Ask A Insightful White Dude *Anything* Thread

[GlennQuagmire]

I made this thread because someone may have a question what we talk about when someone is not in vicinity, or may get in our email, or you may be curious why White people do certain things and I can probably clear it up or attempt to at least. If I can't answer it will at least try to be funny.

I also made this thread because I understand the mindgames that white people do play and it isn't fair. You should know if you want to. So hopefully you will learn something or gain a edge where previously you were afraid to ask or just didn't think of until you saw this thread. That's always something good to have in any environment.

It can be a sensitive,humorous,controversial,strange,multi tier question or whatever. And I think I can add some insight and help anyone realize because that's the crowd I have been around the longest.

Why you probably will like this experience: I don't get into bickering/I dont flame/troll/Snark a person for their preferences/ Im a person with morals and respect for others. And I can be wrong. It is possible. I don't have to lie. I've been fan of this BGOL community for years. I may not have a high post count but I figured it was time to introduce myself for those who have seen this name. I figured I would utilize myself in some way to better the community in some way. Im on year 2 as a subscriber.

So Sistas go ahead ask away but before I do a tip of sorts I would like to share.

The word cracka is out of date. Most people do not think of the whip. They think of a saltine. (True story!) What you should call a white person that you despise is a (drum roll) "Snow Lizard" (my own invention)



Now some of you women may be saying, WTF why a snow lizard If you call a white person a snow lizard that is psychologically resonant. And all day long he/she will be thinking "i don't look like a lizard do I?? Do I have a lizard tongue? Lizard eyes? I don't see it! Where do I look like a freaking lizard?!?! " White people have something about the lizard. I don't know if you were told that.

Cracka is fun to say but it doesn't resonant for long. Say, "Cracka" and it's gone after a minute. However Lizard, thats a mutha! Especially on a woman. Pig is used to death and so is horse. But Lizard is underappreciated. Also a lizard is not a pleasant animal to the western world. That girl or guy will be up all day with the word "Lizard" repeating in her/his mind. "Why am a snow Lizard?. Snow I understand. But a Lizard...lizard lizard?!? Why wasn't I told this before? "

(That may have made you laugh but that's a secret weapon hint. For some reason Lizard really gets to us. Also, they will because they never thought they would hear it. The usual insults do not pierce as well. Now, that's only for disrespectful white people. If you use this just to get a reaction, that aint right!




Ok then, Ask away. I will check in from time to time. Thanks for taking a interest in this thread.

P.S. Another reason why you probably be cool with me discussing/cussing/coversating/ : I wont imbelish anything about myself. Not a pimp, not a ceo not a lawyer not a doctor,not a celebrity,not a professional sports athelete,not a rapper not a porn star . Any guys reading this want to take me to task for that you can't. Im putting that on the table. Im a real person I'd like to think. If you have a problem with me, you can always ignore. I do not respond to challenges or retorts. Alright? Cool.

Inquiring minds want to know:

 

[LoneStar29]

@ the lizard story ... you are silly


Ok I have a question that actually just came up in a thread I was in and also seems to come up alot on BGOL as a whole

Is it true that White men ONLY see Black women as a means for sex??? I ask this cuz the brothas on here are insisting that not only do they not want us but that White men don't want us either (outside of sex that is). I think they say that to make us feel bad and undesirable cuz they hate us but that is just IMO

BTW I have only dated brothas in my life

 

[Cross]

@ the lizard story ... you are silly


Ok I have a question that actually just came up in a thread I was in and also seems to come up alot on BGOL as a whole

Is it true that White men ONLY see Black women as a means for sex??? I ask this cuz some brothas on here are insisting that not only do they not want us but that White men don't want us either (outside of sex that is). I think they say that to make us feel bad and undesirable cuz they hate us but that is just IMO

BTW I have only dated brothas in my life

Fixed. I love black women with a passion. I cant see myself without a sista at my side. Dont lump us all in the same boat, Lonestar, but I can see your frustration with some of the comments from fellow male BGOL members.

 

[melonpecan]

Lone good question, and Cross frustration isn't the word.


If I was a virgin and stumbled across this place, (I would have went to the music first ), I'd probably be a lesbian.

 

[GlennQuagmire]

@ the lizard story ... you are silly


Ok I have a question that actually just came up in a thread I was in and also seems to come up alot on BGOL as a whole

Is it true that White men ONLY see Black women as a means for sex??? I ask this cuz the brothas on here are insisting that not only do they not want us but that White men don't want us either (outside of sex that is). I think they say that to make us feel bad and undesirable cuz they hate us but that is just IMO

BTW I have only dated brothas in my life

Greetings and Salutations

No, I think that is demonstratively false I think where that feeling originates from is man's insecurity for emotional attachment. Men say that to women because somewhere in their life someone has abandoned/betrayed/hurt/abused their trust/ This is their projecting onto you. The angrier someone is to anyone it's apparent. Especially if you strike a nerve. This is a man's armor, it's not too resistant to temperment or emotional turbulence.

