This if for the hopeless romantic who doesn't know why he keeps getting his heart stepped on or stepped over... I didn't write this nor can I cosign all of it, but it is worth a read!
Not sure if this is a repost, but if it is- it might be worth revisiting
If you guys are interested in the conclusion, let me know &I can post part 2.
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Ok lads, here it is. As a happily married man in his 40's I am going to explain some age old mysteries about the opposite sex for the younger male generation. If you are confused about women, I hope this helps.
As a young man always out trying to get laid, like many other young horny men, I was plagued by frustration. I always wondered why (most) girls wouldn't just be content to go home with me after a night out of frolicking and drinking, and have some good honest sex and cheerily depart in the morning with no expectations, phone calls or strings attached. After all, we all go out looking for the same thing; action from the opposite sex right? Why does it need to be complicated? Why can't we just fuck and be done with it?
Well, many years, drinks, shags and dramas later I can offer some answers that today's young men, and possibly some of my contemporaries may be looking for. The answers, like women, are complex, so get comfy and read on.
Here is the big question we single men have all asked ourselves: "Why won't (most) chicks be happy to just fuck you and walk away peacefully, no dramas, no emotional baggage, no phone calls? (Assuming you are not George Clooney of course). To begin answering this we must go back to our (grass) roots as a species, back to the days of the good ol' Caveman. But before I start, I don't intend for this information to be used to trick or deceive girls into sex with false motives. Be honest with each other about what you both want. It is to help you improve any areas of your mating game that you may need to work on and help in getting what you want from the opposite sex, and hopefully also giving them what they want from you.
So: Sex was designed as a means for our species to pro-create, re-produce and survive another generation. Men were programmed to be sexually attracted to women and vice versa. To motivate members of our/any species to have sex, Mother Nature designed it to be the most pleasurable act we know, therefore ensuring we won't get sick of it and find something better to do. She also designed males and females to be POLAR OPPOSITES in order to provide a magnetic like attraction to each other, like (you guessed it) magnets! Now, because men and women are polar opposites, we have different forces attracting us to each other hence giving each need a different need. I want you to remember this word: "Polarity". It is the key. Without polarity, men and women don't get along very well.
We all know that in reproduction of most species, females must invest the majority of their time in gestating and nurturing the offspring. That means that males with their small investment time-wise in the reproductive act are left (relatively) free to keep fucking and fertilizing more females. This is nature's way of making sure that there will always be fucking/always be reproduction.
That is why: Men are hardwired to want to fuck as many chicks as they can, and; Women are hardwired to be choosey about who gives them the pole of pleasure.
For the male, he can get the job done in a few minutes, blow his load and be on his way thinking about his next conquest. Should he be fortunate enough, he could shag another girl on his way home, then another, and repeat this process for the rest of his life. But for the female he has just thoroughly worked over and pumped full of sperm, there is a chance that she will become pregnant.
If pregnant, the female's investment in her 15 minute quicky suddenly goes from the few minutes it took her horny caveman to get his rocks off and fill her full of cock snot, to 9 months of pregnancy and about 16 years of raising a kid until it's old enough to look after itself. In short, a woman has to invest a lot more in the reproductive process than a cock driven man, therefore she will think harder about whose penis she lets inside of her. And she will also want him to stick around to help raise the rug rats.
Of course in the modern age of contraception pregnancy can be avoided, however the fairer sex are still hard wired by Mother Nature to be choosey about who gets to give them the high hard one given the huge investment they may have ahead of them.
Consider the following: Line up ten women in front of a dude and he'll happily shag every one of them, starting with the best looking one and working his way through to number ten as quickly as he can. Her name, profession and personality are trivial details that don't need to be considered. Tits, ass and face are the only things that are relevant. This is the way we men are designed. Initial attraction is based on what we see. This "program" has been installed in us to ensure we don't stop wanting to fuck nearly everything that moves, to ensure the survival of our species.
