I remember almost a year ago I started talking to an old schoolmate. Took her to drinks twice. Smashed on the second date if you want to call it that. I thought I spent 100 ish to smash. After that we would go eat etc and then fuck. She knew what time it was. She always was like lets eat. I didn't mind spending that 30-50 for some good pussy and cum swallowing she did. You always paying. Its either you put the QT time in or just pay to smash and be done.