What do you mean? "Why would you think it has nothing to do about us?" You were there with her and you were both sexually active....RIGHT?" Its very much about us. Your sexual experience with your girl and her level of sexual enjoyment (or lack of) is very much about you. Own it!
I was writing about this Amy Cooper going deeper into the story, giving a different viewpoint. This is why white women false report out of fear of this whether Emmett Till accuser, Amy Cooper, or Black Wallstreet (elevator). They fear becoming a Kim Kardashian.
Men can date women not up to specification, that are attractive, but that one women just changed them. Now their head is turned to the side waiting for her to get off of him.