Now, let's line up 10 men in font of a female and see what happens. She won't attach herself to the genitals of the best looking candidate in the blind haste that a dude would. She will want to talk with them, and in doing so will be judging each sperm factory on their intelligence, sense of humor (an intelligence indicator) wealth, state of mind, status, resourcefulness, personality compatibility, attitude toward her and others, among many other things with physical appearance being thrown in somewhere along the line as a bonus. Whoever ticks the most of these boxes will be the one who turns her on sexually and gets a piece of her ass. She does this to determine who is most likely to father an intelligent and healthy child, and who is most likely to stick around to help raise the little rascal and pay for all the food and shelter. Of course she won't be consciously working through a checklist of the above items, but her senses will be stimulated by certain signals given off by the lads, which her internal program will process to attract her to the best candidate. Out of the 10 candidates, it's possible the ugliest one will best fit the bill; hence he will be the one who gets his dick wet.
Of course, whilst your average chick that's out getting sloshed and looking for a gang bang at 2am on a Thursday night may not be looking for a 16 year commitment, she is still programmed by nature to be choosey about the above attributes.
For a young man who just wants a root this can be frustrating, but it must be this way because if men were as choosey as women there wouldn't be enough fucking in the world to maintain our species, and if females fucked at every opportunity like males they would all be pregnant the whole time and we would become extinct due to overpopulation and drained resources. It's the balance of nature.
Sure, there are girls out there who just want to fuck cute guys, the same as there are guys who will only bone a girl once they "get to know her first". Both of these are exceptions to the general rule. We are here today to discuss the general rules.
So now we've reviewed the status-quo of how fornication works, let me try and help with getting you some success with the ladies. Once again it's a complex matter so grab a dink, have a stretch, jerk off if it's that time again, and settle in for another lesson.
Next I will do my best to cover several topics, including: -How to attract a babe. -How being too "nice" will fuck you up. -Why women have sex with fuckwits -Why the whole system works backwards.
I was raised by my Mother and Father with two sisters and was taught to respect women, treat them like ladies and be polite. And this is certainly how it should be.
This is where we will get into some paradoxes though. Whilst it's true that you should treat ladies like ladies, it's also true that being nice, polite and gentlemanly all the time probably won't get you much action, unless you are loaded or look like a movie star. Yet any girl will tell you she wants a nice guy that treats her like a lady. Confusing isn't it?
So think about these scenarios:
Scenario 1: As a guy we dream about getting with a hot looking girl who will suck our cock like a hoover, lick our asshole, fuck like a porn star and swallow our cum while letting a little bit of it dribble out of her mouth and run down onto her tits while she looks up at us with innocent puppy dog eyes. However, if after a couple of minutes of chat a girl starts telling you she wants to do all of this right away, you probably wouldn't want too much more to do with her (after you'd fucked her a few times of course). This is because the "polarity" is gone; it's the guy's job to be a drooling unrestrained sex maniac, not the girl's. If she were to be like this she cheapens herself thus being of less value to the male, hence being less desirable.
Scenario 2: You meet your dream girl, treat her like a Princess, be polite so as not to offend her, shower her with compliments, give her flowers and open doors for her with the hope that soon you'll have her bent over the couch yodeling to the beat of your ball sack smashing into her shaved pussy, but then she goes and spreads her legs for some fuckwit! (We'll discuss fuckwits later).
Confused? So was I for a long time. So after looking at these two extreme examples we can deduce the following.
1: A high value/desirable female would be one who is, feminine and ladylike on the outside but fucks and sucks your cock like there's no tomorrow once you've won her over. Much more desirable than the girl who offers her ass to every second guy she meets.
2: A high value/desirable male would be one who is confident, sure of himself, isn't intimidated by a beautiful woman, not scared to teases her (in a friendly way), gives her no special favors and at the same time leaves her with no doubt that he would fuck her so hard that her eyes would pop out, but once she has let him in he is still able to express his feelings to her, buys her flowers, treats her like a princess etc (whilst still fucking her hard of course).
