Ask A Insightful White Dude *Anything* Thread

[Mo-Better]

Not sure what happened to dude mayne.

He just dissapeared.

You know the deal, he came here treating the forum like it was a lonely hearts club. Thought he was going to dazzle the ladies with his intellect. A feeble attempt to get some black trim. No one was biting so he slithered back into his hole.

 

[TheIntelCritic]

*Co-signs Mo-Better*

I wish I could have caught this thread sooner.

The thread is disrespectful in and of itself. White boy strolls in and attempts to bedazzle the black folk (or so he thought) with metaphorical magic, radiant rhetoric, and above all, uber-sardonic swag. GTFOH.

I guess the OP was under the false impression that because this is a porn board that no one here is educated, and because of such, he would succeed in intellectually seducing at least one curious black woman on this board who might have subconsciously believed that the grass is indeed greener (or whiter in this matter) on the other side. FAIL.

Ladies, please be advised that the presence of ANY white man on a black porn board or forum should raise a red flag as far as motives are concerned.

You have probably heard what I'm about to say from others, but for those of you who have not, let me say it again:

1. You are a trophy (not a positive one) and/or a sex object to many races outside of your own.

2. I've traveled the globe and I've seen the same pattern: black woman (of varying ethnicity or origin, but still black) with white man, and guess what? The citizens of the country, once they saw my black ass, looked at me with hate and disgust. I'm an educated professional in both mind and appearance. Why am I looked at with such disgust, hate, and disdain? You can't hate me, a black man, but love a black woman. It's contradictory, oxymoronic. You love my fellow black women, but hate me? Ladies, you don't see something wrong with this picture?

3. There is no shortage of "good black men," and please do not use it as an excuse to date a white man. If you want to date a white man because you only like white men, just own up to that and don't front. You're not fooling anyone.

4. The relationship of the white man/black woman harks back to slavery. The white slave master would exert his dominance by killing and/or abusing the male black slave while raping "his" black woman and having the black woman "serve" him physically, emotionally, and sexually. When the white slave master's wife refused to give him anal sex for instance, it was forced upon the black female slave. When the white slave master's wife refused to perform the seemingly perverse and/or allegedly degrading act of oral sex on him, who did the white slave master turn to? The black female slave. He forced himself on her. Do you get the point now ladies? The white male/black female relationship is one of historic SUBJUGATION that goes as far back as slavery and continues today. The white man takes pride in dating a black woman because to the white man, the relationship underscores his perceived superiority and triumph over what belongs to the black man.

Take a look around you the next time you stroll the city streets of your neighborhood. Don't you ALWAYS see a BLACK nanny working for a WHITE family? You are witnessing historic subjugation, the same type of subjugation that exists in the white male/black female relationship paradigm. Wake up.

Ladies, I'm not telling you NOT to date a white man. All I'm saying is this: be FAIR and balanced in your dating and relationship decisions and don't fall for the seemingly innocent bullshit okey-doke that white men like the OP put forth.

 

[LoneStar29]

TheIntelCritic

I feel your post soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much you have no clue

My only question is how come White women love Black men but White men only want us for sex??? As per your post I mean

 

[OnSlaught]

Wow, how the fuck did I miss this thread!?

Probably good though, 'cause I would have roasted his "cracka" ass!

 

[therealjondoe]

TheIntelCritic

I feel your post soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much you have no clue

My only question is how come White women love Black men but White men only want us for sex??? As per your post I mean

Lonestar29!!!!

 

[LoneStar29]

Lonestar29!!!!

Jon I meant as per his post

I hear Black men say sometimes how White men only want us for sex but then they say they themselves are wanted by women of all races so I wanted to know why do they think that everybody wants them and nobody wants us???

That is what I meant

Damnit I was pretty tipsy last night I don't think that came out right

 

[TheIntelCritic]

Lonestar:

The sad truth is this:

A lot of woman of other races only want a black man when that black man has $$$$. Niggaz don't want to admit it, but it's true. In most cases, if a black man doesn't have money, or a good amount of it, a white woman, for instance, won't even look at him unless the white woman is a throwback (the fat, ugly, diseased, or unwanted white women that the white man had no desire for, so the white man "throws them back" to whomever).

Lets look at black man/white woman relationships in entertainment to underscore my point:

1. Ice-T and Coco: Coco is obviously a hoe. Who wants to marry a hoe?

2. Seal and Heidi Klum: Heidi Klum is a throwback. She was dumped by her man while she was pregnant. Only a desperate black man (like Seal) would wife this unwanted white woman pregnant with another man's child.