Regarding the issue of White men and sex, I don't think that is the case. I think for the most part it's a cause and effect scenario. Most black culture from white men is not taught from literature or history or in schools. It is taught from the television and their friends. Unfortunately the image of a black woman as hypersexual black personality has run rampant in everything we inhabit for a long time. I guess you could say it is a symptom of extreme cultural laziness.

And if you really do look at entertainment as a whole it took even the white woman a long time to gradually break out of that role. It's still there but she isn't always the damsel in distress or the sextoy on the silverscreen. Grace Jones in James Bond had to be the feral exotic dominatrix from Africa. It was obviously written by a white person. Because she was built like a warrior she had to be tribal she couldn't be Jane Seymour. She had to be schooled in some type of quasi tribal gymnastics as her character.

What is odd about Grace as a sex symbol she is extremely strange in her appearance. So elongated and angular that she looks like a terminator T-3000 model. (I guess a extreme opposite comparison would be someone like Bjork as a exotic anomaly) Extremely tall and stronger than most men. And I think in that case there is a black woman who probably frightened many men (not just white) of any sexual thoughts.

What's interesting is she dated Dolph Lundgren and thats how he broke into Hollywood. Where you would think it would be the other way around for a woman. And there's an example of a black icon who got a few film roles and always played a very sexual character but it's hard to imagine sexual thoughts with her. Her strength is intimidating. She would make 2pac be silent. There is a paradox for you a woman so sexual in her approach but yet so fierce and intimidating the sexual tension goes frigid.


I think a White Man can see a Black Woman as a provider and mate. I also think instinctively that some White Men will be drawn to Black women for a relationship for that purpose. I know that's me personally speaking and I can't explain that thought process thoroughly. For myself it might have been a burn out on being persuaded image wise of the ideal person I should be with and it fried my natural selection.

When you grow up in a primarily white world you didn't think of being with a black woman. I think whoever said that is lying or deceiving themselves. Because you don't have that imprint with you. But in my case it's just evolved and you really can't control that. And that puts doubt in your head that you really are a shallow person. But I would say that the social construct we live in today doesn't make us shallow, it dictates to us how we live.

Where I grew up you couldnt just turn on the tv or radio & have a immersive black experience. It was way to the background. And since youtube or internet didnt exist that doorway wasnt there. So the sex symbols at the time were : Playboy bunnies,Farah Fawcett, (Although milf status by that time) Goldie Hawn,Sharon Stone,Meg Ryan,Julia Roberts. And then you had people dictate to you who was hot sexually. And if a black name did come up you wouldn't get the same reaction. The posters or flyers werent around you.


I remember the first black girl I met. I was scared of her. Not because of her skin tone but because she was really aggressive. She would try to kiss me and demand that I liked her. Her name was "Chasity" if you can believe it. I remember deliberately moving to the other side of the bus to avoid her. The kids were really hard on that girl. (I thought race hatred was only for foreigners who werent american because I experienced that in Germany as a military brat)Texas was where I got to witness where it all rooted for me.

I think where that can get dicey is, "So Skin Complexion matters" Then the feelings and emotions come out ten fold. Everyone has their own truth on that. Society has put our minds in a psyche blender mixing emotions images and symbols at blinding speed. We *must* be influenced.

I think a hybrid question of what you asked is the bigger question: Can attractive women escape the sex issue? And I don't think it's possible. Because of the way nature has hardwired our bodies to procreate.
I saw a BBC special where the men/women said it didn't cross their mind. But the body doesn't lie. And their body signal/behaviour was going off the charts. Even the people who were not very sexual in nature. So on the subliminal level we can't escape it. It's scientifically proven. Which says something really serious about us as a species: We lie to ourselves literally

If you think about it, that sort of means we all think of each other as sexual outlets for the planet. So, we all see each other as sexual energy

in a nutshell

 

[thighsneyez22]

Greetings and Salutations
I think a White Man can see a Black Woman as a provider and mate. I also think instinctively that some White Men will be drawn to Black women for a relationship for that purpose.

Can you expound on this point?

 

[melonpecan]

*gives blank stare


Dude you lost me half way through. Maybe I'm tired, (peep the time stamp), or you on some otherworldly plane, but I'm lost. And I'm definitely with Miss TnE cause that threw me off.