So basically this is what works: Female - Nice girl on outside/naughty sex kitten on inside. Male -- Confident self assureds sex machine on outside/gentleman on inside. Polarity. It works.
Just to refresh, this is what doesn't work: Female - Slut whore on outside/nice and ladylike inside. Male - Sensitive gentleman pussy on outside/aspiring porn star on inside. See, this just isn't attractive. It's simple when you break it down isn't it?
Don't get me wrong though, ladies like to have doors opened for them and be given flowers. But it's not what will attract them right away.
You see, pretty girls have been fawned over and told they're beautiful their whole life since the time they were toddlers. Nothing wrong with that, but if and when you meet that pretty woman and you immediately begin to fawn and fuss over her like she is a princess, be overly polite and show excessive interest in her, she will most likely find it boring because you will just be doing (instinctively) exactly the same thing as every other male she has met in her life. The guy who is unfazed by her beauty and communicates to her an attitude of self confidence and not really needing her affections will be the rare guy that she notices. She'll probably be thinking something along the lines of "Why isn't this guy fussing over me like they usually all do? He must be able to get hotter women than me. I must get to know him, he must be special. . ." Well maybe not in those exact words but you get the idea right?
Women know that we want to have sex with them. They don't have to look for subtle signs that we want to play Hide The Sausage with them. Women don't need to get permission for sex (generally) but men do. Women are the ones who give permission. Men are the ones who seek permission. Just because you are a sweet sensitive guy with a heart of gold doesn't mean a gal is going to get turned on by that and say "Ok you can pound my ass until till I pass out". If men being all nicey nice to beautiful women was what turned them on, they would be wanting sex from 95% of males. They don't. But don't think for a second that women don't want sex. They do! In my opinion I think women actually enjoy a good fuck more than men do. They just don't hand it out as freely as we do.
A woman is looking for the Exceptional Male (EM). The exceptional male possesses masculine qualities. He is confident, intelligent, funny, resourceful, independent and strong, knows what he wants and where he's headed, can lead other men, treats people well and gets what he wants. He is pleasant and respectful but slightly aloof. These are masculine qualities. The exceptional male doesn't need to fuss and fawn over attractive women because, the above qualities that he possesses attract women to him. He can have his pick of the crop and probably doesn't have to worry too much about when he will get his dick wet next. This gives him an air of confidence that is apparent and attractive to women. When he meets a beautiful girl he has no reason to be artificially nice and polite to her. He is able to speak to her in a confident and mature way with no ulterior motive as he is already successful with women and doesn't fear rejection.
The woman he is speaking to will sense this, (his aura if you like) and in doing so will now want to find out more about him, because if he doesn't seem to need her it must mean that he can do better, which must mean he has something special, which of course she will now want a piece of. Women have a sixth sense that allows them to detect men who are just looking for sex from, they can see you coming a mile away and put up their defenses. That is why attached men have an easier time attracting other women. An attached man generally doesn't need sex from other women he meets so other women don't mind talking to him because they know he isn't just trying to fuck them, allowing them to feel comfortable and enjoy the company of a well sexed man and have a mature conversation with no ulterior motive, hence causing them to develop an attraction. So knowing that he is actually interested in having an intelligent conversation with her without the objective of blowing his load all over her makes her feel valuable so she develops an attraction to him. Because she senses that he is fucking other women already and doesn't need to fuck her makes her want to fuck him. See, another paradox, get used to these.
Therefore, if you can display this kind of confidence and maturity when you approach or meet an attractive female without being intimidated out of your own natural relaxed state by her beauty, she will have the impression that you are an exceptional male, therefore you can be pretty confident she'll want to get to know you better, even if you are not rich or a leader of men. Now, even if you're not that bright, good looking or rich, you are still able to possess or even develop the traits of the exceptional male. That is the beauty of being a man.
