Its a two way street, but in the end its Men that are accountable.
Barack Obama speaking on CSPAN now on Fatherhood
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Its a two way street, but in the end its Men that are accountable.
You on that bullshit twisting my words you fucking simp.
Why you gettin emotional son? You did a great job there of denouncing a bullshit argument I never made. At the end of the day, no matter how you try to rationalize it or abdicate "no good dudes" of their responsibility....it takes two nigga!
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Come down dude
Why you gettin emotional son? You did a great job there of denouncing a bullshit argument I never made. At the end of the day, no matter how you try to rationalize it or abdicate "no good dudes" of their responsibility....it takes two nigga!
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It only takes one to make a choice.
Barack Osama
Banned
Barry wouldn't dare do that because michelle would brenda richie his soft ass.Remember he is half white.
Niggs mindstate in here is shot out...So the dude has no choice whether or not to use protection, or to have sex with her in the first place...that's only her choice, right?! GTFOH...niggas will attempt to use any rationale to escape responsibility...im not even of the school of thought that you have to marry a chick cuz she is bearing your child but you think cuz (in your twisted logic) she makes the choices, you shouldnt help? thats absolutely idiotic...the child shouldnt be punished for a lack of planning or bad decisions made by BOTH of the parents...
oh yea... @ road scholar...im assuming you mean rogue scholar dumbass
oh yea...
@ road scholar...im assuming you mean rogue scholar dumbass
And if he didnt choose to fuck without a condom it wouldnt have went down. We can play the blame game all day but the fact remains that men are the ones who are absent in the lives of child not the woman. Woman arent the ones abandoning their responsibilities of parenthood disproportionately, men are. The men are supposed to be the leaders and providers. They are the ones who can put a foot in the ass of knucklehead kids. The bottomline is that there are far too many who are not involved in the lives of the child. Its an issue which is destroying our ocmmunity from the inside out. Quit your fucking crying and deal with it.
Yeah, He better stop text messaging those white women.
Yeah OK buddy
Shit....everything in this world would be peachy-fuckin-keen too.....if it wasn't for those no good black women
Always fucking shit up.......lol, be serious man.
Niggs mindstate in here is shot out...So the dude has no choice whether or not to use protection, or to have sex with her in the first place...that's only her choice, right?! GTFOH...niggas will attempt to use any rationale to escape responsibility...im not even of the school of thought that you have to marry a chick cuz she is bearing your child but you think cuz (in your twisted logic) she makes the choices, you shouldnt help? thats absolutely idiotic...the child shouldnt be punished for a lack of planning or bad decisions made by BOTH of the parents...
oh yea...
you simps are killing the game right now
stop simping man, stop it
Yeah OK buddy
Shit....everything in this world would be peachy-fuckin-keen too.....if it wasn't for those no good black women
Always fucking shit up.......lol, be serious man.
if black women made better choices it will be better world...
Barack Osama
Banned
These rasta slut skank bitches are just looking for a paycheck if they weren't so selfish they wouldn't bring a child into this world knowing the father won't be around.Why didn't barry tell these hoes to stop walking around half naked in public with their ass cheeks hanging out?
Dayne they don't get it. WE ARE NOT SAYING THE MEN ARE NOT WITHOUT RESPONSIBILITY!
WE ARE SAYING THAT WOMEN NEED TO CHOOSE BETTER!
If you meet a guy and you hardly know him.
DON'T GET PREGNANT FOR HIM!
If you meet a guy and he wants to have sex with you without protection.
DON'T HAVE SEX WITH HIM!
If you meet a guy and he doesn't work.
DON'T GET PREGNANT FOR HIM!
If you meet a guy that has other children he doesn't take care of.
DON'T GET PREGNANT FOR HIM!
If you meet a guy who sells/does drugs.
DON'T GET PREGNANT FOR HIM!
If you meet a guy who is not a man.
DON'T GET PREGNANT FOR HIM!
It's 2008 and women are still blaming their bad decisions on the men they choose to fuck.
YES HE SHOULD BE A MAN. BUT IN THE MEANTIME HE ISN'T SO DON'T REPRODUCE WITH HIM! How HARD IS THAT FOR SOME OF YA'll TO UNDERSTAND?
Preventing pregnancy is easier than making a person "a man" after you've already gotten pregnant!
Some of ya'll have never met women with 5-6 children for 5-6 different men. When you do come back and talk to me and tell me that all these men "FORCED" her to continually have children - live in poverty - and continue to fuck up her life!
i agree with you %100..Its Bad Choices.I see it all the time...there are plenty of hard working brothas out here..but alot women open their legs too bum ass niggas and having their kids...then after 2 or 3 kids, they wanna make a the right choice but then its too late
Great Speech!