The list is endless, and black men hate to admit what white women (the good looking ones) are after them for, $$$$.

Most of the white women you see black men with in the streets are not attractive, and niggaz know I'm telling the truth.

 

[DaAssWatcher]

Lonestar:

The sad truth is this:

A lot of woman of other races only want a black man when that black man has $$$$. Niggaz don't want to admit it, but it's true. In most cases, if a black man doesn't have money, or a good amount of it, a white woman, for instance, won't even look at him unless the white woman is a throwback (the fat, ugly, diseased, or unwanted white women that the white man had no desire for, so the white man "throws them back" to whomever).

Lets look at black man/white woman relationships in entertainment to underscore my point:

1. Ice-T and Coco: Coco is obviously a hoe. Who wants to marry a hoe?

2. Seal and Heidi Klum: Heidi Klum is a throwback. She was dumped by her man while she was pregnant. Only a desperate black man (like Seal) would wife this unwanted white woman pregnant with another man's child.

The list is endless, and black men hate to admit what white women (the good looking ones) are after them for, $$$$.

Most of the white women you see black men with in the streets are not attractive, and niggaz know I'm telling the truth.

I co-sign tha shit out of your 1st post.
And now to expand on this post pertaining to tha entertainment industry, Famous White women DO NOT DATE BLACK MEN PERIOD.You will not see your Angela Jolies, Julia Roberts, Megan Foxes,etc,etc parading around with Black men on tha red carpet or getting photos of them with Black dudes while they are out chilling at Rodeo Dr up Beverly Hills.

When well known white women reach a certain level of star power Black Men are out tha equation no matter how successful they are.White women like Nelly Fertado, Fergie,Gwen Steffani will be all up on some niggaz when they are trying to get their come up money but as soon as they reach a certain level of success they cut Black people off and start acting brand new like they didn't get their start by being co-signed by Blacks especially Black men and being all down with tha culture.You'll soon see what i'm talking bout when that Lady Gaga bitch blows up.If your old enough you'll remember Maddonna back in tha 80s.She had nothing but niggaz all up in her videos and chilling around her.Big Daddy Kane was doing all types of freaky shit with her up in that lil sex book she put out.But someone born in 95 and didn't know about 80s Maddonna, they wouldn't have a clue how down with Blacks she used to be when she was trying to come up especially with tha Brothers.Only connection to Blacks they know now is that of her adopting African kids.Shes worth almost a billion dollars Brothers are not in her equation any more.

Black men need to start keeping it real and stop putting these non Black broads on a pedestals because they sure as hell aren't doing it to us especially in tha open.Its one thing for someone of another race to want to fuck you but its another thing to get them to take you seriously enough for marriage if your Black.White men DO NOT put Black women on a pedestal either.

Black women are seen more as a fantasy to a lot of white men they are trying to fulfill then actual love.Of course you have tha minority of white men that actually want to date a Black women but lets be real for a second.Interracial relationships between tha 2 groups didn't get encouraged by Sanna Lathans Something New movie.That shit has been going on for decades.Now ask yourself this.If white men and black women have been living in the same country for a century and some change and Asian women have been living side by side with white men a fraction of that time, why is it that they tend to marry Asian women at 1000x tha rate they marry Black women??Alot of Black women fall for tha BS about them just discovering your beauty recently when they have been around you for a greater time period than Asian women and Black women outnumber Asian women at a disproportionate rate especially in college and corporate America yet they get chose at a higher rate then Black women.

If Black women actually paid attention to interracial wm/bw porn it would tell you a lot.A lot of yah sisters have been saying white men have been trying to get at yah hard tha last few years.Well it just so happens that in tha last few years that type of porn has been jumping off hard.Now you put 2 and 2 together.You may think well hes on some bullshit but check this out.Before Brazilian porn got big how many brothers do you actually know that were checking for Brazilian chicks???On Bgol alone for those who have been here that long how many times has tha front page been dominated by topics of Brazilian chicks before Brazilian porn got big over here???I know that a few brothers been going to Brazil for a minute before tha whole porn thing got big and a few white men were marrying Black women
but why is it that when both porn scenes blew up you see tha number of brothers all of a sudden that care for Brazil and tha number of white men who now are interested in sisters;go through the roof???