The main thing is self confidence. I don't mean over-confidence or cockiness, just being comfortable happy and confident in who you are and having direction in life. I could write a whole chapter on this but to be honest I can't be fucked right now, so just study the prior paragraph about The Exceptional Male.
Know that you don't need to possess all of those qualities, but be aware of the confidence you would have if you did. Now just develop that confidence, or at least the ability to portray it. Give yourself valid reasons to have the confidence. By conditioning yourself to believe in who you are, and that you are good, and that you would be a good catch for a woman, you can develop your confidence. That confidence will transmit to women that you are an exceptional male. You just have to be relaxed and comfortable in your own skin, that's all! Of course don't forget humor and likeability.
That's why there are so many wankers out there desperately floundering with their hairstyles, fashion, buying expensive cars and shit in an effort to attract women because deep down they feel empty and inferior. So next time you see Lambo Larry crusin' in his Countache lookin' atchya through his $800 sunnies whilst running his fake tanned gold encrusted fingers through his freshly tipped hair implants, don't be jealous. He doesn't have all that money and crap because he has something special; it's because of what he LACKS that he has all that shit. Don't be fooled. He has gone to incredible lengths via psychopathic obsession to accumulate these add-on accesories in order compensate his internal masculine shortcomings. Mind you there are chicks that will go for that crap but they're not the ones you want to be introducing to your family. And it's probably true (sadly) that Larry is banging some prize ass, but don't think you have to turn into a douche bag like him or have that kind of money to get with the girls. And don't think any of them are happier than you. Be aware, if you use wealth to attract a woman, you are increasing your chances of meeting a woman who will want to take it away from you. That's why Lambo Larry will end up in continuous cycle of getting with cheap ass materialistic women with no soul and nothing in their hearts other than the pretentious love of money and image. If this is what you want from a girl then fine, but don't come back here posting about how women are materialistic and don't care about anything except taking your money. You reap what you so. Offer up something money can't buy.
Continued in Part 2: . . .. . .
Not sure if this is a repost, but if it is- it might be worth revisiting
If you guys are interested in the conclusion, let me know &I can post part 2.
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Ok lads, here it is. As a happily married man in his 40's I am going to explain some age old mysteries about the opposite sex for the younger male generation. If you are confused about women, I hope this helps.
As a young man always out trying to get laid, like many other young horny men, I was plagued by frustration. I always wondered why (most) girls wouldn't just be content to go home with me after a night out of frolicking and drinking, and have some good honest sex and cheerily depart in the morning with no expectations, phone calls or strings attached. After all, we all go out looking for the same thing; action from the opposite sex right? Why does it need to be complicated? Why can't we just fuck and be done with it?
Well, many years, drinks, shags and dramas later I can offer some answers that today's young men, and possibly some of my contemporaries may be looking for. The answers, like women, are complex, so get comfy and read on.
Here is the big question we single men have all asked ourselves: "Why won't (most) chicks be happy to just fuck you and walk away peacefully, no dramas, no emotional baggage, no phone calls? (Assuming you are not George Clooney of course). To begin answering this we must go back to our (grass) roots as a species, back to the days of the good ol' Caveman. But before I start, I don't intend for this information to be used to trick or deceive girls into sex with false motives. Be honest with each other about what you both want. It is to help you improve any areas of your mating game that you may need to work on and help in getting what you want from the opposite sex, and hopefully also giving them what they want from you.
So: Sex was designed as a means for our species to pro-create, re-produce and survive another generation. Men were programmed to be sexually attracted to women and vice versa. To motivate members of our/any species to have sex, Mother Nature designed it to be the most pleasurable act we know, therefore ensuring we won't get sick of it and find something better to do. She also designed males and females to be POLAR OPPOSITES in order to provide a magnetic like attraction to each other, like (you guessed it) magnets! Now, because men and women are polar opposites, we have different forces attracting us to each other hence giving each need a different need. I want you to remember this word: "Polarity". It is the key. Without polarity, men and women don't get along very well.
