I have a partna who has a few female friends. Most of them are cute. They go out and shit, but he's never really stepped to them. I'own think dude is gay, so I know that assumption is coming. Either way, I can't see myself being a friend with a female without me eventually crossing the line. To be friends with someone, there has to be an attraction...And that attraction is enough for me to try some salty shit.
Are You Capable Of Being In A Platonic Friendship?
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True, there has to be some kind of sexual attraction for him or her. When ever the other party realizes that nothing is gonna happen, the "friendship" is over.
so what happens if you are friends with one fine girl but she has hooked you up with 10 of her just as fine or finer friends and you have fucked them?
Only a thirsty ass brotha can't be in a platonic friendship. If you already have a main chick or your squad then having a platonic friends should not be a problem. Weak, thirsty and immature men are the ones that can't keep platonic friends. I still want to smash but it is just not a priority to me. If the situation presented itself then I am all in those guts
You act like you're all mature and shit, but you admit that you want to fuck just like the rest of us. Furthermore, if I have a main chick, I don't need a female platonic friend. Shit like that leads to nothing but problems.
there is nothing wrong with a dude having a few chicks he is just cool with but when these niggas start talking about oh yeah she is my best friend blah blah blah that is when the flags should be raised.
Sure it's possible. If the bitch got an STD or is mentally/emotionally damaged or is missing limbs or has 30 days to live or is retarded or is a hermaphrodite, you can befriend her and not fuck.
contradicting statement is contradicting.
you're not making any sense.
perhaps you don't know the true meaning of platonic friendships.
I for one don't believe in platonic friendships.
the only female friends that i have such a relationship with are the ones i'm clearly not sexually attracted to.
the ones that have attempted to put me in the friend-zone category clearly knows that if their ass gets thrown in my face, i'm taking it so therefore the whole platonic friendship is out the window.
exhibit a:
when harry met sally
Lets be honest here only the people who need to smash everything they see cannot have platonic friendships.
If I meet a chick who is married, then right there I know the relationship will take a certain route. So friendship is the only thing that could ever come out of that.
I have a few of them. Chicks I grew up with mainly, but still there it is.
Platonic friendships are possible... except for a few.
If I meet a chick who is married, then right there I know the relationship will take a certain route. So friendship is the only thing that could ever come out of that.
I have a few of them. Chicks I grew up with mainly, but still there it is.
Platonic friendships are possible... except for a few.
I have 2 really good platonic female friends...I'm not physically attracted to either one of them though.
married chicks are the easiest ones to have sex with.
my experience with these "friendships" is that they are one-way streets ... with the chick expectin' me do to her favors ... and abusin' my friendship ... while not reciprocatin' ...
so i don't have any women i would consider friends ... acquaintances maybe ... but i ain't gonna help them move or buy them a christmas present or anything...
i could be a woman's friend ..who i wasn't attracted to.. if she was cool to be around ... but nowadays even these women think i'm only bein' nice to them because i want to bang them ... or they are attracted to me and they want to date me ...
i probably could not be the friend of a woman i was attracted to.... if i couldn't have her ... i would charge it to the game ... and keep it movin' ...
so i don't have any women i would consider friends ... acquaintances maybe ... but i ain't gonna help them move or buy them a christmas present or anything...
i could be a woman's friend ..who i wasn't attracted to.. if she was cool to be around ... but nowadays even these women think i'm only bein' nice to them because i want to bang them ... or they are attracted to me and they want to date me ...
i probably could not be the friend of a woman i was attracted to.... if i couldn't have her ... i would charge it to the game ... and keep it movin' ...
I always said that if I'm going to move her mattress then I'm fucking her on it. If she's just a friend, then I'm not helping her move a gotdamn thing, especially if she has a boyfriend/jump off/uncles/father/brother. I also am not going to listen to her vent, go out to eat (unless it's dutch), see any movies (unless it's dutch) or purchase any gifts.
Nuff said.
I just am not controlled by pussy. Some men are and some are not. Yes I would smash if the situation was presented to me. If it happens then it does... if not I do not trip about it because I have my other females who actually want to fuck me
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but this has nothing to do with the subject at hand.
I am not contradicting myself.I just keep it real. If she looks good with a nice shape I will want to fuck. I am just not controlled by pussy. This means I don't have to sleep with every female I come across. When I say immature men...I mean men that if the female is not fucking they can't hold a conversation with them or be a friend.
bullshit
No need. If you can't have a platonic relationship with a woman, you need to mature.
What you mean?
there is nothing wrong with helping your home girl move. You should already have your fuck team on deck so you don't need to think that about helping her. You supposed to be a friend because you care about them and not what they could give you in return
as posted above, i never said i couldn't.
Exactly. That doesn't mean become anyone's doormat but some of these answers
. It's not just women's mindsets that have relationships fucked up.
but you said "you" which where i was being quoted was directed at me.
i got you on the technicality.
Actually there's a lot wrong with it. Once she knows "you'll be there" you'll become "the-shoulder-to-cry-on-whatcha-doing-lets-go-eat-but-you-pay friend."
This WILL happen unless you let her know up front what you will and won't do and the costs of each.
I have only two female friends that I've known since 1998. They've moved a few times since then and they know not to even mention the words "help me move."
I don't have female friends. Friends is such a subjective terms that tries to get objectified bu imbeciles. Make a list of what your expectations of a female friend are, try to reverse the positions, if neither side is clearly exploiting the other then you have a friendship. If it doesn't, well you're delusional.
What is wrong with her coming to you for help and you being there for her emotionally if she needed you? So she has to give you some pussy before you help her? Yall some cold hearted brothas.
It is up to the particular dude if he will pay for her food. If she is a real friend she would not ask you to pay
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