 

[actinanass]

Sean, are you seeing this shit?

 

[LoneStar29]

Fixed. I love black women with a passion. I cant see myself without a sista at my side. Dont lump us all in the same boat, Lonestar, but I can see your frustration with some of the comments from fellow male BGOL members.

Ok I'll try not to ... thanks for understanding


To the OP so is the answer to the question is YES that White men just wanna fuck us cuz of what they see on t-v

 

[melonpecan]

To the OP so is the answer to the question is YES that White men just wanna fuck us cuz of what they see on t-v

Thanks Lone...I couldn't find the answer either...

 

[GlennQuagmire]

Can you expound on this point?[/QUOTE

Sure. A provider not in the sense of monetarily although that's happening in this world Provider in the sense of emotional stability. Most white men probably have a misconception or their own distortion that a black woman is the strongest on the planet. That provides them inspiration to be better people. So a black woman provides for them clarity in themselves. Whether it's a placebo effect that is happening in their mind or not. That doesn't matter, what matters is the positive transformation. It's relationship alchemy.

Actually to explain the definition of provider as I see it, we are all told specific myths of what a person provides. Sometimes those myths turn out to be true. Some people never get that provider and are cursed to walk this earth anchored/tethered to their myth partner. Because of circumstances, too old, divorce procedures will finish you, or just contempt with their damnation. You ever seen the end of Ninth Gate? Johnny Depp had accepted his fate. That woman provided mystery intrigue and danger. He was like "oh well your green eyes got me"

 

[BigUnc]

Can you expound on this point?[/QUOTE

Sure. A provider not in the sense of monetarily although that's happening in this world Provider in the sense of emotional stability. Most white men probably have a misconception or their own distortion that a black woman is the strongest on the planet. That provides them inspiration to be better people. So a black woman provides for them clarity in themselves. Whether it's a placebo effect that is happening in their mind or not. That doesn't matter, what matters is the positive transformation. It's relationship alchemy.

Actually to explain the definition of provider as I see it, we are all told specific myths of what a person provides. Sometimes those myths turn out to be true. Some people never get that provider and are cursed to walk this earth anchored/tethered to their myth partner. Because of circumstances, too old, divorce procedures will finish you, or just contempt with their damnation. You ever seen the end of Ninth Gate? Johnny Depp had accepted his fate. That woman provided mystery intrigue and danger. He was like "oh well your green eyes got me"

Appreciate the effort but in reality you're talking in riddles.
Trying very hard to show you have a depth of knowledge but answering nothing and causing confusion in the process. It's your call but maybe you need to try another approach.

 

[Tha Iron Fist]

Sean, are you seeing this shit?

CS

GTFOH!

 

[LoneStar29]

Appreciate the effort but in reality you're talking in riddles.Trying very hard to show you have a depth of knowledge but answering nothing and causing confusion in the process. It's your call but maybe you need to try another approach.

C/S ... No disrespect to the OP but your posts are a bit confusing ... I think it's cuz you are saying too much at one ... can you please make it a bit more simple?

Sure. A provider not in the sense of monetarily although that's happening in this world Provider in the sense of emotional stability. Most white men probably have a misconception or their own distortion that a black woman is the strongest on the planet. That provides them inspiration to be better people. So a black woman provides for them clarity in themselves. Whether it's a placebo effect that is happening in their mind or not. That doesn't matter, what matters is the positive transformation. It's relationship alchemy.

WOW this I understood though ... pretty deep

 

[GlennQuagmire]

Appreciate the effort but in reality you're talking in riddles.
Trying very hard to show you have a depth of knowledge but answering nothing and causing confusion in the process. It's your call but maybe you need to try another approach.

That isnt a riddle. I said a definition of Providing from how I view it. And Im not trying hard, these questions are not yes/no. That's the problem with society today we expect short soundbites to complex questions in everything. Unfortunately that isnt how the world works. If I fail in that I can take that with ease. Also, because I don't have the template of answering something doesn't mean I am answering nothing,imo. I'll be regardless.

 

[GlennQuagmire]

C/S ... No disrespect to the OP but your posts are a bit confusing ... I think it's cuz you are saying too much at one ... can you please make it a bit more simple?



WOW this I understood though ... pretty deep

I changed the frequency. Maybe my posts were confusing but I did that because in the past if I did short succinct answers people would take things out of context. And I will do shorter answers in the future, just no one make a "AH HA" moment on me. Because I dont want to turn this thread into a "No, No, that's not what I meant" I can do the alternate with ease though.

