most of the women in this thread are not going to be HONEST. They are going to say that they DESIRE a certain type of guy. But in REALITY THEY ARE FUCKING ANOTHER TYPE.
JUST ASK A WOMAN WERE THE LAST 3 GUYS SHE FUCKED ALL LIKE THE TYPE OF GUY SHE DESCRIBES THAT SHE WANTS?
Another note professional women say that they would date a blue collar guy
But the funny thing is.......that if a guy with a NAMETAG on his shirt tried to approach her....they wouldn't give dude the time of day. Or they would be quick to grab their cell phone and PRETEND LIKE THEY ON THE PHONE.
To answer your question yes,the last 3 men I fucked were what I looked for.Those relationships ended because either we were on two different levels or I was too busy for one. How are you going to generalize our actions because of what you have seen. I personally don't give a fuck what your occupation is as long as you are taking care of business. And some women don't just use that "pretend they are on the phone" to men who don't have degrees or professional jobs,some do it to men who are well established. I am trying to tell you I have turned both college educated and non college educated men,I don't discrimate. If I don't like you I don't like you regardless of your career or your material possessions.
My .02
Cute.
Look at from a man's angle for a second.
I'm a professional... with an MBA... and all of my male friends are the same...and well enough off.
Women always claim that there are not enough good black men...RIGHT?
Well wouldn't that put the "so called" good black men in demand?
Economics 101 supply and demand ........right?
So in order for a "so called" good black man who is IN HIGH DEMAND... to settle down HE HAS TO FEEL THAT YOU ARE WORTH IT.
All you have to really do.........is be a BETTER OPTION than the other hoes that he is fucking with. IF a man is fucking 3 hoes....NO ONE HOE IS DOING EVERYTHING. ONE hoe cooks, one he sucks dick well, another hoe is the TROPHY piece that does not cook nor suck dick....but she cool to take to company functions and such.
As a woman if you want to win.......you need to do what it takes to get this MAN TO CANCEL them other 3 hoes.
Cook
Suck Dick Like a Champ
Keep your appearance up.
etc, etc, etc
Most women initially approach the situation like the man is supposed to PROVE his worth to a woman. A man of worth does not feel he needs to PROVE such......think about it.
The fact of life since the dawn of time is that MEN LOVE NEW PUSSY. You can't change that and neither can I.
So do what it takes for a Nigga that you like to stay loyal to you.
Once again, a woman can say this same exact thing. There are plenty of smart, cute, educated, successful women that pass over non-successful men, because they can.
I don't buy into the "good black men are in high demand" thing. I actually think that state of mind is part of our culture's problem which has lead to the breakdown of the black family. Black men are just a fraction of the population, and black women can date outside of their race. So if I find that there are no more "good black men", I can date someone else...it's not that hard.
However, I have another related question. What are women supposed to do while men are busy fucking around? Not fuck around? Since you mentioned that women can't do the same thing as guys....
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