#Colinwarning
I know someone who has given me carte blanche to use her body any way. It is a power and powerful thing...a VERY powerful thing.
Like what was posted above, the bdsm stimuli is a trigger that connects different sorts of sensations directly to a person’s emotional and physical history. Already, most women will allow you to do so much when they trust you and I think BDSM, allows people to find a way to really experience emotion, memory and physical stimulus in ways that others don’t (like 2 people eating a pizza. You’re both eating the same thing. The result of being full will be the same but the pizza triggers unique memories/emotions/reactions in you plus you can’t really describe how the pizza tastes...you could say, I love the taste of the cheese but how it tastes to you is different than how it is for the other person.)