Can he watch??

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Ok, so let's say you and a guy been kicking it for awhile... sex and all. So you guys have a pretty open relationship... he knows you have a vibrator... so one day out the blue he texts, IMs, emails or whatever... "I want to watch you use your toy" Do you let him? How do you respond?
 
I would let him watch if we had reached the point in the relationship where we were already sexually active with each other. Why not:confused:
 
Ok, so let's say you and a guy been kicking it for awhile... sex and all. So you guys have a pretty open relationship... he knows you have a vibrator... so one day out the blue he texts, IMs, emails or whatever... "I want to watch you use your toy" Do you let him? How do you respond?

If you comfy with it then why not.









Peace
 
Ok, so let's say you and a guy been kicking it for awhile... sex and all. So you guys have a pretty open relationship... he knows you have a vibrator... so one day out the blue he texts, IMs, emails or whatever... "I want to watch you use your toy" Do you let him? How do you respond?


:smh: I leave you alone for 1 week.
 
That isn't shit. You fucking him anyways so what is the big deal. You might as well go all out an enjoy the experience of being with one another instead of rationing it out.
 
Ok, so let's say you and a guy been kicking it for awhile... sex and all. So you guys have a pretty open relationship... he knows you have a vibrator... so one day out the blue he texts, IMs, emails or whatever... "I want to watch you use your toy" Do you let him? How do you respond?
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I think I just have a problem with the way it was bought up.... I mean.. obviously we're comfy, we're fucking... but i think maybe he should have been like can i use it on you.. I mean, it's great when a guy is eating me out and he uses it on me... its not like its some big hidden toy that no one can know about...
 
I think I just have a problem with the way it was bought up.... I mean.. obviously we're comfy, we're fucking... but i think maybe he should have been like can i use it on you.. I mean, it's great when a guy is eating me out and he uses it on me... its not like its some big hidden toy that no one can know about...


:confused: Women always do this. He don't know whats in your head why does it matter how he ask?
 
Been there, done that. I've had ol boy request that because he wanted to see how I make myself cum. Whatever the reason is, if he wants to watch, so be it.
 
All yall think about is sex, go get some ice cream or sherbert.

:lol: :lol: nice.

But seriously...why is it weird that a man wants to be a voyeur? If you've shared your body with him before, why is this a question? He can only learn from the experience. Enjoy the fact that he wants to see you at your most vulnerable doing what you do when he's not around. If you trust him I don't think this should be an issue.

peace
 
let me tell yall (you all for the northern people) about a vibrator.
when a woman uses one it is because she wants to feel what she wants to feel. she doesn't have to worry about you hitting the wrong spot or going too deep or not doing it right. she knows whats she wants and likes so I take the vibrator thing personal.
I once was with a chick who showed me her toy and it was a lex steel
reproduction dildo. i asked her what does she do with it different since i am only 7 1/2 - 8 inches and who knows how thick. she replied " this shit fills me up to the hilt, i like having my walls stretched.
now i don't mind her having a toy but to tell me it fills her up made me feel small (no pun intended). so i asked her what do i do for her?
she repies " you give me intimacy and warmth and love" I was happy to hear that but if i can't stretch your walls like the dildo does then who is to say one day you meet a guy who is built like that or that you know is built like that, would you choose him over me if he could give you what i give you as well?
word of advice, if a woman has a dildo bigger than you. step because you are nothing more than a cornish hen in a oven stuffer roasting bag.
and the vibrating dildo to me are wack. i can't make my dick vibrate so why should a fake dildo add something to the list of what i can't do?
yeah my viens make ribbed areas on my dick feel good to you. i am not competing with a dildo.
you know they still sell dildo's in the fingerhut catalog? they are listed under hand held massagers.
when a woman can guzzle my seed and swallow is when i let her off the hook with a dildo.
 
