I've had grandparents die, but the worst is the day my GF was raped. There is something about the person who goes through a experience like that and has to live to tell about it. After that it was a couple of rough months. She almost committed suicide after that 2 times. We ended up going our separate ways. His trial was declared a mistrial and the DA never went after him again. They say its hard to prove cases like her's.