Cheaters

[followup]

So, most of the people on SOL say that if their friend was cheating or their friend's partner was cheating, they would stay out of it. Most people said "that's not my business". I disagree with that 100%, but we all have our standards.

What if you found out one of your parents was cheating on the other? Would you tell the other parent? Or would you still say "that's not my business"?

Personally, I would tell the other parent. Even if it seemed like they had the perfect relationship to everyone

 

[LeroyDibiase]

I would definetely get involved in that situation. You're basically saying mom ain't worth shit so dad can cheat on her/dad ain't worth shit so mom can cheat on him. Talk to the cheating parent first and urge them to confess. No parent wants to hear that their spouse cheated on them from their child.

 

[shaddyvillethug]

my og told me she was creepin' but i ain't believe her.

 

[Andeyhollawho]

Have you ever heard of wrong place at the right time Follow? Use it to your advantage.

"Come on girl. Let's try out this new spot over on the southside. I heard they got some fiyah ass skrimps! Come on I'll buy the gas. Wait a minute. That car look just like yours girl. Wait girl that IS your car. What in the hell is going...oh my goodness! Is that Kenny walking over there? Who is that BITCH he walking with! I know they ain't kissing!!!"

Problem solved.

 

[Harlem's Angel]

I always thought that I would say something and I actually have said something before but I learned that you saying something may just leave you out there looking foolish. Sometimes people have agreements like open relationships in place that you don't know about cuz its just not your place to know. So I think I would say that it depends on the person and the situation. For example, due to a scheduling conflict my girlfriend couldn't come out one night but her boyfriend could. He showed his ass all night so when I called her the next day I didn't just go and tell her. I asked her if she wanted to know what he did and she said no. Of course a few weeks later she wanted to know but the point is that I gave her the option to have the information or not.

 

[followup]

Andeyholla and shaddy, I have no idea what you both are talking about...

 

[Harlem's Angel]

Andeyholla and shaddy, I have no idea what you both are talking about...

me either

 

[Andeyhollawho]

Andeyholla and shaddy, I have no idea what you both are talking about...

In plain speak...

Find out where your girls friend is creeping at with his girl and just happen to go by there when he is there and let her see for herself. You don't have to say shit about nothing.

You find out he go to lunch with his side dish every Wednesday, then you show up on Wednesday at lunch and let her see for herself.

Problem solved.

Better?

 

[shaddyvillethug]

my og is my mother.

get it now?

 

[Andeyhollawho]

my og is my mother.

get it now?

I was with you cousin.

 

[shaddyvillethug]

I was with you cousin.

allllllllllllready

 

[followup]

In plain speak...

Find out where your girls friend is creeping at with his girl and just happen to go by there when he is there and let her see for herself. You don't have to say shit about nothing.

You find out he go to lunch with his side dish every Wednesday, then you show up on Wednesday at lunch and let her see for herself.

Problem solved.

Better?

my og is my mother.

get it now?

Boys: the question was if you found out one parent was cheating would you tell the other?

 

[LeroyDibiase]

Boys: the question was if you found out one parent was cheating would you tell the other?

ANd their answers were, respectively:

I would take the other parent by where my cheating parent likes to go with their mistress/mister. AKA dry snitching.

My mother told me she was cheating on my dad, but I didn't find it plausible, so I said nothing.

 

[Andeyhollawho]

ANd their answers were, respectively:

I would take the other parent by where my cheating parent likes to go with their mistress/mister. AKA dry snitching.

My mother told me she was cheating on my dad, but I didn't find it plausible, so I said nothing.

Dry snitching indeed!

I tried to make the story general enough to cover all topics of dry snitching. In the case of a parent it is a must though. For other family members, friends, etc. use at your own risk.

 

[followup]

I prefer flat out snitching... And catching the cheater in a lie with irrevokable evidence

 

[BrownTurd]

You can come to a man and tell him that you think his girl is creeping and that you saw her with another guy. You can't do the same for a female. Females don't handle these kind of situations very well.

 

[Andeyhollawho]

I prefer flat out snitching... And catching the cheater in a lie with irrevokable evidence

And see that is the problem follow. THIS is some shit you don't do. Why you may ask? Because you are making the person that you are telling look like a bigger fool than the person you are telling on.

Because basically you are saying you didn't have the smarts, the balls or just the sense to look around you and find this shit for yourself so I am going to do it for you.

Like if you find out that your girlfriend's man doesn't get off at 7 but he actually gets off at 4 everyday and goes over to his other chick house. You show her where he leaving, show her where he going, bust up in the house and catch his ass raw dogging this other chick in broad daylight and point and say "See I told you he was lying and cheating." Can't dispute that right?

Well you made her look like a fool because if she would have been paying attention she could have put that together for herself. Love blind people to obvious shit sometimes and shining that light in they face and AH HA'ing they ass is not a good thing at all.

Trust me I've done it and been through it.

 

[n1pd]

Its best to stay out of other people's business. Why is it in your best interest to keep them informed about what their mate is doing? Just stay out of it.

 

[followup]

These are your parents you're talking about. Maybe you all have a different relationship with your folks, but I don't keep secrets from my parents. And if one of them was so disrespectful as to dip out on the other one then I would tell. My parents are devout Christians and take their vows seriously. Hmm... yall are some different type of people.

 

[shaddyvillethug]

iono my momma has been going out "line dancing" every tuesday and thursday.

 

[Andeyhollawho]

These are your parents you're talking about. Maybe you all have a different relationship with your folks, but I don't keep secrets from my parents. And if one of them was so disrespectful as to dip out on the other one then I would tell. My parents are devout Christians and take their vows seriously. Hmm... yall are some different type of people.

It's not about being different. It's just different experience. That's why you talk to people right? For their experience and take right? This is actually turning out to be a pretty good debate and not just a rah rah session. Unless that's what you were looking for?

If there is truth it always comes to light. Unless there is clear and present danger involved...like your dad is fucking strippers raw in the back of a car...then it's best to try and help your mom "catch" him in the act. That way she figured it out for herself and doesn't feel like the whole towns laughing at her.

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