let me tell yall (you all for the northern people) about a vibrator.
when a woman uses one it is because she wants to feel what she wants to feel. she doesn't have to worry about you hitting the wrong spot or going too deep or not doing it right. she knows whats she wants and likes so I take the vibrator thing personal.
I once was with a chick who showed me her toy and it was a lex steel
reproduction dildo. i asked her what does she do with it different since i am only 7 1/2 - 8 inches and who knows how thick. she replied " this shit fills me up to the hilt, i like having my walls stretched.
now i don't mind her having a toy but to tell me it fills her up made me feel small (no pun intended). so i asked her what do i do for her?
she repies " you give me intimacy and warmth and love" I was happy to hear that but if i can't stretch your walls like the dildo does then who is to say one day you meet a guy who is built like that or that you know is built like that, would you choose him over me if he could give you what i give you as well?
word of advice, if a woman has a dildo bigger than you. step because you are nothing more than a cornish hen in a oven stuffer roasting bag.
and the vibrating dildo to me are wack. i can't make my dick vibrate so why should a fake dildo add something to the list of what i can't do?
yeah my viens make ribbed areas on my dick feel good to you. i am not competing with a dildo.
you know they still sell dildo's in the fingerhut catalog? they are listed under hand held massagers.
when a woman can guzzle my seed and swallow is when i let her off the hook with a dildo.

:smh::smh::smh:
 
Ok, so let's say you and a guy been kicking it for awhile... sex and all. So you guys have a pretty open relationship... he knows you have a vibrator... so one day out the blue he texts, IMs, emails or whatever... "I want to watch you use your toy" Do you let him? How do you respond?
It's the weirdest thing. Even in my relationships, I feel awkward pleasing myself in front of a man. I think it has to do with everybody always hiding when they are kids when they masturbate. But it's easier when I'm very comfortable with a man.
 
now i don't mind her having a toy but to tell me it fills her up made me feel small (no pun intended). so i asked her what do i do for her?
she repies " you give me intimacy and warmth and love" I was happy to hear that but if i can't stretch your walls like the dildo does then who is to say one day you meet a guy who is built like that or that you know is built like that, would you choose him over me if he could give you what i give you as well?
word of advice, if a woman has a dildo bigger than you. step because you are nothing more than a cornish hen in a oven stuffer roasting bag.
Is this someone you wanted to be with seriously? I think I remember a thread about if a woman would leave a man, but I wonder if you loved everything about a woman except she couldn't satisfy you, would you leave her?

I think I would stay with the man if he could make me cum (regardless of his size), but if he wasn't doing that then I'd have to reconsider.
 
let me tell yall (you all for the northern people) about a vibrator.
when a woman uses one it is because she wants to feel what she wants to feel. she doesn't have to worry about you hitting the wrong spot or going too deep or not doing it right. she knows whats she wants and likes so I take the vibrator thing personal.
I once was with a chick who showed me her toy and it was a lex steel
reproduction dildo. i asked her what does she do with it different since i am only 7 1/2 - 8 inches and who knows how thick. she replied " this shit fills me up to the hilt, i like having my walls stretched.
now i don't mind her having a toy but to tell me it fills her up made me feel small (no pun intended). so i asked her what do i do for her?
she repies " you give me intimacy and warmth and love" I was happy to hear that but if i can't stretch your walls like the dildo does then who is to say one day you meet a guy who is built like that or that you know is built like that, would you choose him over me if he could give you what i give you as well?
word of advice, if a woman has a dildo bigger than you. step because you are nothing more than a cornish hen in a oven stuffer roasting bag.
and the vibrating dildo to me are wack. i can't make my dick vibrate so why should a fake dildo add something to the list of what i can't do?
yeah my viens make ribbed areas on my dick feel good to you. i am not competing with a dildo.
you know they still sell dildo's in the fingerhut catalog? they are listed under hand held massagers.
when a woman can guzzle my seed and swallow is when i let her off the hook with a dildo.


He said, a cornish hen in a oven stuffer roasting bag...LMBAO!!!!

You are going to catch a lot of flack for the honesty, but I'm glad you posted...