 

[BigUnc]

That isnt a riddle. I said a definition of Providing from how I view it. And Im not trying hard, these questions are not yes/no. That's the problem with society today we expect short soundbites to complex questions in everything. Unfortunately that isnt how the world works. If I fail in that I can take that with ease. Also, because I don't have the template of answering something doesn't mean I am answering nothing,imo. I'll be regardless.

Your target audience is telling you how they are receiving your message. Whether you want to acknowledge it or not they are telling you they are confused.

I would suggest you change your delivery method. It doesn't appear your speaking from the heart but are just trying to dazzle everyone with some nonsensical bullshit.

I know white men don't speak in the manner your presenting when the discussion concerns black women. So drop the facade and speak from the position of white man's privilege or end this thread now.

 

[onyxfemme]

No offense but my blackness wont allow me to ask you a question about your insight on issues that involve me or people like me...I know it isnt right...But thats just me...
But thanks for starting a thread over here

 

[LoneStar29]

Your target audience is telling you how they are receiving your message. Whether you want to acknowledge it or not they are telling you they are confused.

I would suggest you change your delivery method. It doesn't appear your speaking from the heart but are just trying to dazzle everyone with some nonsensical bullshit.

I know white men don't speak in the manner your presenting when the discussion concerns black women. So drop the facade and speak from the position of white man's privilege or end this thread now.

 

[LeroyDibiase]

Sean, are you seeing this shit?

I bet he's a Republican.

 

[actinanass]

I bet he's a Republican.

nah he probably a tofu eating LIBERAL!!!!!!!

 

[melonpecan]

nah he probably a tofu eating LIBERAL!!!!!!!

You mad?

 

[Mo-Better]

Lone good question, and Cross frustration isn't the word.


If I was a virgin and stumbled across this place, (I would have went to the music first ), I'd probably be a lesbian.

Lesbian? Your breathing in too much jet fuel.

 

[Mo-Better]

How was the Grand Canyon created?

 

[sean69]

Sean, are you seeing this shit?

At first I ignored this thread but then I was like , aw fuck it, lemme read, i'm bored as shit anyways.

The word cracka is out of date. Most people do not think of the whip. They think of a saltine. (True story!) What you should call a white person that you despise is a (drum roll) "Snow Lizard" (my own invention)

No shit?

Cracka Ass Cracka

Keep up.

Greetings and Salutations
No, I think that is demonstratively false I think where that feeling originates from is man's insecurity for emotional attachment. Men say that to women because somewhere in their life someone has abandoned/betrayed/hurt/abused their trust/ This is their projecting onto you. The angrier someone is to anyone it's apparent. Especially if you strike a nerve. This is a man's armor, it's not too resistant to temperment or emotional turbulence.
Regarding the issue of White men and sex, I don't think that is the case. I think for the most part it's a cause and effect scenario. Most black culture from white men is not taught from literature or history or in schools. It is taught from the television and their friends. Unfortunately the image of a black woman as hypersexual black personality has run rampant in everything we inhabit for a long time. I guess you could say it is a symptom of extreme cultural laziness.
And if you really do look at entertainment as a whole it took even the white woman a long time to gradually break out of that role. It's still there but she isn't always the damsel in distress or the sextoy on the silverscreen. Grace Jones in James Bond had to be the feral exotic dominatrix from Africa. It was obviously written by a white person. Because she was built like a warrior she had to be tribal she couldn't be Jane Seymour. She had to be schooled in some type of quasi tribal gymnastics as her character.

What is odd about Grace as a sex symbol she is extremely strange in her appearance. So elongated and angular that she looks like a terminator T-3000 model. (I guess a extreme opposite comparison would be someone like Bjork as a exotic anomaly) Extremely tall and stronger than most men. And I think in that case there is a black woman who probably frightened many men (not just white) of any sexual thoughts.

What's interesting is she dated Dolph Lundgren and thats how he broke into Hollywood. Where you would think it would be the other way around for a woman. And there's an example of a black icon who got a few film roles and always played a very sexual character but it's hard to imagine sexual thoughts with her. Her strength is intimidating. She would make 2pac be silent. There is a paradox for you a woman so sexual in her approach but yet so fierce and intimidating the sexual tension goes frigid.


I think a White Man can see a Black Woman as a provider and mate. I also think instinctively that some White Men will be drawn to Black women for a relationship for that purpose. I know that's me personally speaking and I can't explain that thought process thoroughly. For myself it might have been a burn out on being persuaded image wise of the ideal person I should be with and it fried my natural selection.