We all know that in reproduction of most species, females must invest the majority of their time in gestating and nurturing the offspring. That means that males with their small investment time-wise in the reproductive act are left (relatively) free to keep fucking and fertilizing more females. This is nature's way of making sure that there will always be fucking/always be reproduction.
That is why: Men are hardwired to want to fuck as many chicks as they can, and; Women are hardwired to be choosey about who gives them the pole of pleasure.
For the male, he can get the job done in a few minutes, blow his load and be on his way thinking about his next conquest. Should he be fortunate enough, he could shag another girl on his way home, then another, and repeat this process for the rest of his life. But for the female he has just thoroughly worked over and pumped full of sperm, there is a chance that she will become pregnant.
If pregnant, the female's investment in her 15 minute quicky suddenly goes from the few minutes it took her horny caveman to get his rocks off and fill her full of cock snot, to 9 months of pregnancy and about 16 years of raising a kid until it's old enough to look after itself. In short, a woman has to invest a lot more in the reproductive process than a cock driven man, therefore she will think harder about whose penis she lets inside of her. And she will also want him to stick around to help raise the rug rats.
Of course in the modern age of contraception pregnancy can be avoided, however the fairer sex are still hard wired by Mother Nature to be choosey about who gets to give them the high hard one given the huge investment they may have ahead of them.
Consider the following: Line up ten women in front of a dude and he'll happily shag every one of them, starting with the best looking one and working his way through to number ten as quickly as he can. Her name, profession and personality are trivial details that don't need to be considered. Tits, ass and face are the only things that are relevant. This is the way we men are designed. Initial attraction is based on what we see. This "program" has been installed in us to ensure we don't stop wanting to fuck nearly everything that moves, to ensure the survival of our species.
Now, let's line up 10 men in font of a female and see what happens. She won't attach herself to the genitals of the best looking candidate in the blind haste that a dude would. She will want to talk with them, and in doing so will be judging each sperm factory on their intelligence, sense of humor (an intelligence indicator) wealth, state of mind, status, resourcefulness, personality compatibility, attitude toward her and others, among many other things with physical appearance being thrown in somewhere along the line as a bonus. Whoever ticks the most of these boxes will be the one who turns her on sexually and gets a piece of her ass. She does this to determine who is most likely to father an intelligent and healthy child, and who is most likely to stick around to help raise the little rascal and pay for all the food and shelter. Of course she won't be consciously working through a checklist of the above items, but her senses will be stimulated by certain signals given off by the lads, which her internal program will process to attract her to the best candidate. Out of the 10 candidates, it's possible the ugliest one will best fit the bill; hence he will be the one who gets his dick wet.
Of course, whilst your average chick that's out getting sloshed and looking for a gang bang at 2am on a Thursday night may not be looking for a 16 year commitment, she is still programmed by nature to be choosey about the above attributes.
For a young man who just wants a root this can be frustrating, but it must be this way because if men were as choosey as women there wouldn't be enough fucking in the world to maintain our species, and if females fucked at every opportunity like males they would all be pregnant the whole time and we would become extinct due to overpopulation and drained resources. It's the balance of nature.
Sure, there are girls out there who just want to fuck cute guys, the same as there are guys who will only bone a girl once they "get to know her first". Both of these are exceptions to the general rule. We are here today to discuss the general rules.
So now we've reviewed the status-quo of how fornication works, let me try and help with getting you some success with the ladies. Once again it's a complex matter so grab a dink, have a stretch, jerk off if it's that time again, and settle in for another lesson.
Next I will do my best to cover several topics, including: -How to attract a babe. -How being too "nice" will fuck you up. -Why women have sex with fuckwits -Why the whole system works backwards.
I was raised by my Mother and Father with two sisters and was taught to respect women, treat them like ladies and be polite. And this is certainly how it should be.
