Black women who submit to their men

[DeSiRe]

You missed the entire point and don't understand what submission means

i was going off the defintion of the orginal poster

Why marry him if he's not worthy? That's your fuckin problem right there.

who said anything about marriage

 

[onyxfemme]

It is my belief to submit to my man....Although my marriage isnt/didnt work I would still submit to a man that I love. I believe in letting a man be a man and never demeaning his man hood....And when he needs me I will be right there standing w/him...Already knowing

 

[Blunt]

And when he needs me I will be right there standing w/him...

You mean behind him, ... in your place, right?

 

[onyxfemme]

You mean behind him, ... in your place, right?

No like I said w/ him. Just because you submit doesnt mean you are behind him.

 

[jucurious]

i don't think this is a problem once the man who proven that he loves, respects, cherishes, honers his wife and family, and looks out for the best interest of family and not just himself. Also that he can be trusted.

IMO that's the part in which ppl fuck up.


chics is lettin men who haven't proven themselves worthy lead them


dudes is expecting women to let them lead when they haven't proven themselves to be the leader of the unit

 

[onyxfemme]

Well Said Sis

i don't think this is a problem once the man who proven that he loves, respects, cherishes, honers his wife and family, and looks out for the best interest of family and not just himself.

IMO that's the part in which ppl fuck up.


chics is lettin men who haven't proven themselves worthy lead them


dudes is expecting women to let them lead when they haven't proven themselves to be the leader of the unit

 

[personal95]

black women have no problem submitting to men. too bad the majority of black guys are boys.

 

[JofromthaNO]

i don't think this is a problem once the man who proven that he loves, respects, cherishes, honers his wife and family, and looks out for the best interest of family and not just himself. Also that he can be trusted.

IMO that's the part in which ppl fuck up.


chics is lettin men who haven't proven themselves worthy lead them


dudes is expecting women to let them lead when they haven't proven themselves to be the leader of the unit

 

[Chaise]

I have no problem submitting to my husband to a degree . . . At the same time, there are situations that he takes a backseat and I take charge. You can't just submit to anyone, he has to be the right man, and worthy of my submission. My husband and I are equals and I give him respect and I know my place. Meaning, I do not involve myself in conversations or outing with him and the guys. I do not disrespect him in public, or make scenes in front of others, and we make decisions together. However, I am better with finances, so he does not try to do things because of his male ego. He supports my career and furthering my education. We have a great level of respect for each other. So being submissive definitely depends on the man and the relationship.