You know what, this is a fun girl vs matriarch conversation. A girl that would get a tat on her ass is a fun girl. The only reason a woman would decorate her ass is for somebody/anybody to see that thang. That's not the woman that most men with any type of wisdom would choose to make their wife and the mother of their children. Them girls are fun. You may have fun with them. You may have a fun baby with them, but that shit is not intentional. Of course, you always have cats that want to ice skate up hill and make one of these girls a house wife, but them girls is more hot wife than house wife.