My bad that I went Colin but I had to put my rant down.

 

[therealjondoe]

I co-sign tha shit out of your 1st post.
And now to expand on this post pertaining to tha entertainment industry, Famous White women DO NOT DATE BLACK MEN PERIOD.You will not see your Angela Jolies, Julia Roberts, Megan Foxes,etc,etc parading around with Black men on tha red carpet or getting photos of them with Black dudes while they are out chilling at Rodeo Dr up Beverly Hills.

When well known white women reach a certain level of star power Black Men are out tha equation no matter how successful they are.White women like Nelly Fertado, Fergie,Gwen Steffani will be all up on some niggaz when they are trying to get their come up money but as soon as they reach a certain level of success they cut Black people off and start acting brand new like they didn't get their start by being co-signed by Blacks especially Black men and being all down with tha culture.You'll soon see what i'm talking bout when that Lady Gaga bitch blows up.If your old enough you'll remember Maddonna back in tha 80s.She had nothing but niggaz all up in her videos and chilling around her.Big Daddy Kane was doing all types of freaky shit with her up in that lil sex book she put out.But someone born in 95 and didn't know about 80s Maddonna, they wouldn't have a clue how down with Blacks she used to be when she was trying to come up especially with tha Brothers.Only connection to Blacks they know now is that of her adopting African kids.Shes worth almost a billion dollars Brothers are not in her equation any more.

Black men need to start keeping it real and stop putting these non Black broads on a pedestals because they sure as hell aren't doing it to us especially in tha open.Its one thing for someone of another race to want to fuck you but its another thing to get them to take you seriously enough for marriage if your Black.White men DO NOT put Black women on a pedestal either.

Black women are seen more as a fantasy to a lot of white men they are trying to fulfill then actual love.Of course you have tha minority of white men that actually want to date a Black women but lets be real for a second.Interracial relationships between tha 2 groups didn't get encouraged by Sanna Lathans Something New movie.That shit has been going on for decades.Now ask yourself this.If white men and black women have been living in the same country for a century and some change and Asian women have been living side by side with white men a fraction of that time, why is it that they tend to marry Asian women at 1000x tha rate they marry Black women??Alot of Black women fall for tha BS about them just discovering your beauty recently when they have been around you for a greater time period than Asian women and Black women outnumber Asian women at a disproportionate rate especially in college and corporate America yet they get chose at a higher rate then Black women.

If Black women actually paid attention to interracial wm/bw porn it would tell you a lot.A lot of yah sisters have been saying white men have been trying to get at yah hard tha last few years.Well it just so happens that in tha last few years that type of porn has been jumping off hard.Now you put 2 and 2 together.You may think well hes on some bullshit but check this out.Before Brazilian porn got big how many brothers do you actually know that were checking for Brazilian chicks???On Bgol alone for those who have been here that long how many times has tha front page been dominated by topics of Brazilian chicks before Brazilian porn got big over here???I know that a few brothers been going to Brazil for a minute before tha whole porn thing got big and a few white men were marrying Black women
but why is it that when both porn scenes blew up you see tha number of brothers all of a sudden that care for Brazil and tha number of white men who now are interested in sisters;go through the roof???

My bad that I went Colin but I had to put my rant down.

i see what you're saying on some of this,but i don't know about the correlation with porn and blk wmn and wht men.

 

[LoneStar29]

WOW ... just WOW @ TheIntelCritic and DaAssWatcher ... thank you for the responses ... it gave me some better insight

 

[OnSlaught]

i see what you're saying on some of this,but i don't know about the correlation with porn and blk wmn and wht men.

I have to co-sign Jon.

Money in most cases = power right? Well, when people get large quantities of money, they tend to fuck whoever they want.

You can't over generalize whole populations of people due to their race and ethnicity, the same as you can't attribute characteristics of gender you observe from a few people to a whole group.

I call bullshit on a lot of this.

People on the other hand do what feels most comfortable to them and what can benefit or solidify them a place in society. Therefore the more likely you are to see people with their own "kinds" of people, whatever that may be.

Do I think there are racial problems and double standards in America as well as the rest of the world? YEs, but this will not cause me to over generalize and attribute the fact that when I see a black man or woman that is with someone white that it is because of a power play to get ahead or because one has fantasies of subjugating the other sexually. They might be true in some instances but not in all.

Madonna explored her sexuality not just with black men but with homosexual men and lesbians. Just because she chose to get married and start to settle down in her 40's doesn't make her a hypocrite, it makes her a maturing human.