This is where we will get into some paradoxes though. Whilst it's true that you should treat ladies like ladies, it's also true that being nice, polite and gentlemanly all the time probably won't get you much action, unless you are loaded or look like a movie star. Yet any girl will tell you she wants a nice guy that treats her like a lady. Confusing isn't it?
So think about these scenarios:
Scenario 1: As a guy we dream about getting with a hot looking girl who will suck our cock like a hoover, lick our asshole, fuck like a porn star and swallow our cum while letting a little bit of it dribble out of her mouth and run down onto her tits while she looks up at us with innocent puppy dog eyes. However, if after a couple of minutes of chat a girl starts telling you she wants to do all of this right away, you probably wouldn't want too much more to do with her (after you'd fucked her a few times of course). This is because the "polarity" is gone; it's the guy's job to be a drooling unrestrained sex maniac, not the girl's. If she were to be like this she cheapens herself thus being of less value to the male, hence being less desirable.
Scenario 2: You meet your dream girl, treat her like a Princess, be polite so as not to offend her, shower her with compliments, give her flowers and open doors for her with the hope that soon you'll have her bent over the couch yodeling to the beat of your ball sack smashing into her shaved pussy, but then she goes and spreads her legs for some fuckwit! (We'll discuss fuckwits later).
Confused? So was I for a long time. So after looking at these two extreme examples we can deduce the following.
1: A high value/desirable female would be one who is, feminine and ladylike on the outside but fucks and sucks your cock like there's no tomorrow once you've won her over. Much more desirable than the girl who offers her ass to every second guy she meets.
2: A high value/desirable male would be one who is confident, sure of himself, isn't intimidated by a beautiful woman, not scared to teases her (in a friendly way), gives her no special favors and at the same time leaves her with no doubt that he would fuck her so hard that her eyes would pop out, but once she has let him in he is still able to express his feelings to her, buys her flowers, treats her like a princess etc (whilst still fucking her hard of course).
So basically this is what works: Female - Nice girl on outside/naughty sex kitten on inside. Male -- Confident self assureds sex machine on outside/gentleman on inside. Polarity. It works.
Just to refresh, this is what doesn't work: Female - Slut whore on outside/nice and ladylike inside. Male - Sensitive gentleman pussy on outside/aspiring porn star on inside. See, this just isn't attractive. It's simple when you break it down isn't it?
Don't get me wrong though, ladies like to have doors opened for them and be given flowers. But it's not what will attract them right away.
You see, pretty girls have been fawned over and told they're beautiful their whole life since the time they were toddlers. Nothing wrong with that, but if and when you meet that pretty woman and you immediately begin to fawn and fuss over her like she is a princess, be overly polite and show excessive interest in her, she will most likely find it boring because you will just be doing (instinctively) exactly the same thing as every other male she has met in her life. The guy who is unfazed by her beauty and communicates to her an attitude of self confidence and not really needing her affections will be the rare guy that she notices. She'll probably be thinking something along the lines of "Why isn't this guy fussing over me like they usually all do? He must be able to get hotter women than me. I must get to know him, he must be special. . ." Well maybe not in those exact words but you get the idea right?
Women know that we want to have sex with them. They don't have to look for subtle signs that we want to play Hide The Sausage with them. Women don't need to get permission for sex (generally) but men do. Women are the ones who give permission. Men are the ones who seek permission. Just because you are a sweet sensitive guy with a heart of gold doesn't mean a gal is going to get turned on by that and say "Ok you can pound my ass until till I pass out". If men being all nicey nice to beautiful women was what turned them on, they would be wanting sex from 95% of males. They don't. But don't think for a second that women don't want sex. They do! In my opinion I think women actually enjoy a good fuck more than men do. They just don't hand it out as freely as we do.
