Ask a Black Man Reloaded
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No. I'm saying chain him to a space heater and give him head repeatedly until he breaks.
If he's telling the truth.
hmmmm.................
One can usually tell by intuition. If a person is sincere in their compliments, they usually follow that in form and action as well. Barring that, basically you can tell by judging the ultimate goal of the compliment, and what you are complimented on:
Is he complimenting you because he is trying to throw game at you and his goal (at that moment) is to make you feel good, get your number at the club, or get into the panties? Or does the compliment come at a random time where there is not really any ulterior motive?
Is he complimenting you primarily on your looks (which is not bad in itself), or perhaps complimenting you on your intelligence, opinion/insight on a topic, or on how well you managed a task or situation at work, how you handled Shenaynay in the street without resorting to loud screaming, neck craning, or violence?
I co-sign the others who state that it is up to the man to come to the realization that his woman wants him to be more aggressive. But the woman can clue him in to let him know that she doesn't mind/wants him to be more aggressive.
She can comment and drop clues to him, "I loved it when you pulled my hair", "It was great when you went hard and strong", "I liked it when you came home and just took me there in the kitchen". She can also be suggestive and offer a few things as new things she wanted to try out. Hopefully he gets the clues because if he doesn't, I'm sure she will seek it elsewhere...
Define sincerity. I'm asking that because if I say you look good, then you look good to me right then and there. Just know what type of dude you are dealing with. I guess what I'm trying to say is, there's no absolute way of looking at this...
after searching I couldnt find the original thread...so heres a new one
when is a relationship "official" to you
when i cut off others and focus on her and i know she's focusing on me
what are your feelings about a woman who lets u smash on the first nite
depends on the situation. if everything was just right and it happened no harm no foul. if she was just throwing it at me and i took it that's kinda different.
is it possible for a woman to do too much too soon...what does that say to u?
too much too soon emotionally yes. if immediately she hits me with all different moods and makes it a roller coaster then that's something i'm not sure i want to deal with right away. as far as gifts and things there's never too much, i don't ask for things so everything she gets will be because she was thinking of me and wanted me to have it. so there's nothing wrong with that.
what do u do when you meet a woman who is "too good to be true"
im cautious and reserved until i find out what she's really about. and if she's really about the goodness she says she is or projects herself to be then its all good
which is worse...a woman with lots of gossipy female friends or all male friends
all male friends is worse. she wouldn't like it if all i hung around were attractive women and i had no "boys" just chicks that i play video games and go to ball games with.
gossipy female friends can be taken care of quickly, just pay them no mind and remind her that you two are the only ones in the relationship, so if you want to let them ruin it then go ahead.
whats the best thing to do when a man does a total 360 (in a bad way) with his words and actions
the best thing to do is not play games and directly ask him about it. tell him your concerns and what you're feeling straight up. not in a whining and in a you're a victim type of way just as an adult trying to have a discussion and come to some type of resolution.
are you intimated by women who speak explicitly and direct or a woman who eases softly into what she is saying and sugarcoats it (im not talking about tone or attitude..just words)
i prefer direct in most cases because i am. majority of the little things i let it slide if i come to you with it, its a real problem. i want you to come to me too directly and say what you want, guessing is frustrating at time. i might not mind it sometimes but to do it all the time at a point i say forget it. sugar coating doesnt do anything because no matter how you really say it, it still means the same thing whether it be good or bad.
why do black men love spaghetti so much
because our mothers made it and it was good when she made it so it's something that we enjoy eating
all done
here you go
you don't
a light switch will go off. if you stop doing whatever it is you're doing to get it started see if he starts it himself.
or just do some teasing type shit. stuff that will send him over the edge and make him wanna "take" it from you.
if he says it more than once, or all the time something similar then yea. if he's saying it without you being naked or not before or after you fucked or during some type of special occasion then he's being sincere.
after searching I couldnt find the original thread...so heres a new one
when is a relationship "official" to you
what are your feelings about a woman who lets u smash on the first nite
is it possible for a woman to do too much too soon...what does that say to u?
what do u do when you meet a woman who is "too good to be true"
which is worse...a woman with lots of gossipy female friends or all male friends
whats the best thing to do when a man does a total 360 (in a bad way) with his words and actions
are you intimated by women who speak explicitly and direct or a woman who eases softly into what she is saying and sugarcoats it (im not talking about tone or attitude..just words)
why do black men love spaghetti so much
1. When we mutually agree that it is.
2. Doesn't bother me at all. We're going to be whatever we're going to be.
3. It's possible. It says to me that you rush into things and have no consideration for my feelings or my space. I needs my space.
4. Never met one. I've met some good women and my wife is a great one but there's no such thing as "too good to be true". Once a person gets stuff like that out of their minds, they're better off. Doing that to someone isn't fair to them because you're setting up a artificial standard they're bound to fail eventually.
5. Gossipy female friends.
6. Prepare to leave the relationship. Find out what's up if he'll open up to you but if not, be ready to bounce. This may be the real person.
7. Talk straight with me. I can appreciate directness. Don't be rude and a bitch just to be a bitch. But I can't read your mind and I have no interest in figuring out what you want.
8. It's good. Now that you've brought it up, I'm going to have my wife fix some Sunday. Thanks.
Tell him what you want. His approach may have been appropriate to a previous lover so he thinks he's doing good. Let him know different.
soon as i get home from Soccer Practice I'll answer this 
change up whatever you're doing. look in the mirror to see if there are any physical changes to yourself.
sup don
he has to do it on his own. bottom line.
If you wait for him to do it on his own, it'll never happen.
You gotta use language without speaking. Like watch a Justin Slayer flick, or in the middle of sex tell him to slap your ass.
I had a chick tell me to slap her ass, it was our first time fucking and I was giving it to her, but I reckon that was something she really liked and would make her enjoy what I was doing even more.... I slapped that big soft ass!
Maybe you be aggressive a little in order to bring him into it.
I had a chick that was giving me head while I was standing. She would slow down every time I would take my hand away from her head, slow all the way down, even came up off the dick and just hummed for a sec while looking wayward as if something caught her attention. She wanted me to fuck her face, and that's how she got it, by teasing me into doing what she wanted. One hand wasn't enough, I had to grab her head and fuck her face....
it's just how she was feeling .My point is that there are ways of communicating without speaking.
You gotta use language without speaking. Like watch a Justin Slayer flick, or in the middle of sex tell him to slap your ass.
I had a chick tell me to slap her ass, it was our first time fucking and I was giving it to her, but I reckon that was something she really liked and would make her enjoy what I was doing even more.... I slapped that big soft ass!
Maybe you be aggressive a little in order to bring him into it.
I had a chick that was giving me head while I was standing. She would slow down every time I would take my hand away from her head, slow all the way down, even came up off the dick and just hummed for a sec while looking wayward as if something caught her attention. She wanted me to fuck her face, and that's how she got it, by teasing me into doing what she wanted. One hand wasn't enough, I had to grab her head and fuck her face....
My point is that there are ways of communicating without speaking.
bravo to "Da muafuckin Hustla" !!!!! great example
I know about that from dealing with a shy chick who was freaky and just would not tell me what she wanted, but was able to express it without words.
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