But....if you move to a quiet neighborhood, then someone suddenly moves there with a nuisance kid hollering and shit, that could be fucked up. A lot of planning goes into buying a house. People like to know who their neighbors are, etc... So lets say after lots of research you and your wife found a nice quiet place to move and raise a family. A few years later someone moves there with some loud ass crying, hollering, mumbling kid making a ruckus....It's fucked up for the homeowners there.
The letter was fucked up and insensitive, but I kind of understand.