A woman is looking for the Exceptional Male (EM). The exceptional male possesses masculine qualities. He is confident, intelligent, funny, resourceful, independent and strong, knows what he wants and where he's headed, can lead other men, treats people well and gets what he wants. He is pleasant and respectful but slightly aloof. These are masculine qualities. The exceptional male doesn't need to fuss and fawn over attractive women because, the above qualities that he possesses attract women to him. He can have his pick of the crop and probably doesn't have to worry too much about when he will get his dick wet next. This gives him an air of confidence that is apparent and attractive to women. When he meets a beautiful girl he has no reason to be artificially nice and polite to her. He is able to speak to her in a confident and mature way with no ulterior motive as he is already successful with women and doesn't fear rejection.
The woman he is speaking to will sense this, (his aura if you like) and in doing so will now want to find out more about him, because if he doesn't seem to need her it must mean that he can do better, which must mean he has something special, which of course she will now want a piece of. Women have a sixth sense that allows them to detect men who are just looking for sex from, they can see you coming a mile away and put up their defenses. That is why attached men have an easier time attracting other women. An attached man generally doesn't need sex from other women he meets so other women don't mind talking to him because they know he isn't just trying to fuck them, allowing them to feel comfortable and enjoy the company of a well sexed man and have a mature conversation with no ulterior motive, hence causing them to develop an attraction. So knowing that he is actually interested in having an intelligent conversation with her without the objective of blowing his load all over her makes her feel valuable so she develops an attraction to him. Because she senses that he is fucking other women already and doesn't need to fuck her makes her want to fuck him. See, another paradox, get used to these.
Therefore, if you can display this kind of confidence and maturity when you approach or meet an attractive female without being intimidated out of your own natural relaxed state by her beauty, she will have the impression that you are an exceptional male, therefore you can be pretty confident she'll want to get to know you better, even if you are not rich or a leader of men. Now, even if you're not that bright, good looking or rich, you are still able to possess or even develop the traits of the exceptional male. That is the beauty of being a man.
The main thing is self confidence. I don't mean over-confidence or cockiness, just being comfortable happy and confident in who you are and having direction in life. I could write a whole chapter on this but to be honest I can't be fucked right now, so just study the prior paragraph about The Exceptional Male.
Know that you don't need to possess all of those qualities, but be aware of the confidence you would have if you did. Now just develop that confidence, or at least the ability to portray it. Give yourself valid reasons to have the confidence. By conditioning yourself to believe in who you are, and that you are good, and that you would be a good catch for a woman, you can develop your confidence. That confidence will transmit to women that you are an exceptional male. You just have to be relaxed and comfortable in your own skin, that's all! Of course don't forget humor and likeability.
That's why there are so many wankers out there desperately floundering with their hairstyles, fashion, buying expensive cars and shit in an effort to attract women because deep down they feel empty and inferior. So next time you see Lambo Larry crusin' in his Countache lookin' atchya through his $800 sunnies whilst running his fake tanned gold encrusted fingers through his freshly tipped hair implants, don't be jealous. He doesn't have all that money and crap because he has something special; it's because of what he LACKS that he has all that shit. Don't be fooled. He has gone to incredible lengths via psychopathic obsession to accumulate these add-on accesories in order compensate his internal masculine shortcomings. Mind you there are chicks that will go for that crap but they're not the ones you want to be introducing to your family. And it's probably true (sadly) that Larry is banging some prize ass, but don't think you have to turn into a douche bag like him or have that kind of money to get with the girls. And don't think any of them are happier than you. Be aware, if you use wealth to attract a woman, you are increasing your chances of meeting a woman who will want to take it away from you. That's why Lambo Larry will end up in continuous cycle of getting with cheap ass materialistic women with no soul and nothing in their hearts other than the pretentious love of money and image. If this is what you want from a girl then fine, but don't come back here posting about how women are materialistic and don't care about anything except taking your money. You reap what you so. Offer up something money can't buy.
Continued in Part 2: . . .. . .
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