You're usually thinking positive when you go on a "first date," but you have learned not to expect the evening with you two ended up in bed because if you don't you feel that the it was a "bad date."
This was the case with Merilyn, who recently moved from Miami to New York City and had taken a job with a major News network in the graphics department. You were introduced to Merilyn by your cousin Antoine, who resides in Miami and was good friends with Merilyn.
Your initial meeting with Merilyn was actually a "shopping date" because she wanted to pick up a few new items and spruce up her appearance for her new job. So she invited you to "hang out" with her, talk and get to know each other better.
The "date" went well, which involved shopping and going to a midtown eatery to get some food and then you ended up going back to Merilyn's apartment (this was a surprise because you just met and you weren't sure if she would be comfortable inviting you to her home).
Apparently, you had no idea just how comfortable Merilyn was with you.