Heidi Klum in no way is a used up white woman that no white man wants. She's a fucking supermodel that thousands of white dudes salivate over still to this day even though she's married and has kids with a scarred-faced black man.

Like I said, you can't over generalize...that's a lapse in logic. What I can say is that because of the social construct of racism and prejudice it has caused most people, especially those that benefit from it, to make little niche groups that they can section themselves off from and hold power. When minorities aren't minorities anymore, they will do the same. Most people that hold a monopoly do so by keeping the power structure and its control to themselves. So as a whole, why share that with the people you oppressed for the last few hundred years?

Feel me?

 

[LoneStar29]

Ons that was a good post too

 

[TheIntelCritic]

I agree with DaAssWatcher:

Loathe as some may be to recognize it, I do believe that there is a correlation between porn and white men desiring black and/or minority women. I don't believe the part that it plays is absolute, but there is influence there. Porn is a billion dollar+ industry, and its size, scope and influence is undeniable. The proof is in the profit. On this same note, Halle Berry's "Monster's Ball" movie was theatrically released porn, no matter how you slice it. This "porn film" as I interpret it, incited and empowered the desires of many white men to hunger for black women, even to the point where the 99.9% white male academy award panel gave Halle an Oscar for the shit! That film was every white man's fantasy:

1. They murdered Halle's black man (P. Diddy) in the film and
2. The same white man responsible for Diddy's death in the film was the same one fucking the shit out of her (Halle) like some dirty hoe ("make me feel good') I will never forget that line. Despicable shit.

You will NEVER see a theatrically released film of a Black man (be it Will Smith or any other big black male Hollywood star) fucking a white woman like that on the big screen and get awards for it. If it happens, trust me, it's going straight to DVD. You won't even see a BLACK COUPLE on the big screen getting it on like that. White Hollywood won't allow it. Why? Because as far as the white man is concerned, everything, including black women, are for the sole enjoyment of whites. Not even black on black coupling is allowed, only white male on black women, like black women are there at their disposal and beck and call. It's disgusting.

The forefathers of racism and hate painted a picture of the black race as "hypersexual," therefore we cannot entirely dismiss the notion that when we are pursued by the white male or white female, that the myth of our alleged "hypersexuality" does not play a part in their desires among other factors. The relationship dynamic is racist to the core.

Onslaught:

As far as relationship subjugation goes, I do believe it's played out subconsciously in most instances. White men aren't even aware of what they're doing or what drives them. It's been going on so long that they are on autopilot and don't even know it, but some do.

On a whole, I hate to overgeneralize entire populations, but the patterns emerge consistently to the point where I feel strongly that the actions by white men or white women are not entirely random, but by subconscious and/or conscious design of an inappropriate and devilish nature and all white men or women engage in this to varying degrees.

To put it plainly, the motives of all white men or women who desire black men or women must be questioned, closely examined, and assessed for duplicity. The majority of them cannot be trusted.

 

[actinanass]

Lonestar:

The sad truth is this:

A lot of woman of other races only want a black man when that black man has $$$$. Niggaz don't want to admit it, but it's true. In most cases, if a black man doesn't have money, or a good amount of it, a white woman, for instance, won't even look at him unless the white woman is a throwback (the fat, ugly, diseased, or unwanted white women that the white man had no desire for, so the white man "throws them back" to whomever).

Lets look at black man/white woman relationships in entertainment to underscore my point:

1. Ice-T and Coco: Coco is obviously a hoe. Who wants to marry a hoe?

2. Seal and Heidi Klum: Heidi Klum is a throwback. She was dumped by her man while she was pregnant. Only a desperate black man (like Seal) would wife this unwanted white woman pregnant with another man's child.

The list is endless, and black men hate to admit what white women (the good looking ones) are after them for, $$$$.

Most of the white women you see black men with in the streets are not attractive, and niggaz know I'm telling the truth.

I think it depends on where you are at also.

The white chicks I've been with has been on par with the looks department compared to black chicks I've dated.

Bottom line, if you take care of yourself, have confidence, and have some sort of game to match, you will get whoever you want with effort *on the most part*.

BTW, you claim that most black dudes get throwaway white chicks. Have it occur to you that the black dudes that sought after the throwaway white chicks probably got the throwaway black chick too? Most of the time, we tend to forget that the person we tend to stay with tends to be the most obtainable, rather than the most attractable. Also, for the comment about black dudes only getting white women because of money. Hell, that's a universal trait. Most women want a man that can provide.

