I dont see why this shit matters,but op..
what u are doing is generalizing the "switch up" shit some "sistas" do when it comes to having a mate of a different ethnicity....espcially those who claim to be "loyal to black men" which is a euphemism for having skills at hustling niggas for what they want, women with a true preference dont broadcast it out to try and shame people
they hold black men to one standard and other men to another standard (ie they really dont have any standards, only demands that change according to how she can compete with the women),these women know that they can compete against other black women but feel outdone against white and other women....
these are the ones who complain about "top tier" black men that they would not give the time of day if he was on the come up dating white and other women....
women like that switch up on purpose b/c they view the white man as a come up over the black man, as promoted by larger society....
historically speaking black men and white women are the "romeo and juliet" of society...
the laws did not change until a white man wanted to marry a black woman (loving v virginia)...
the funny thing is that if you do your homework, a small % of black men still married white women DESPITE the govt over the years, some estimate it was a few million over time....
some black women love to overestimate their value in the dating game and use black men as tools to do so, they still think they are hot shit in their late 20s early 30s hence all the shit talkin they do until/if they land a man in a market that they cannot compete in then they hold on...
when it comes to the whole black women dating,marrying,etc,women give each other bad advice on purpose b/c they want all the men (or the men they have) to themselves....they dont want competition with alot of reformed hoes...
there is nothing to add about brothas who do the same shit, b/c the brothas that the women only care about are those who they think are good lookin and got money...