BGOL: Why A Dude That Like Big Girls Gotta Have Low Self-Esteem?
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I don't understand that logic. Folks like what they like. Sure there are those that settle but yet there are those that like that type of women (though it may not be popular). We are all built different and won't like the same types.
True, but you can usually tell the ones that truly do like what they have and the ones who are getting with them because they think its easier (it's not) The ones that have to gas them all up about how they look like some celebrity, or go on and on about how fine she is to friends and such do that because they are trying to convince themselves that they have a prize and want you to believe it too. People who go on and on or put extras on something usually have something to hide.
At a certain point though, in public....it's about showing off. Trying to prop up their MAN status.
lights off? Just the 2 of them? 99% of guys are going to fuck and not even...think twice about it.
WITH no condom.
I agree somewhat but I've known dudes whom did that and really believed it. That's like black dudes who have these straggly ass white women. Some of them dudes truly like that type and others just settle for any ole white chic ("I got one").
Love this...
why do we need consensus to feel okay about our decisions?
Conditioning?
I agree w/that as well.
Too many cats on BGOL are part of this association:
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Aint nothing wrong with it...if you like big girls then you like big girls. I only consider it settling when I hear a man say something like "Thats what comes to me...." or "They love me" cuz it sound like he is turning to something he knows he can get instead of going after what he really likes.
It's like some one with a shitty job ofcourse they want better ,but only so much good looking women and good jobs around for people
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Lol dont act like thats not who this thread is about
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I could care less what another nucka hittin. But me personally I can't fuck with a bitch that can't make it up a flight of stairs with out getting out a breath or her idea of fun is eating whole box of donuts with a big bag of chips to chase em down with.
My only problem is these fat white bitches and big sistas thinking that all black dudes want them. Or these plus sized women with oversized egos.
Can't stand that shit.I'm in to slim petite or slim tall women with a dancer body like Ciara.
I'd hit this all day.
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I could care less what another nucka hittin. But me personally I can't fuck with a bitch that can't make it up a flight of stairs with out getting out a breath or her idea of fun is eating whole box of donuts with a big bag of chips to chase em down with.
My only problem is these fat white bitches and big sistas thinking that all black dudes want them. Or these plus sized women with oversized egos.
I'm in to slim petite or slim tall women with a dancer body like Ciara.
I'd hit this all day.
Society as a whole has deemed it acceptable for big women to be overly confident in an obnoxious manner.
I saw Precious walk out on some show one time, her pseudo-sass was so over the top it was a joke.
I just dont want no lil skinny bitch
Thats all I know
Thats all I know
My manager at one of my old jobs was a pretty big lady. She converted a lot of dudes that said they don't like big girls.
exactly
if you are settling cuz thats all you can get thats one thing
but you are attracted to what you are attracted to
I will fuck a curvy well proportioned big bitch over a lot of hoes niggas on here are on love with
Fuck who you want, shouldn't matter what anyone else thinks.
That being said I do believe there is a psychological aspect to being attracted to big girls that becomes more extreme the larger the girl gets. But really psychology plays a large role with anyone we are attracted to so its really no difference.
I don't think more then 1% of men are born with a natural orientation towards big women. I do believe over the course of time you can genuinely develop a taste for big women but it most likely was rooted in desperation, necessity or opportunity rather the pure desire.
Its kinda like me with beer. First beer I had was at a party in my teens. After the first taste I had thought to myself this is the nasty shit ever but that's all we could get and Im trying to get my buzz on so fuck it.
Kept drinking that shit when it was around but thought to myself as soon as Im old enough to buy my own liquor Im done with this beer shit. Few months after I hit 21 low and behold I had a craving for a beer, drank so many as a youngster I actual developed a taste for them. By the time I hit 25 I was a beer connoisseur, drinking exotic brews from around the world.
Same shit with big women. There are the 1% that were just born loving fat chicks. There's the dudes who know they would rather be fucking a badder bitch but just cant for whatever reason, then there's the dudes who developed a taste and really are attracted to big girls now but it all started off by just trying to get a nut.
That being said I do believe there is a psychological aspect to being attracted to big girls that becomes more extreme the larger the girl gets. But really psychology plays a large role with anyone we are attracted to so its really no difference.
I don't think more then 1% of men are born with a natural orientation towards big women. I do believe over the course of time you can genuinely develop a taste for big women but it most likely was rooted in desperation, necessity or opportunity rather the pure desire.
Its kinda like me with beer. First beer I had was at a party in my teens. After the first taste I had thought to myself this is the nasty shit ever but that's all we could get and Im trying to get my buzz on so fuck it.
Kept drinking that shit when it was around but thought to myself as soon as Im old enough to buy my own liquor Im done with this beer shit. Few months after I hit 21 low and behold I had a craving for a beer, drank so many as a youngster I actual developed a taste for them. By the time I hit 25 I was a beer connoisseur, drinking exotic brews from around the world.
Same shit with big women. There are the 1% that were just born loving fat chicks. There's the dudes who know they would rather be fucking a badder bitch but just cant for whatever reason, then there's the dudes who developed a taste and really are attracted to big girls now but it all started off by just trying to get a nut.
Variety is the spice of life... Sometimes, I want a salad... Sometimes I want STEAK... Sometimes, I want JUST a piece of fruit for breakfast... Sometimes, I want the HUNGRY MAN BREAKFAST SPECIAL...
Part of convincing others is convincing yourself.
What's funny is that they think they are the ones getting over when it's usually is the reverse. She has him down on lock and doing everything she says and he's too afraid to stand up for himself or to end it. It's rare to find two people with low self esteem together, it's usually is the one who think they are living the dream.
I co-sign this 100%
agreed.
another thing. give these niggas some money and better options, and all that "i love big girls" shit will fly right out the window. there's a reason why you don't see rich black men with fat bitches. because they don't have to.
but, hey. their choices don't affect me, so fuck it.
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