 

[LoneStar29]

TheIntelCritic I agree that porn has a bigger effect on people than they realize

 

[Mr MajestiK]

TheIntelCritic I agree that porn has a bigger effect on people than they realize

Agreed.

 

[Mr MajestiK]

The sad truth is this:

A lot of woman of other races only want a black man when that black man has $$$$. Niggaz don't want to admit it, but it's true. In most cases, if a black man doesn't have money, or a good amount of it, a white woman, for instance, won't even look at him unless the white woman is a throwback (the fat, ugly, diseased, or unwanted white women that the white man had no desire for, so the white man "throws them back" to whomever).

Dude, you're post is highly subjective and as such, lacking in objectivity. I have dated a number of women from different parts of the world and the money/materialism issue has never factored in any of those relationships.

None of the women in question have been unnatractive or as you termed them "throwbacks" so your premise is really extremely prejudiced and offensive on so many different levels.

Women in general, regardless of race, are attracted to stability and the comfort that comes with the trappings of financial solvency so why would white (or other non-black)women be an exception?

Please explain.

The women I've known have been for the most part, good people to be around, respectful of boundaries and generally interesting to associate with.

We've usually shared the same interests in the arts, music, world history and all the other things that most people do and the differences in our respective cultures, have actually made for incredible levels of self-discovery on both sides.

I personally have felt greatly enriched by these relationships and have no problems admitting it.

Lets look at black man/white woman relationships in entertainment to underscore my point:

1. Ice-T and Coco: Coco is obviously a hoe. Who wants to marry a hoe?

2. Seal and Heidi Klum: Heidi Klum is a throwback. She was dumped by her man while she was pregnant. Only a desperate black man (like Seal) would wife this unwanted white woman pregnant with another man's child.

Ice-T and Coco?

The question you should really be asking as regards Ice-T, is what woman in her right mind (black or otherwise) would even consider Ice-T as worthy marriage material?

Ice is a self confessed pimp who has no interest in getting hitched to any woman and anyone who's read his book the Ice Opinion would be left in no doubt as to what his overall philosophy is.

As for Seal and Heidi Klum, who in the hell cares whether she was pregnant with somebody elses child when Seal met her? The fact remains that they are happily married now and expecting their third child which is more than can be said for many couples. (celebrity or otherwise)

Unlike many on and off this forum, I've never understood this crazy idea that a woman automatically becomes unnatractive for future partnership with another man just because she has a child for someone else.

It's almost like fools feel that the woman does not deserve to find happiness with someone else just because she already has a child.

When Eddie Murphy knocked up Mel B and consequently kicked her to the curb did that automatically disqualify him from moving onto the next woman?

No it didn't, but many on this very forum are cursing Mel B out for having moved into a new relationship with someone who obviously appreciates her a lot more than Eddie Murphy ever could.

Mel B genuinely believed that Eddie was into her and was understandably shocked when he dumped her and then went on to deny fatherhood of the child he fathered with her until a paternity test proved that he was indeed, the childs biological father.

The kid will one day grow up to know that her father was an asshole who had to be forced to accept her as being his by virtue of modern science.

But somehow in all of this, Mel B is the "gold digging ho"?

As far as I'm concerned, Seal and Heidi Klum seem to be a well adjusted, loving and happy couple who I personally wish all the best.

The list is endless, and black men hate to admit what white women (the good looking ones) are after them for, $$$$.

You seem to obviously have intimate knowledge of a lot of these relationships dont'cha?

But the main thing you're failing to realize is that your opinion is simply that and nothing more.

You cannot say with any real authority that you know what fuels all of these individual relationships any moreso than anyone else and to continue to do so would be nothing more than a self-indulgent excercise in blind negativity on your part.

Most of the white women you see black men with in the streets are not attractive, and niggaz know I'm telling the truth.

Well I don't know about the "niggaz" you're waxing on about but this black man has never once been out with anyone unnatractive regardless of race, color or ethnicity.

That's my personal truth like it or lump it.

The really sad truth here is that so many of us are so hung up on race and all the associated bullshit that comes along with it, that we feel to enjoy the life that God has given us and in so doing, lose the many chances of happiness provided just because many are still chained to societal constructs of bigotry and closed mindedness.

Peace and blessings.