I feel like a virgin sometimes on this board, but I've never had a woman stimulate her self with a vibrator in my presence before. And d*mm!t I'm curious!!! I have my own hang-ups about the vibrator thing such as over-stimulation, but I have that concern with masturbation in general. However, I would welcome the experience with wide eyes and wet lips...
 
let me tell yall (you all for the northern people) about a vibrator.
when a woman uses one it is because she wants to feel what she wants to feel. she doesn't have to worry about you hitting the wrong spot or going too deep or not doing it right. she knows whats she wants and likes so I take the vibrator thing personal.
I once was with a chick who showed me her toy and it was a lex steel
reproduction dildo. i asked her what does she do with it different since i am only 7 1/2 - 8 inches and who knows how thick. she replied " this shit fills me up to the hilt, i like having my walls stretched.
now i don't mind her having a toy but to tell me it fills her up made me feel small (no pun intended). so i asked her what do i do for her?
she repies " you give me intimacy and warmth and love" I was happy to hear that but if i can't stretch your walls like the dildo does then who is to say one day you meet a guy who is built like that or that you know is built like that, would you choose him over me if he could give you what i give you as well?
word of advice, if a woman has a dildo bigger than you. step because you are nothing more than a cornish hen in a oven stuffer roasting bag.
and the vibrating dildo to me are wack. i can't make my dick vibrate so why should a fake dildo add something to the list of what i can't do?
yeah my viens make ribbed areas on my dick feel good to you. i am not competing with a dildo.
you know they still sell dildo's in the fingerhut catalog? they are listed under hand held massagers.
when a woman can guzzle my seed and swallow is when i let her off the hook with a dildo.

^^^ That's some serious candor man.

I still say that IF you are satisfying your woman and she tells you honestly that you do, what is the problem? :confused: Why should any of us feel threatened by a huge vibrating dildo or any other sex toy? If anything, you should offer to help her out with her masturbatory activities. Do that and you will earn her trust in bed, and that trust will inevitably equate to a more adventurous partner. Remind yourself that a dildo/vibrator/etc. can't provide a woman with the warmth of a the real thing, the emotional connection that she craves, or the sensuous [or rough] touch that we can provide them. If you ever find yourself in a position where you are questioning your woman's loyalty or her attraction toward you because of sex toys, you might have to take stock of yourself. I've said this before but a man's dick should NOT be at the center of his ego; try to take your ego out of it and you may find that she respects you more. That part of your life can be a bit different when she can't use your self-consciousness as a weakness.

If your woman runs off with some other cat because of something like that...that says something about the woman's character, not yours. Vice versa, if you cheat on a woman with another woman who has larger breasts...that says something about you.

[ /rant ]

Note: I wrote this based on my own experience with women and my sexual encounters. Take it however you will.
 
He said, a cornish hen in a oven stuffer roasting bag...LMBAO!!!!

You are going to catch a lot of flack for the honesty, but I'm glad you posted...

I feel like a virgin sometimes on this board, but I've never had a woman stimulate her self with a vibrator in my presence before. And d*mm!t I'm curious!!! I have my own hang-ups about the vibrator thing such as over-stimulation, but I have that concern with masturbation in general. However, I would welcome the experience with wide eyes and wet lips...

some women do go thru over stimulation. when she has to break out
the magic wand (big ass massager) and the egg (which goes inside)
you better watch out.

in general i have no problem. i have gone on toy buying trips with
woman. made sure to select ones that i wouldn't be concerned
about for sure :yes:
 
Ok, so let's say you and a guy been kicking it for awhile... sex and all. So you guys have a pretty open relationship... he knows you have a vibrator... so one day out the blue he texts, IMs, emails or whatever... "I want to watch you use your toy" Do you let him? How do you respond?

If u are diggin' him enough and u are comfortable with him, then why not, but I see your point. If that was me, I would have told u in person while we are in the mood (spare of the moment) rather than by IM, text or email. Makes it seem like it's a planned event, and that can make it seem awkward :smh:
 
All yall think about is sex, go get some ice cream or sherbert.



Ice cream involves licking, which make me think of cock, which make me want to fuck...complete circle:lol::lol::lol:

Thinking about your nice thick coco right now!:yes::yes::yes:
 
All yall think about is sex, go get some ice cream or sherbert.



Ice cream involves licking, which make me think of cock, which make me want to fuck...complete circle:lol::lol::lol:

Thinking about your nice thick cock right now!:yes::yes::yes:
 
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