How can you abandon someone you were never with? I'm not saying these dudes are right. I'm saying women need to make better choices. You are the classic "enabler"....
at least somebody gets it.
lets not assume that the father is a deadbeat just because he isn't married to the mother or because the mother says its so. no matter how much money they get every month, most women will still complain that it isn't enough.
LOL!
Dayne, you're a wild dude man. I just hope you arent one of the deadbeats out here adding to the problem my man.
seems like a lotta y'all got hit hard for that child support.
FYI - condoms are free. and stop fuckin' with triflin' chicks that let you hit them raw. that means she's let other dudes hit her raw too.
FYI - condoms are free. and stop fuckin' with triflin' chicks that let you hit them raw. that means she's let other dudes hit her raw too.
hows your wife and my kids?
Women have to step their game up for hardworking brothers. They can't do that because they ain't about shit.
Spoken like a true deadbeat. Good job loser. Hopefully someone can teach these kids how to become the man that you arent.
Wootten Hathaway
Star
This is the bottom line!!!! As long as people are pointing fingers, they aren't fixing the problem. Barack is a black man, and it is appropriate for him to address other black men. Black men will respect this speech, NIGGAS will be mad.
Black Men will respect getting bashed as a unit on Fathers Day???
Nigga, are you Shawn Insanity???
I am deeply offended that Obama would say that to all these Black men who in some cases get blamed for being a father to these women who sex up multiple men without protection.
Has Obama watched the tv show Maury?
All the Black men who becomes imprisoned because they couldn't afford to keep up with the unfair fined imposed on them in the first place.
The countless Dollars that Black men who have supported children and he chooses to smear Black Men on Fathers day.
That Bastid!
Wootten Hathaway
Wootten Hathaway
Star
IN DC there are Bi-Women who choose to get knocked up and raise there kids with other women.
This Bi-Woman thing is the new trend. I never seen so much messed up philosophies coming from some of these Black women today.
Their kids are messed up from the start.
Wootten Hathaway
you are making an argument citing maury povich?
this shit has made my week, and it hasn't even started yet.
i know you jokin', but that shit is still funny.
Whay are people getting mad. Look the message was aimed at the men. So now that that is understood. WTF is wrong with saying "BE A FATHER TO YOUR CHILDREN". This ain't about blaming anybody. But too many times a man and a woman get together and have a baby and the father isn't around.
So shut the fuck up about blaming women. time for real men to stand up! If the child is yours, get the fuck involved. No more excuses. Yes the women have to be held accountable as well but if niggas would stop fuckin' chicks with no protection, or maybe get a vasectomy if you don't want kids, but STOP THE STUPID STATEMENTS ON THIS THREAD.
Shit, this is why black folk are looked down towards. Fuckin use your brains. If you don't want to or are ready to man up then us a rubber or a vasectomy or just don't fuck!!
Too many black men are stuck in a perpetual adolescence and never grow up.
As for me I am a grown ass man, and I make sure my son has the things he needs to be happy a successful. That includes my time. Fuck the bums its time for the black community to admire the real black men.
So shut the fuck up about blaming women. time for real men to stand up! If the child is yours, get the fuck involved. No more excuses. Yes the women have to be held accountable as well but if niggas would stop fuckin' chicks with no protection, or maybe get a vasectomy if you don't want kids, but STOP THE STUPID STATEMENTS ON THIS THREAD.
Shit, this is why black folk are looked down towards. Fuckin use your brains. If you don't want to or are ready to man up then us a rubber or a vasectomy or just don't fuck!!
Too many black men are stuck in a perpetual adolescence and never grow up.
As for me I am a grown ass man, and I make sure my son has the things he needs to be happy a successful. That includes my time. Fuck the bums its time for the black community to admire the real black men.
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There is enough blame to go around but in the end, we are still a black community and when MEN fail, the community fail.... its that simple. Jews get it, Asians get it, Whites get it and thats why their communities are stronger.... (some)Black men just don't care and its enough of them to screw up the whole black community. Its that simple. We can cry about...she should know better but if men were more noble (and thats a funny word here) then it wouldn't be a problem. Men make or break a community/nation whether they are "ain't shit niggas" or what.
Only Men (not boys) can break the cycle.
If you are relying on women to save the community then the discussion is over, women don't create nations, they nourish it. Only Men can create and protect it. And when (black) men see (black) women as the adversary , its on its way out the door. Dayne has a point but it should upserped the bigger picture Obama was talking about.
Only Men (not boys) can break the cycle.
If you are relying on women to save the community then the discussion is over, women don't create nations, they nourish it. Only Men can create and protect it. And when (black) men see (black) women as the adversary , its on its way out the door. Dayne has a point but it should upserped the bigger picture Obama was talking about.
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