When you grow up in a primarily white world you didn't think of being with a black woman. I think whoever said that is lying or deceiving themselves. Because you don't have that imprint with you. But in my case it's just evolved and you really can't control that. And that puts doubt in your head that you really are a shallow person. But I would say that the social construct we live in today doesn't make us shallow, it dictates to us how we live.
Where I grew up you couldnt just turn on the tv or radio & have a immersive black experience. It was way to the background. And since youtube or internet didnt exist that doorway wasnt there. So the sex symbols at the time were : Playboy bunnies,Farah Fawcett, (Although milf status by that time) Goldie Hawn,Sharon Stone,Meg Ryan,Julia Roberts. And then you had people dictate to you who was hot sexually. And if a black name did come up you wouldn't get the same reaction. The posters or flyers werent around you.
I remember the first black girl I met. I was scared of her. Not because of her skin tone but because she was really aggressive. She would try to kiss me and demand that I liked her. Her name was "Chasity" if you can believe it. I remember deliberately moving to the other side of the bus to avoid her. The kids were really hard on that girl. (I thought race hatred was only for foreigners who werent american because I experienced that in Germany as a military brat)Texas was where I got to witness where it all rooted for me.
I think where that can get dicey is, "So Skin Complexion matters" Then the feelings and emotions come out ten fold. Everyone has their own truth on that. Society has put our minds in a psyche blender mixing emotions images and symbols at blinding speed. We *must* be influenced.
I think a hybrid question of what you asked is the bigger question: Can attractive women escape the sex issue? And I don't think it's possible. Because of the way nature has hardwired our bodies to procreate.
I saw a BBC special where the men/women said it didn't cross their mind. But the body doesn't lie. And their body signal/behaviour was going off the charts. Even the people who were not very sexual in nature. So on the subliminal level we can't escape it. It's scientifically proven. Which says something really serious about us as a species: We lie to ourselves literally

If you think about it, that sort of means we all think of each other as sexual outlets for the planet. So, we all see each other as sexual energy

in a nutshell

Dude, seriously, you had to write an epistle to answer a simple ass question?

She asked you a simple question. LOL
Two paragraphs about Grace Jones and a chapter about Dolph Ludgren.

WTF?

Typical CAC. Never answer a question straight.

And WTF with the laughing smileys every mid sentence? You nervous or something? LOL

Nice try Robeson. Way to be inconspicuous.

 

[melonpecan]

Nice try Robeson. Way to be inconspicuous.

 

[GlennQuagmire]

No offense but my blackness wont allow me to ask you a question about your insight on issues that involve me or people like me...I know it isnt right...But thats just me...
But thanks for starting a thread over here

I can understand that and I don't take any offense. We are all just fish swimming together in this pond.

 

[actinanass]

I can understand that and I don't take any offense. We are all just fish swimming together in this pond.

THIS IS RACISM!!!!

YOU KNOW BLACK PEOPLE DON'T SWIM.....

*a hint of sarcasm...*

 

[Mr MajestiK]

*gives blank stare


Dude you lost me half way through. Maybe I'm tired, (peep the time stamp), or you on some otherworldly plane, but I'm lost. And I'm definitely with Miss TnE cause that threw me off.

GlennQuagmire is a deep brother with an appreciation for music and philosophy off of the beaten track so I can understand why you're feeling kind've lost out there in space.

Otherworldly planes are where it's at MelonP. (Breaking out the magic mushrooms and flinging on some Jimi Hendrix right about now.)

This thread is going to be a trip for real.

 

[onyxfemme]

I appreciate your understanding-do your thing on here

I can understand that and I don't take any offense. We are all just fish swimming together in this pond.

 

[JofromthaNO]

Typical man. Never answer a question straight.

FIXED! LOL

I kid, I kid...

 

[Mr MajestiK]

Damn! This thread died a death.

 

[LoneStar29]

THIS IS RACISM!!!!

YOU KNOW BLACK PEOPLE DON'T SWIM.....

*a hint of sarcasm...*

What??!!?

 

[sean69]

FIXED! LOL

I kid, I kid...

Damn! This thread died a death.

The thread was stupid as iguana shit anyway.

OP was a wana be David Hume 'ol idiom-counter-innuendo -pseudo-allegorical- methaphorical-Robesonan-if-then-and-or-but-however-so-to-speak paragraph typing I can't believe it's not butter lookin' ass.

 

[actinanass]

It's ok insightful white dude..... I took my lumps when I revealed that I'm a black conservative, who likes death metal, black girls who act white, and lives in Dallas. Not to mention that I talk like I'm on a DJ screw mixtape....

I'm a walking contradiction in every way.....and I fucking love it!!!