How do I explain this?! It's something that was never going to go through. He knew it. It's like Sanders promising free college. Never going to happen.
It's like offering someone something knowing they're not going to take it. You look like the hero even though you did nothing.
Lastly, if you take out a loan It's your responsibility to pay it. Don't go to college! If you do go, finish with a marketable degree and good grades. More than likely you'll get a good job so you can pay it back. In the meantime don't buy a brand new car and stop going to expensive restaurants.