I dont know how many women here are married, but take a read and be honest with your self, Does this apply to you? This is from a blog, it's not my writing.
So I was at work today and saw a friend I hadn't seen in a while. I asked him how married life was treating him. Being that we were such good friends when we worked together before, he was very forthcoming with details. I remember him being so excited about getting married. He constantly spoke on wedding details and how much he loved being with her and the sight of her made him fall in love with her more and more....
Jump 2 years.....
Me: "So, how has the married life been treating ya?"
Him: Dry face.... "It's aight."
Me: Awww, come on, after you were so excited to get married.
Him: Well before we got married, I got "IT" anytime I wanted. Now she rarely puts out.
Me: Sigh.
This is my question today.
WHY DO WOMEN CHANGE THIS FACTOR AFTER MARRIAGE?
I understand that sometimes your husband might make you mad, and that in itself makes you not want to lay near him, much less lay up with him. But what I am not understanding is why in such large numbers do women change how much and how nasty you get with your husbands. You lay with him with no ring, and freak him till he becomes a coochie addict, then when he marries you, you change to a NONE from the local HABIT.
As women, we demand so much from our men at times, and many accommodate. But even if that is not the case, we still ask for a lot of things from our men, even if they don't oblige. So if we expect so much, with the few things men want from us, why do we hold back and expect them to just live with it?
We want the car washed, garbage put out, bills paid, we want them to love us, cherish us, protect us, buy us gifts for every holiday known to man, We want him to give us money every time we ask, and do it all with a smile.
Men on the other hand... want sex, food, and want to be left alone when he is watching the game or playing video games. His list is a whole hell of a lot shorter than ours.
I can understand if it is just a boyfriend, but this is your HUSBAND. Someone that you said you were going to love and cherish for life. Not soon as you get the ring you renege on the person you were when he decided to marry you.
I am not talking about if your husband changed into some lazy, nasty, piece of garbage... I am speaking for the men that work everyday to provide for you, loves you, treats you like a man should treat his wife... and doesn't cheat or cause you mental or physical pain... THE REAL HUSBANDS.
Stop treating your HUSBANDS like you should have been treating him when he was just your boyfriend. You are backwards ladies... screwing your boyfriends like husbands and putting your husbands in a drought like you should have been doing your boyfriends.
Source
http://bamablogunite.blogspot.com
So I was at work today and saw a friend I hadn't seen in a while. I asked him how married life was treating him. Being that we were such good friends when we worked together before, he was very forthcoming with details. I remember him being so excited about getting married. He constantly spoke on wedding details and how much he loved being with her and the sight of her made him fall in love with her more and more....
Jump 2 years.....
Me: "So, how has the married life been treating ya?"
Him: Dry face.... "It's aight."
Me: Awww, come on, after you were so excited to get married.
Him: Well before we got married, I got "IT" anytime I wanted. Now she rarely puts out.
Me: Sigh.
This is my question today.
WHY DO WOMEN CHANGE THIS FACTOR AFTER MARRIAGE?
I understand that sometimes your husband might make you mad, and that in itself makes you not want to lay near him, much less lay up with him. But what I am not understanding is why in such large numbers do women change how much and how nasty you get with your husbands. You lay with him with no ring, and freak him till he becomes a coochie addict, then when he marries you, you change to a NONE from the local HABIT.
As women, we demand so much from our men at times, and many accommodate. But even if that is not the case, we still ask for a lot of things from our men, even if they don't oblige. So if we expect so much, with the few things men want from us, why do we hold back and expect them to just live with it?
We want the car washed, garbage put out, bills paid, we want them to love us, cherish us, protect us, buy us gifts for every holiday known to man, We want him to give us money every time we ask, and do it all with a smile.
Men on the other hand... want sex, food, and want to be left alone when he is watching the game or playing video games. His list is a whole hell of a lot shorter than ours.
I can understand if it is just a boyfriend, but this is your HUSBAND. Someone that you said you were going to love and cherish for life. Not soon as you get the ring you renege on the person you were when he decided to marry you.
I am not talking about if your husband changed into some lazy, nasty, piece of garbage... I am speaking for the men that work everyday to provide for you, loves you, treats you like a man should treat his wife... and doesn't cheat or cause you mental or physical pain... THE REAL HUSBANDS.
Stop treating your HUSBANDS like you should have been treating him when he was just your boyfriend. You are backwards ladies... screwing your boyfriends like husbands and putting your husbands in a drought like you should have been doing your boyfriends.
Source
http://bamablogunite.blogspot.com
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